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I lost my virginity with a lad and I haven't bled. Does that mean there is a problem?

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Question - (4 September 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 19 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *K) writes:

Well ive just recently had sex with a lad i met and ive had sex with him 3 times but i did'nt bleed.Is this normal or have i got a problem ?

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A female reader, little miss helpful United Kingdom +, writes (19 September 2007):

little miss helpful agony auntNo, this is not a problem. You're one of the lucky people that don't.

I wish I was like you!.

Don't worry, you're fine. You're just really lucky!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007):

I didn't bleed at all. I also didn't do a lot of physical activity or stretching throughout my life, so I have no idea why. Rest assured that not bleeding is perfectly normal.

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A female reader, JessIzFit United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

JessIzFit agony auntYes don't worry, it is absoulutely normal, some people bleed but you were lucky and you didn't. Don't worry about it and be glad that you didn't bleed

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A female reader, faith scott boreanaz United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

 faith scott boreanaz agony auntThis is perfectly natural, some people do not bleed like others (i didnt) Usually the people who dont bleed have done alot of physical activity mostly involving the thighs such as horse riding and running and other sports. dont worry about a thing.

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A female reader, Skeez United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

Skeez agony auntits normal. I didnt bleed when I first ever had sex.

And its possible that your hymen could have been torn by the use of Tampons coz they can sometimes do that if you use them at all. If you dont then theres still nothing to worry about. Its normal. some ppl bleed othes dont.

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A female reader, deejuliet United States +, writes (4 September 2007):

deejuliet agony auntNot everyone bleeds. This does happen with MOST people, but not all. Your hymen may have already been broken from physical activity or you just may be lucky.

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A male reader, In love with God's creation United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2007):

It is normal, relax!

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A female reader, sexi South Africa +, writes (4 September 2007):

sexi agony auntHi, yes it is normal. Not everyone blleds their first time. you were just one of the luck ones. there is nothing for you to worry about.

Regards,mail me if you wanna talk

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