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writes:What exactly does "taking a break mean"? She still calls me and talks to me and wants to see me and says she loves me.Very confused. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): It sounds to me that she want so time alone, without having to arrange dates etc. She sounds quite young and unsure of what she wants. If this break time helps to sort out things in her head then it is well spent. I have taken break time before, nothing against the person i was with, but my head felt full to burst. I need that time when we werent going out to get things back on track. Once i had the break time, we got back together and everything was ok, but everyone is different. Let her have her time and if she doesnt get things back on track by three months i would talk to her and say you think it should be finished and move on.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 Taking a break also means that, after sorting out what she is feeling, she may decide the break will be permanent. Sorry, I don't think it is intended to protect the person being told about the break, but to protect the person who asks for it.
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reader, Lila +, writes (20 October 2007):
 I think it means she's young and needs to sort out her feelings.She cares about you on some level,just maybe trying to figure out if you are "the one"
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reader, kenny  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 With the limited amount of information provided here i can only say that taking a break means she still has feelings for you but wants to put your relationship on hold for a while. Maybe she wants to clear her head and collect her thoughts, who knows, all you can do is ask her.
Good luck
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reader, Aredas  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 well usually taking a break would be sort of like you're trying what its like not being together, to see what would be better... i guess one could compare it to marriage separation if you wanted to...
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