A
male
age
30-35,
*ayguy16
writes:hey everybody i need some advice, i'm only 16, I like this guy, but i dont know for sure if he's gay or straight, i get some mixed feeling that he is gay on the way he acts, i'm so sad over it, since i came out about 6 months ago i just started to like him for no apparent reason, and all my other friends just say its a faze and I should get over him cause he's STRAIGHT, and he has been out with 1 girl so that kinda supports him being gay, i get mixed feeling from him that he is gay or even bi-sexual, after i told my other friends a liked him by text, they then told him i liked him, the following weekend after the weekend he was told, he brought it up with me around all my other pals, he seemed anxious about finding out if i did, but in the moment with everybody about i got nervious and says no, then the following week after he asked me again then i gave him the same reply, "NAW A DONT", but he never brought it up again, after this i've noticed the slightest thing in his behavous, up to now he alway been cheery around me and happy, and i'm always very happy and cheery around him, about 2-3 weeks ago we stayed at a friends he was laughing at the stupidest things i says, the day after he text me and was saying the things i says the nyt before word for word, then l8er again at another friends house he was always trying to sit beside me or thats what i seemed to notice, and me and him were lying in the couch with 2 other friends, he says he couldnt get comfy and we al got up rearranged the cover we had, he layed down and he sas to me lye hear, to my surprise it was right beside him i was to lye, and when he found out i liked him and after asking me like twice if i did he got realy quite and figity around me, but he seems to be coming back out of his shell again, and up to now he alway find oppertunetys to carry on with me, E,G, pillow fights etc...,,but if anybody has any kinda help they can give it would be a great help,,,
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (25 October 2007):
 sounds like you have all the answers you need, and if it does backfire just tell him that if his behaviour is ambiguous enough to confuse you there must be something to it.
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reader, PennilessDreams +, writes (25 October 2007):
I have to agree with Lila, more than likely, he's bisexual. I have plenty of bisexual male friends who show some of the same tendencies as your guy friend seems to do.
And yes, I would believe he does like you. :)
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reader, Lila  +, writes (25 October 2007):
 No straight men I know pillow fight,or snuggle up with their buddies. He's at least a little into guys,and I would say he does like you.
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