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I feel weird trying to spice it up...

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Question - (13 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hiya everyone!

So I wanted to surprise my lad somehow with a little something extra added to our sex life.

He's going away for a business trip and will be gone for Christmas :( But when he gets back, we're having our own private Xmas, just the two of us.

So I bought one of those "Sexy Santa's Helpers" costumes and I'm going to obviously wear it for him.

I'm just a wee bit nervous. I know it's just a little dress-up but I've nevr done it before and I'm scared he'll think I'm wierd or won't be turned on!

And, I don't know exactly what to do. I am not good at the whole teasing/seduction thing. Do I wear it and then act out something? Wear it and just hav sex? How do I tease him?

I just am not sure if he'll like it. Nervous!!!

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A female reader, Lila United States +, writes (13 October 2007):

Lila agony auntHave 2 drinks before he gets there you will be more calm,just don't get sloppy drunk. If you feel stupid being sexy play it cute he'll think it's hot even if you say nothing at all. Tell him you have a present for him upstairs...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2007):

I've just 'googled' sexy santa costume and got directed to forplay.com. 21 different outfits. All very nice.

Jeeeesus! Are you trying to give him a heart attack or something?

You won't need to do much, I feel sure. Just appear at the bottom of the stairs wearing the thing and wait for the fireworks. He's a lucky boy!

Phil

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