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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2007): cmn man u r just the right age for her. wht do u wnt ur girlfriend to be older than u? i think u should go out wioth her coz she is the right age for u. but if u dnt luv her and u just gonna hurt her than alow her
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 That's cool then hunni. Could I make a little suggeation. How about talking to her parents about you and her dating and explain the no sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell thanks for replies. And i have no intention to have sex with her.
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reader, RaeRaeMcGee  +, writes (15 July 2007):
 Of course it's ok to date her. In fact I don't even think there is too much of a difference in your maturity levels due to the fact that she is female and you are male. You both are very young but relationships with that diffence in age happen every day, often enough there is a much greater difference in age.
However your relationship develops sexually is ok as long as you guys love and respect each othere as well.
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reader, sweeite +, writes (15 July 2007):
i can see why your asking this question, i think if you and this girl really like each other then you should ask her out, the only thing i would say is dont have sex until she has reached 16 as we all know that against the law to have sex with an under age irl/ boy. best wishes and keep me up dated xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): I think it's ok to date her :) you can't have sex and there may be slight differences in your maturity but if you really like each other then I say go for it!!! xxx
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (15 July 2007):
Yeah it is ok to date her but you would be breaking the law if sexual things take place as it wouldn't be legal.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (15 July 2007):
 i think its absolutely fine to date this girl. i dunno if you know this but your both at the same mentally mature level, as guys are as mature as girls 1-2 yrs younger. wen i was 14 all my guy friends were 16 and it was fine!! but just remember that it is against the law to have sex with her and you should be able to respect that if you do get involved!good luck, feel free to email me xxx
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reader, kristinakutie +, writes (15 July 2007):
 ok wow. ya i was in that same uhm situation.. i was 14, he was 16. you really need to be careful with what you do with her, because not only is it illegal, but shes younger and more i guess fragile.. ok enough lecturing you on that, but yes you can date her, just dont do anything sexual, unless you keep it between the 2 of you ONLY.. no friends, family, anyone.. cuz its bound to slip sometime, and that would be the worst thing.. cuz then you would get into trouble, even if she didnt press charges or anything.. you would still get into trouble.. well.. hope that kinda helped..
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (15 July 2007):
 its perfectly fine to date her. As long as it never goes sexualual til her 16th birthday you will be fine
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reader, AskRosie +, writes (15 July 2007):
 Yes. It is OK to date her. But don't go any further as it is against the law.
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reader, love-him +, writes (15 July 2007):
 Hey bbe,
To date her its ok.. but nefin else, would b against the law, but yea its perfectly ok to date her =)
Hope i helped =)
Mail me if you would like 2 talk x
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): you would have to be a bit careful about this one! the reason being is that as you already know she is under age, so it would depend how far you would want to take things in a sexual manner (if you know what i mean) because im sure you know you would be breaking the law. if you do decide to go out with her i would make sure that her parents know about you and your age just in case there were any come backs. and when she tells you that she loves you, well it wont be actual love but more of a crush, she is to young in my opinion to understand the love thing!
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