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anonymous
writes: im 17, ive been dating this guy for almost 2 months. ive liked him for 3 years before he finally asked me out. things are going good and all. but theres a bit of a problem. in our freshmen year of high school he dated a girl for 3 months. he was like madly in love with her but she broke it off 3 months later. he's dated since then and now he's dating me. he for we started going out he would talk with him about how he cant get over her and he's stil love with her. now that we're dating i was taking with him and he's said that he still love her. he cant forget about her. i even asked him if he'll ever get over him and he said he doesnt think he will. he told me that things are going good with me and him and hopefuly we can last long. so i dont know now. is this something i need to worry about? he says he doesnt want to talk with her anymore or anything like that, but i cant help but think if they start talking again will he go back to her and leave me? i dont know what to do
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reader, lerato29 +, writes (8 August 2011):
please dont waste your time with him or you will always feel like you are competing with the other woman tell him to go back to her and live you alone you deserve better than what his giving you.
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (8 August 2011):
He is making you feel insecure about your relationship. The best thing to do is to forget about it and give the relationship the best shot you have. I'll bet he'll forget about her soon enough.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (8 August 2011):
If he's not over his ex, then it's best not to be with him. Don't waste your time on someone who will be thinking of another girl when he should only be thinking of you. You have your whole life for relationships, but if you're going to be with someone, be with someone who wants you and you only.
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