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Hi, i'm kristina. I am 15 years old and i live in Florida. I have brown curly hair and blue eyes. I'm a shorty, 5'3.. i hate to say.. I go to a public high school in Hudson. I am have so many friends, but my bff's are Ryan, Ashley, Toniann, David, Erica, and Kasia.. i lost my bff natalie due to, uhm well, her brother and i had a fling (he was my rebound and he new it). I had one true love, but he broke my heart, and i'm just now, after almost 7 months am starting to get over him. I'm still not completely over him, but i have hope in finding some one new anyway. Uhm if your are interested, message me. I'll give you a shot. Who knows, it might be fun..

Well, i hope i give the answers to those of you who are asking for help.. I wish you all the best of luck =]

I love World of Warcraft but want a girlfriend and don't want to turn into a geek!

Q.   Hi, Im a 15 year old boy who is desperate for a girlfriend. But the thing is i play on world of warcraft ALOT (online game). And i dont want to turn into a geek which i think the girls think i am. I love the game but i really want a girlfirend...

A.   6 August 2007: you know what. who cares if you play the stupid computer games lol if its something you enjoy, just keep playing it and if a girl doesnt like you because of that, its her loss. i think its stupid for people just to judge you because you play a ... (read in full...)

I can't get it right on top.

Q.   Ive been seeing my boyfriend for about two months now.. however when it comes to sex, he seems to be doing all the work. For some strange reason i just cant do it right on top. how and what do i do? I want him to enjoy it, he says he does but he ...

A.   6 August 2007: awh well you could maybe well.. hmm sit on his lap and just kind of move up and down start out slowly but then you know start to go faster.. and kinda lean back while you are on top.. it alows him to play with you clit too.. uhm i hope that kind of ... (read in full...)

What does cut and uncut mean, penis-wise?

Q.   whats the difference between a cut and uncut penis?...

A.   30 July 2007: it most likely means circumsized or not circumsized.. which means they either got a little piece of skin removed from the penis (most likely when they were babies) or they didnt.. i hope that helps.. and if it doesnt just look up circumcision ... (read in full...)

I think I love him but he can't seem to put me first; is he a player?

Q.   Hi, I'm 15 years old and I went out with this 16-year-old guy last year for about 3 months. We then broke up because he was always busy working and with school and we barely saw each other. We didn't see or speak to each other for almost 7 mont...

A.   19 July 2007: i'm sorry that this is happening to you hun. take it from me, it sucks.. all i can say is that if you really love the guy like i used to love my guy.. no matter what anyone says or tells you to do. you most likely wont listen to them but all i can ... (read in full...)

She's 13 and wants to give me a handjob. I haven't met her yet and I'm worried about this!

Q.   well u c im 12 and my gf is 13 i really like her but dont know her yet....... i met her on mysapce but she doesnt live to far from me... we always text and call and then she brough up that it would be fun if she gave me a hand job and if i fingererd ...

A.   18 July 2007: haha awh your so young. but if you really dont think you are ready, just tell her.. but if you think you are ready, but you dont know what to do, tell her that too. she wont think you are stupid.. it mite actually make it more fun cuz she'll teach ... (read in full...)

What is the correct way to give a guy a hand job and more?

Q.   Hi, I am very inexperienced and have a few little questions... How do you go about giving a guy a head job? Like how do you get started? What do you do first? Do you start by giving him a hand job? Usually how long does it take for him to get a...

A.   18 July 2007: for starters.. use lubricate, it makes it a lotttt easier.. then you could rub up and down, start off slow, then get faster.. or you could just play around with it.. rub around the head, but gentley.. you could make your hands swirl around at the ... (read in full...)

How do I have phone sex?

Q.   How do I 'make love' to my girlfriend on the telphone? We have kissed each other this way. Has any other boyfriend done this with their long distance girlfriend?...

A.   17 July 2007: hah its actually quite easy lol. just either get your gf to moan while shes masturbating on the phone. or if that doesnt work for you just talk about what you'd be doing if you were there.. its really simple once you do it more. and at first it mite ... (read in full...)

My ex keeps giving me mixed signals - I've not done anything to deserve this, and it's just torture!

Q.   Since mine and my Girlfriends long distance realtionship of 2 years broke up 3 weeks ago today, I can't help but hate how little contact I can make with her. For the first 2 weeks or so, I couldn't contact her due to her being on holiday. But since ...

