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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend fingered me for the first time recently. And when he used 1 finger it felt fine. But when he tried to use more fingers it was really painful and then it started to bleed slightly. I'm really worried because its not meant to hurt is it? And not meant to bleed. I'm a virgin but i've used tampons before. I read somewhere that in some people you can have a skin in the middle of your vagina which can cause pain. Please help.
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reader, BigSis +, writes (29 April 2008):
 Erm, excuse me people, this girl doesn't need encouraging...she's 10-12 years old!
I'm sorry, my sweet, but I really can't be giving advice like that to a child.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008): YOUR ONLY 10 YEARS OLD!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 Fingering is not meant to hurt, or bleed. Your hymen may have been broken, and that might explain the bleeding. Or, maybe he was careless and hurt you, without breaking the hymen.
Even if your hymen was broken, you're still a virgin. If you want to do this again, make sure he does it right.
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reader, kristinakutie  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 well, myabe its just because you arent ready to have more than 1 finger inside you.. take it slow. it sounds to me though that you have probably never really fingered yourself.. or if you have you probably dont do it that often.. and thats fine. just tell him to take it easy and slow.. and if you want to be able to have more than 1 finger inside of you, work on yourself at home.. i remember the 1st time my bf fingered me with 2 and 3 fingers, it hurt and felt akward.. i still cant handle all the twisting around and what not, and i've already had sex.. so its normal, but maybe if you work with yourself at home it mite make it less painful.. but for now, just tell him to stick to 1 finger.. and also maybe you arent relaxing.. that could be the problem.. just try and relax and losen yourself up a bit.. it would definetly help you if you relaxed.. and if you cant handle more than 1 finger inside of you, you definitely arent ready for going all the way.. so dont force yourself to do anything that mite hurt you worse.. and remember, relax.. it helps a lottt.. good luck =]
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