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I'm worried about contraception.

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Question - (14 October 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

How do I start..my girl friend is on birth control! ok..she tells me to come in her all the time but the thing is that I don't want no kids + I'm a lil bit scared of what is gonna happen with my sperm that goes inside of her...is the sperm gonna be in her forever if she doesnt clean it? ...whats the chance of getting her pregnet?...what if she dosent take the pills at the time shes supposed to taked?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2007):

You and your girlfriend need to sit down and talk, you both need to consider that contraception is Very important.

using a condom is so easy, just place it on, the sperm will fertalise the egg when in gets inside the female.

Good Luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

I really apriciate the help..thank you ppl

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A female reader, angel...x United Kingdom +, writes (14 October 2007):

i agree in a way with some of the answers people have gave you yes , but what is the point in her being on the pill if you are just going to wear a condom everytime. But i suppose if you dont want a baby at the minute either do it without or tell her to come of the pill because theres not much point being on it if you arent taking advantage of it. i hpe that helps x x x

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A male reader, clickyclick United Kingdom +, writes (14 October 2007):

clickyclick agony auntPhiatiger is right, Wear a condom, and a child is definately for life.

Take Care

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

If you definately dont want children then dont take the chance reguardless of whether she tells you she is on the pill and it is ok. You have to take responsibility for yourself, wear a condom.

Sperm can live up to three days inside her and if she did forget to take her pill then there is a chance the sperm would still beable to get her pregnant. Oh and it doesnt matter how much she cleans it, she would never be able to guarentee eliminating all of the sperm.

Be careful - a child is for life.

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A female reader, Lila United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

Lila agony auntOh,I got pregnant on the pill,so did my mom.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

rcn agony auntUse a condom, problem not solved but close. Remember birth control is not completely effective either. I know quite a few people who's children came when they used birth control.

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A female reader, Lila United States +, writes (14 October 2007):

Lila agony auntWear a condom everytime, my spidey since is going off. Both of you guys are very young and to deal with a child,get outta here. Sperm can live inside her about three days,not forever,but it's a long time anyway. P.S. girls don't usually say "CUM IN ME" unless they are drunk,crazy,or want to have children.

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