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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Im recently splittin up with my husband of two years and I met a man, we have been hangin out for almost 2 months and we have had sex three times, he keeps telling me he really likes me but he doesent want a relationship right now because i have alot to deal with, last weekend my ex came up to him in a club while i was dancing with him and this new guy got very upset, ever since then hes telling me all the time he does not want drama. Now he barley speaks to me and is all over other gurls. Is he a player or what?
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reader, kristinakutie +, writes (15 July 2007):
 ok...well maybe he isnt playing you, because maybe he doesnt want to be a rebound or anything like that.. so i can understand that.. but at the same time, something tells me that he might... but then again, i dont know.. maybe you should just try talking to him about it.. i mean dont scare him off, but just ask him if he is, because trust me, if you let yourself get played, especially just out of a divorce.. your guna hurt quite badly.. so just try to talk to him.. and maybe you shouldnt be rushing things so fast... but then again, we all heal differently.. well good luck with it all=]
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Thanks and i wanted to add that last weekend he talked to me but wouldnt dance with me and came home with me after the club or whatever and last night i tapped him on the shoulder to say hi and hes like what im just dancing having fun dont bother me! :( Yet he keeps tellin me oh i like you i just dont wnat a relationship now we can hang out and get to know each other, but before now even before we started talking ive always seen him and ive never once seen him dancing with gurls or leave the club with gurls now all of a sudden hes all over any gurl he can be, and sometimes if im dancing with someone else he will start to dance with someone else and kinda stare at me, is he trying to make me jelous or is he playing me and hurting me on purpose what the hell is up with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): That seems a little bit fishy but i have to agree with flower girl, he prolly dont want ur ex to come after him, NO DRAMA, so maybe him pushing u away a little is his way of dealing with the fact that you have so much going on, but just in case maybe you shouldnt make yourself so available to him.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (15 July 2007):
 Maybe he just does not want to get involved with someone that is just out of a relationship, for fear of just being a rebound or being hurt if you and your ex should decide to get back together.
I think you could probably do with some time to yourself as well at the moment, like he said to you he does npot want any drama.
Take care.xx.
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