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writes:Hi, just a couple of questions. My boyfriend fingered me last night and got a different 'spot' to normal. It normally feels really good, but is over in a few seconds, this felt ok but my legs were shaking the whole time, is this normal? Also, I want to give him oral sex but have absolutely no clue as to how. Can anyone tell me how, give tips or where I can look it up?Thanks.
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reader, LethalInjection-x +, writes (19 November 2009):
 The initial response gives fanstatic advice on the oral sex issue, so I don't feel there is much to add. However, when you say it felt "okay" and you were shaking.. do you normally orgasm? or have you ever experienced an orgasm? Because if you haven't, it could be the start of one. I find that my thighs sort of "judder" slightly as I'm approaching orgasm, which either stops or intensifies during the orgasm.
I've also heard that the shaking is sometimes due to "hitting a nerve" - not exactly what happens, but similar to an involuntary twitch but triggered by sex. So it could also be this.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (19 November 2009):
 The shaking is probably normal. Just wait until you climax, then you'll REALLY feel a lot of shaking going on.
In regard to giving oral, there is really no bad way to go about that except to remember one thing: Keep your teeth out of it (off of it). The simplest way is to position down between his legs while he is seated, and begin by licking, kissing and perhaps gently suckling his scrotum (balls) a bit, then alternately licking up (and down) his erection.
That should result in an increasingly stiff erection (hard-on), then you include kissing up and down his shaft and especially his tip. Gradually, begin taking the erection into your mouth, but keeping the teeth out of the way.
Depending on his experience with it, he may begin to trust into your mouth as a male typically plunges into a vagina. He should keep the plunging to a minimum, allowing you more control of the depth and speed of penetration. Just continue gently sucking (not blowing) the erection, allowing penetration as deep as comfortable for you, which will likely bring him to orgasm.
If he is able to resist ejaculation for several minutes or more, you can alternate the sucking with additional kissing and licking his shaft and scrotum. This increases tension prior to release (orgasm), which usually enhances the pleasure of ejaculation.
Expect as much as a tablespoon of sperm/semen to squirt into your mouth when he releases. Depending upon your preference, you may swallow or spit it out (preferably into a towel or cup if the latter). A healthy man's sperm is harmless to you, even considered nourishing, if you choose to ingest it.
Oral satisfaction may also be applied while the man wears a condom, if avoiding the body fluid is preferred. Whether swallowed or expelled, the flavor may be bitter, salty or even bland - but some women enjoy.
The important consideration during his ejaculation is to continue sucking, preferably with increased intensity, until he has completely released. Afterward, the tip of his erection will likely be extremely sensitive. He may strongly wish to withdraw, or allow you hold the erection (preferably motionless) in your mouth awhile afterward. Some men may enjoy you to resume licking and sucking the tip of his penis following release, which may continue in smaller amounts.
That's the basics, and there are numerous variations and advanced techniques.
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