A.   17 July 2007: awhh.. this almost made me cry.. ahh. i agree you dont deserve to be treated like that, at all. you are so sweet. but you know, maybe she still does love you, but she thinks that she will always have you as like maybe a fall back guy.. if you know ... (read in full...)

We want to wait until we're engaged or married before we lose our virginity; what can we do in the meantime?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 1/2 months and things are starting to get a bit more physical. We haven't had sex, far from it probably, but each time we are together, we always seem to touch a little bit more. Go a little bit farther. ...

A.   16 July 2007: lol, ever heard of a hand job.. just as fun. and you could finger her, or just feel around her. kissing eachother everywhere is also funn. maybe you 2 could even go down on eachother.. but completely up to you. hope that helped you =] good luck ... (read in full...)

My partner is lazy; am I wrong to expect more, given the circumstances?

Q.   I am the only wage earner in the family and have to work away one sometimes two nights a week. When at home I have to do all the cooking and when away my partner only buys readymade meals. The house is a mess because she says she is not a ...

A.   16 July 2007: No, your not wrong at all.. you need to wake her up some how and show her that its not fair that you work outside the home, and she doesnt work inside the home.. whether shes a housewife or not, she needs to help.. maybe you should stop cleaning the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is behaving strangely around me

Q.   hello right im really worried about my boyfriend because all this week he has been funny with me i just asked him if anything is wrong and he said no but i dont believe him =/ i dunno what to do....he dosent txt me as much as he used to and i we...

A.   16 July 2007: well try talking to him about it.. and if that doesnt work, start doing the same things he is doing.. and show him how it feels.. well did you ever maybe think that you were doing somethings differently or just something that he doesnt like.. i... (read in full...)

We're not exactly dating but I'm not sure if he really cares for me, he kissed another girl

Q.   i have been kinda seeing this lad for 3 years, we are not going out because of the distance! and when we are together we dont go on the pull and that...how ever the other night we went out, everything was fine, i came back fro the bar, and he was ...

A.   16 July 2007: ok wow. you know maybe he does care for you, but 1) he isnt ready for just 1 girl 2) he doesnt care 3) maybe he was drunk and wasnt thinking (still not a good excuse, but you know sometimes you screw up) but dont get yourself to attached to him, ... (read in full...)

Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl?

Q.   I need a lot of people's opinions on this subject so if you could give me your perspective it would be great. Ok...Is there any situation where a guy should hit or smack a girl? I mean if the girl is hitting him on his head because she is so mad at ...

A.   16 July 2007: there is NEVER EVER a reason for hitting in a relationship.. and if the case is the that the woman is hitting the guy, then guys, dont hit them back.. cuz its only you who will end up getting into to trouble, because how many guys do you think will ... (read in full...)

Can things work out if my ex takes me back?

Q.   i really need some advice am i kidding my self in thinking that if my ex takes me back after cheating on him twice things will work and and we will both be happy with each other please help anyone out there ...

A.   16 July 2007: well, i cant really speak for what you mite or mite not do, but my guess that if he keeps taking you back, he must really love you.. and you dont find alott of men that do that.. so if you keep cheating on him, you mite just end up losing him and ... (read in full...)

I have sticky eyelashes, why?

Q.   Why do I have sticky eyelashes? Is it bad to have it?...

A.   16 July 2007: Well, the last time i had my eyelashes stick to eachother or stick to eyes so i couldnt get them open without getting a wet cloth to wipe them off was because i got pink eye.. but if you have had sticky eyelashes for all your life, they i dont ... (read in full...)

When we broke up she said she'd find someone new but time was ticking by for me!

Q.   I have recently split with my girlfriend after a 3 and a half year relationship, she is 21 and I am 25. The last thing she said to me is that she will have no problem finding another partner, but the clock is ticking for me. Is it too late to find...

A.   16 July 2007: it is NEVER too late to find some one for you... especially at the age of 25.. i mean i just read an article of a 81 and a 82 year old getting married.. (and i'm not saying that you will be that old when you get married) i'm just saying that it is ... (read in full...)

If someone cheats on you, can they still really love you?

