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reader, Nickylo +, writes (22 March 2011):
well Hun normally they are distant and don't want to be around you put you down and ignore your needs. they tend to treat you more like a maid, cook, accountant that they do the love of their life.although keep in mind that men are so different then women. we are very emotional and think emotionally and romantically.when a man gets stressed due to work or just life they can shut down and be quiet, be less interested in everything around them because they are having a hard time. just ask him sit down and say "Honey i wanna ask you something, i love you so much and you mean so much to me but lately i don't feel that your as loving and caring as you used to be is something wrong? i know im fairly young but ive been married 3years now. and our marriage has changed alot in that short period of time. after 6mo -1yr the stress of life and living with someone set in and caused arguments and coldness until we learned to deal with it, and financial issues, unexpected pregnancy, overbearing family members and being laid of from work have all contributed to rough patches in our marriage. but unless you forced your man to marry you by gunpoint i guarantee he does love you. he married you he comes home to you. maybe he just needs you to talk to him a little. my husband is very quiet and doesnt handle stress well, and he literally can shut down, he also has the macho guy thing where he feels he cant show weakness in front of me or ill think less of him and over the past 3 yrs he is learning that sharing with me when he is stressed, depressed, sad, angry, or hurt brings us closer and makes our relationship go smoother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2009): Iunderstand where your coming from. I don't think my husband cares about me anymore either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Talk to him and make it plain and simple. Your question is quite short so i'm not sure of your situation. I think if he stops kissing, hugging and touching then yes, he may of stop loving you. If the talking has stopped then also yes. But without knowing more, i just cannot say.
take care
xx
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 October 2007):
 You can't always tell, you need to ask him sraight out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): I knew my ex-husband didn't love me anymore, if he ever did, when he refused to be supportive during a very complicated pregnancy followed by a serious illness (a year and one-half of hell.) He treated me like I ruined his life and became abusive. If you have gone through a traumatic situation in your life and your husband is not concerned about your welfare, he does not love you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Look him in the eyes. Tell him you don't to want to waste his time or to have your time wasted. Tell him he would be a fool to lie. Then ask him if he loves you. Then believe the answer and act accordingly.
I had a female friend who's husband when asked if he loved her, said ive told you that i love you i'll let you know if that changes :)
He may not be expressing is love but thats a different question.
Good Luck
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reader, kenny  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Without knowing to much about your situation here he will become very despondant and communication will lessen. he may spend more time out, in the shed, or on the computer, or staying out late ect. Intimate touches and romantic love making will be a thing of the past and he will seem cold and shallow.
Take care x
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reader, Lila +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Without knowing more,hard to say.I would say lack of intrest,hostility,no physical affection,but marriages go through such ups and downs and cooling off periods.Also sometimes people go through depression and anxiety for weeks and keep it to themselves,has he done anything specific?
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