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I'd really like him to try oral

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Question - (13 August 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, *ovemeright11 writes:

I don't know if I am wrong to ask this but I am dieing to have my boyfriend eat me out but he is not to sure about doing it but I really want him to try it. I want him to be comfortable and just try a new thing with me how can I help ease him into it? He seems to be comfortable playing with me using his hands but i really want him to have the random spark and try giving me oral. He did tell me he tried it once but he was not to fond of the taste but I told him I am not who ever you tasted I am your girlfriend now and you can assume that just cause it was bad once that it will be again. I almost want to cry over it cause its a very intimate and sensual thing for a man to do to a women. I give him oral but he never asks for it and strangely he is not really into receiving it either. One thing he did tell me is that he was never taught how to please a women even tho he is 29 he is still a little lost he had never had sex in the shower till I jumped in the shower and came onto him there. SO what can I do please help I am young 23 year old and just want to enjoy my man that I love in every way and vise versa.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011):

the taste can vary greatly from one woman to the next. That's no reason for him to use.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (13 August 2011):

DoubleM agony auntWell I suppose that some fellas are just not prone to be oral. About 40 years ago, I myself was a little reluctant, but "going down" on a woman soon became a favorite activity. I think it's kind of an acquired taste, you might say. But if your guy has any balls at all, he will give it a shot. You could have him read some pointers at "Double M on cunnilingus." Just copy and enter in the search field.

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A female reader, lerato29 South Africa +, writes (13 August 2011):

lerato29 agony aunti agree with sammy ,tell him to try for you only once and then if he doesnt like he doesnt have to do it again.

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A female reader, sammy1986 United Kingdom +, writes (13 August 2011):

i would tell him how its making you feel also if he doesnt like looking at genitals then tell him to close his eyes while he does it if he,s worried about he smell or taste then have a shower together before he does it or tell him you would like to do the 69 then you both get pleasure good luck

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A female reader, Lovemeright11 United States +, writes (13 August 2011):

Lovemeright11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Lovemeright11 agony auntOne side note I must add is my boyfriend has said one thing that maybe why there is this tiny issue he said that he thinks a women and males genitals are not appealing to him. I told him they are to me and most people do like parts of the body on a person even if they love them. Genitals can be nice looking. - think that's all I have to add.

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