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writes: How an i make my exgirlfriend want to get back with me?i have been with this girl for almost two years and we have both changed during that time. I have grown to love her soo much but i have pushed her so far away from me because i have primarily forcused on the sexual aspect of our relationship instead of being the sensitive person who she meti have told her time and time again i would change for her(not the first time weve broken up over this)this time i finally realize she is fedup with me and have been determined to change and i am actually doing all the things i used to do such as giving her her sace and not being a pervert and doing the sexual things i would do when we were tgether. i believe i have really changed buti need to know how i can make her see that please any suggestions are greaty appreciated!!1
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reader, kristinakutie +, writes (15 July 2007):
ok.. 1st off, i want to say i'm proud of you for changing for her.. it shows me how much you really do care for her.. maybe even love.. but what you need to do is just talk to her.. tell her everything.. even throw in a few tears if nessacary, to show her that you are ready and you have changed and you are that sensitive guy that she met a long time ago.. she her that you have changed in every way possible.. and if that doesnt help, then i'm sorry.. but at least try that.. good luck
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reader, flower girl +, writes (15 July 2007):
You should not have to change yourself for anyone, you have been like this from the beginning and it's just the way you are.
If she can not accept you the way you are now then she is not the right girl for you.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): Well, it can be really hard to not do the sexual things when you have already done them before. I think that she not only wants you to not be so sexual, she maybe wants you to not want to be so sexual. If you are in the relationship but always holding yourself back from what you really feel you want, it's not going to work. If you actually don't want to be as sexual anymore, explain to her why not. Let her know how much you care for her and not just her body or what she can do for you/ to you.
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