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writes:Alrigh. I was here awhile ago. long while ago.Here I am. The fictional name I will use here is Alex.(Yes, that name is not really mine). I'm a 12 year old loser, but that's not the problem. that was a post long ago.I'm paranoid and it's driving me crazy.Man, this is hard to explain.When i think about ANYTHING, I feel safe in my head.But when I acually do actions like going to this website for instance, I hear other people's voices in my head."Man, alex is such a loser because he is going to these 'advice' websites" I would imagine the popular kids in school saying.And other things said by imagionary people like that.Now I'm not hearing acual voices. It's just the akward feeling like that i get. (only when I go to websites like this).Also, my consious is thinking "I can't believe I'm on an 'advice' website. I must be a complete and total loser."With every word I type here i feel more and more like a loser.How do I stop this wierd feeling?It's driving me insane!!!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, jamey_37 +, writes (16 October 2007):
 True men ask for advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): Hi Hun,
Im taking this as a real problem.
You are not a looser no one is a looser, The way I found this site was by asking for help and all the wonderfull people on this site gave me alot of guidence. Hunny your very young but I feel you need to speak to someone if you are feeling this way you need to find out what is the reason behind it all, Have you a parent you can talk with comfortably, At your age you should not be worrying like this just having fun, Try and find someone you can speak to about your paranoia.. It is not good for someone of your age to feel this way TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Another One +, writes (14 October 2007):
 I don't want to take the chance that this post is not serious. "Alex", you are not a loser, no matter if you are not "for real" or have a problem with posting on this site and feeling paranoid. If you really feel paranoid, I suggest that you talk with an adult or perhaps a doctor. If you are a prankster, I suggest that you talk with an adult or perhaps a doctor. Good luck with your problem, you are definitely not a "loser".
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (14 October 2007):
First, the'll never find out. Second, asking for other opinions is a good thing to do. Third after reading the opinions you make up your own mind as what you are going to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): Hey, Alex! What's with the "paranoia"? I am several times your age and I wish I could have talked with somebody online at a "place" like this when I was twelve. There weren't to many people I felt comfortable talking to then about "certain things". So, I devoured books in libraries, etc. Relax. You are fine. Websites like this are a lot easier than going to libraries. Not that you shouldn't go to libraries for some things! I love libraries! But those books don't talk to you or answer your persnoal questions the way we can here. And you might be surprised at the number of "adult type" people who like to ask questions here, too.
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reader, thewiseman +, writes (14 October 2007):
 okay for starters. to hell with the popular kids. they are usually a bunch of high maintenence spoiled little brats that suck the life out of every other person that is not popular or is in there group. and there is nothing you can do to change that. But I understand that feeling in your head. But heres something you should try to do. Try to talk to yourself or thinking out loud. think about what good can come out of the situation and what bad things can occur. and to let you know your not a loser because you came here. besides no one in your school will probably ever know you where here. Not even the popular kids will know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): All kids have the same insecurities as you. They just don't accept it. Everyone feels weird when they're approaching puberty. Even as adults sometimes we feel awkward too and have our own insecurities.
I think you are giving too much importance to what others say. You are your own person and it's all right to be different. Lots of men come here to get advice too. Sometimes adults have to listen to other people too and kids vene more. So you are not crazy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007): How do you stop this weird feeling. Stop writing into this site for advice! Go get a nice life, make some friends and just be determined to be a happy person...ok? Good luck!
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reader, rcn +, writes (14 October 2007):
 This is above our capability. I must say for your age, you really have excellent spelling, punctuation, and paragraph separation.
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reader, Lila +, writes (14 October 2007):
 Are you serious or is this your oh so clever way of making fun of everyone here? Teenagers also feel the dorks,if this is a constant thing go see a shrink,noone can fix you here.
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