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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and I am his first girlfriend even though he is 19. My big problem is he is a terrible kisser and I just can't get past it. Help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2011): You either have it or you don't because kissing comes naturally. I dated this one girl one and off a while back; very pretty, great body, good job, beautiful eyes, but kissing her was like kissing a dead fish. It was really tough trying to get sexually intimate with her, since kissing is probably the most important part of developing a strong physical bond with your partner. I don't know if it's because her mouth was shaped a certain way, but I attempted to start a relationship with this girl on two different occasions and it went nowhere - her terrible kissing must be genetic or something.I hate to be negative, but your boyfriend probably just doesn't have it in him. I've always received compliment regarding my kissing prowess, and this was right during my teenage years when I started kissing.
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reader, lerato29  +, writes (3 September 2011):
 lead the way,teach him and he will be proud of you.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (3 September 2011):
 What a great opportunity for YOU!!!!Turn this "problem" on its head.. and become your B/F's "kissing tutor".... that will give YOU plenty of opportunity to instruct this guy in JUST WHAT YOU WANT!!!!Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2011): I suppose you think he can learn by Mind Melding with you?Contrary to what pop-culture has led you to believe, people don't just automatically know these things or have the skill that makes sex scenes look amazing on camera.In fact real kisses never look like that. Not at first.You have to teach him how you liked to be touched and kissed and all that, and he has to teach you how he likes to have those things done to him.That's the best part of a new relationship, getting know how to push each other's buttons.Flynn 24
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reader, RuthyHart +, writes (3 September 2011):
 Have you tried telling him about it? if not, tell him its nothing to be ashamed of.. and you can show him how to kiss.. next time you go to make out tell him to stay still, and you lead the kiss..that way youll show how you like to kiss, then he would learn. :) hope this helps..
i was dating this one guy in high school, and i hated when he kissed me cuz i would barely turn around and there he was his eyes were closed and his mouth was wide open sucking my whole face in hahaha..
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