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female
age
30-35,
*hantell
writes:hi, i recently lost my viginity to a male, but i didn't enjoy it at all. i have always thought i was a lesbian but people told me i just needed a decent bloke. i've snogged girls before and i enjoy it more than snogging men. when i was younger thinking about having sex with a man made me feel sick. i would rather sleep with a girl than a male, and i think males are attractive, please help me, i'm confused, am i a lesbian? thankyou
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reader, rcn  +, writes (22 September 2007):
 I have to correct on of the answers, Girls are confused at your age. I don't recall any time where I was wanting to be with a man. I could see if I was a girl, why I would want to be with girls too.
It's OK to experiment with your sexuality. I know females over the years who say their first times weren't enjoyable either. From what I've heard is girls know how to make girls feel good.
You have to look at puberty too, you're done quite done growing into yourself. Your emotions are bouncing as you develop who you are going to be. I don't think you have anything to worry about.
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reader, x-kay_kay-x  +, writes (21 September 2007):
 hi i`m n the same age catorgeory n it sounds like u don`t no what u r if u ask me i`d say u r bi but u r 2 young to no so don`t take this personally als o iwouldn`t tell n e one at skool incase it starts a rumor n ya get picked on for it but there is no disgrace to it but ither popele might not c it that way just keep quiet and keep lookin 4 signs X-kay-X
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reader, chantell +, writes (21 September 2007):
chantell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for your answers they helped alot. thanx
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reader, brooke5426 +, writes (21 September 2007):
 everyone is a bit confused about their sexuality at your age. hormones are everywhere and you dont know what to think. when i was about your age i had a crush on a girl - it wasnt like when you see a girl and think shes pretty, i actually really fancied this girl. but i'm completely straight.
don't do anything you dont like. and just let things happen. if you dont like having sex with boys - DONT DO IT!! and if you dont like kissing boys dont kiss them!and if at any point you meet a boy you do want to kiss or have a relationship with then do it. take it day by day and just do what feels right for you. dont be in such a rush to give yourself a label.
brooke
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reader, little miss helpful +, writes (21 September 2007):
 hi.i can see why your confused but a lot of people go through this been confused about there sexuality. in time you will know whether your straight or a lesbian but don't try and make the decision it's just who you are. don't be in a hurry. go out and have fun.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (21 September 2007):
 you are so young!
every girl at some point in their lives will think about girls and wonder about their sexuality.
in time you will realise your true feelings but don't be in to much of a hurry to grow up!
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