Q.   if someone cheats on you...can they still really love you!!?...

A.   16 July 2007: well they could still love you, but i dont think that they could stil be IN love with you.. becuase how you cheat on some1 you are still IN love with.. or idk maybe they are, but my guess is that 1) they arent ready to be commited to one person 2) ... (read in full...)

Is being fingered with more than one finger meant to hurt?

Q.   My boyfriend fingered me for the first time recently. And when he used 1 finger it felt fine. But when he tried to use more fingers it was really painful and then it started to bleed slightly. I'm really worried because its not meant to hurt is it? ...

A.   16 July 2007: well, myabe its just because you arent ready to have more than 1 finger inside you.. take it slow. it sounds to me though that you have probably never really fingered yourself.. or if you have you probably dont do it that often.. and thats fine. ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 and he's 16; can we still be together if we don't have sex?

Q.   My boyfriend is 16, I'm 13, in England the age of consent is 16, if we have a non-sexual relationship can we still be together? I know people will say I'm too young for love but I know I am in love with him, we've been through so much, but I don't ...

A.   16 July 2007: yes you can still be with him.. and i know that you dont want him to get into trouble.. and you are not too young for love because when i was just a year older than you i fell in love for the first time.. of course i didnt have the disipline to not ... (read in full...)

I'm 12 and my 17 year old boyfriend's penis is too big for me, what do I do?

Q.   im 12 and my boyfriend is 17 we have had sex but his penis is too large and wont go up can you please help me ? (give me some advice)...

A.   16 July 2007: ok.. wow.. yes i imagine he would be too big for you because of the age difference.. but even tho i dont agree with the age difference, if its what you really want to do.. then here's my advice to you: my sister actually went thru a similar ... (read in full...)

I wake up in the morning feeling miserable

Q.   Please help me everyone. I'm so upset. Since mine and my girlfriends break up almost 3 weeks ago, I find that I'm waking up in the morning miserable, and I don't know how to help it. This is starting to seem like depression, but I don't wan...

A.   15 July 2007: well, i think that i already answered this, but its not showing so i'm going to answer it again.. i just want to say that i know exactly what you are going thru.. you seem like an incredibley sweet guy.. and you seem to be sensitive too.. and thats ... (read in full...)

How an i make my exgirlfriend want to get back with me?

Q.   How an i make my exgirlfriend want to get back with me? i have been with this girl for almost two years and we have both changed during that time. I have grown to love her soo much but i have pushed her so far away from me because i have primarily...

A.   15 July 2007: ok.. 1st off, i want to say i'm proud of you for changing for her.. it shows me how much you really do care for her.. maybe even love.. but what you need to do is just talk to her.. tell her everything.. even throw in a few tears if nessacary, to ... (read in full...)

Is my new beau just a player?

Q.   Im recently splittin up with my husband of two years and I met a man, we have been hangin out for almost 2 months and we have had sex three times, he keeps telling me he really likes me but he doesent want a relationship right now because i have ...

A.   15 July 2007: ok...well maybe he isnt playing you, because maybe he doesnt want to be a rebound or anything like that.. so i can understand that.. but at the same time, something tells me that he might... but then again, i dont know.. maybe you should just try ... (read in full...)

She is hiding her bisexual past from me

Q.   Re: Girlfriend hiding bisexual past from boyfriend I discovered that my girlfriend dated another women a year before meeting me. Her email was open on my computer... curiosity got the best of me. I know I was wrong to peek. My girlfriend doe...

A.   15 July 2007: well, what you do is you DONT tell her that you read her email because then she mite think you have trust issues.. whether they were open on your computer or not.. dont let her know that you read her emails.. ok what you do, is say you have this ... (read in full...)

I sometimes have flashbacks to previous bad sexual experiences

Q.   I just have a few questions. First of all, let me say that I'm in a wonderful relationship and we have lots of fun together. All right, recently my boyfriend has stoped telling me that he loves me. His 24 year old cousin and Grandmother think that ...

A.   15 July 2007: hah i know i just answered this, but i just also remember something.. maybe when you get those flashbacks, dont let him know it, or do let him know you are having one, and maybe the only way to get over having those flashbacks, would be to fight ... (read in full...)

I sometimes have flashbacks to previous bad sexual experiences

Q.   I just have a few questions. First of all, let me say that I'm in a wonderful relationship and we have lots of fun together. All right, recently my boyfriend has stoped telling me that he loves me. His 24 year old cousin and Grandmother think that ...

A.   15 July 2007: well, maybe thats just one of those things that you need to help eachother thru.. i mean, he is probably hurting for you because he loves you and that happened to you, the girl he loved.. and hes probably having trouble excepting that.. and you, you ... (read in full...)

Can anyone tell us how to make me have an orgasm?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been intimate for 11 months now and i have not yet received the pleasure of having a orgasm. We have tried many different things and yet it has not happened. We were wondering if anyone could give us any suggestions on a...

A.   15 July 2007: ok, this is a tuffy.. but i'm going to give you some tips.. ok, 1st off, i'm going to give you a few new positions to try: 1) try sitting on his lap with having intercourse, and rather then just moving up and down, and making yourself tired, try ... (read in full...)

I wake up in the morning feeling miserable

Q.   Please help me everyone. I'm so upset. Since mine and my girlfriends break up almost 3 weeks ago, I find that I'm waking up in the morning miserable, and I don't know how to help it. This is starting to seem like depression, but I don't wan...

A.   15 July 2007: awhh you are probably one of the sweetest guys.. sorry had to get that out.. now for the answer.. ok i know that its hard to let go of someone that you love, and i know that feeling about getting up in the morning and knowing that you have some one ... (read in full...)

My Mom found out I am not a virgin and wants me to stop seeing my boyfriend

Q.   my mum found out in not a virgin yesterday my mum out of the blue asked me if me and my b/f were sleeping together. iv been with him for 5 months and we had so i said yes and told he everything. i didnt want to lie to her but as she is never ...

A.   15 July 2007: hey.. uhm ok.. ya, i was also 14 when i lost it.. and my mom found out to when he broke up with me becuase i had a major meltdown.. but it killed her to know that i was only 14 when i lost it. she did get over it because she also did realize that ... (read in full...)

Shes 14, I am 16. Is it ok to date her?

Q.   a girl i like said she would go out with me if i ever asked her out but she knows i wouldn't because she's 14 and i'm 16. So is she too young for me? She flirts and talks alot to me and tells me she loves me. ...

A.   15 July 2007: ok wow. ya i was in that same uhm situation.. i was 14, he was 16. you really need to be careful with what you do with her, because not only is it illegal, but shes younger and more i guess fragile.. ok enough lecturing you on that, but yes you can ... (read in full...)

Is is ok for a 17 year old male to have sex with a 20 year old female?

Q.   Is ok if a 20yr(My Girl) and a 17yr old(Me) date and there is sex involved???...

A.   15 July 2007: hey, if your living in the US then no its not legal.. i found that out the hard way.. but to me age honestly shouldnt/doesnt matter as long as you are happy.. and you know, you are old enough to know what you are doing and so is she.. its not like ... (read in full...)

I get jealous because I cant compare to airbrushed models in a magazine

Q.   Why am i so jealous and insecure? Im 28 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. Hes a good man and will do anything for me and vice verca. Ive suffered from jealousy and insecurity now for many years, however i am bett...

A.   15 July 2007: maybe the other guy is right, maybe its depression.. or maybe its just that when it comes to your man, you dont want to share or have him seeing all these other women.. and thats perfectly ok.. trust me, i know how that can feel. but what you have ... (read in full...)

I have no desire to have sex, am I wierd?

Q.   Hi I have no desire to have sex, am I wierd? Most people my age seem to be obsessed by it but to be honest I don't feel the need to have sex, I'm not really interested in it. Why is this? I'm too scared to admit this to my friends....

A.   15 July 2007: Trust me, its normal not to be interested in sex. i mean not everyone has to have sex to be happy, it helps sometimes, but definetly not needed. plus, maybe your not interested in it yet because you havent met anyone that you truely want to have sex ... (read in full...)

Is it safe to masturbate in the shower?

Q.   I'm 14 and have had a sexual urge to masturbate daily for the last year and watch pornographey is this normal? Secondly I feel guilty by doing so I don't understand why it seems I enjoy it. I don't mean to be in detail but after I have done it I ...

A.   15 July 2007: It is perfectly normal to masterbate everyday. i mean every1 does it. you dont need to feel guilty about it because its a natural thing, and its part of growing up. watching porn is also a normal thing. i mean i dont think i know anyone who hasnt ... (read in full...)

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