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4 December 2009: A couple of weeks ago, I was in a place some of you girls might be in right now. For about a year, I was placed in a dysfunctional relationship. Eventually, I got use to the abusive cycle and no matter how much I was exhausted, no matter how much I ...
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We broke up and now I'm depressed
Q. Me and my boyfriend broke up about a week and a half ago. He had told me every day how much he loved me and how much I meant to him. However, the night before we broke up, he was acting really distant. After asking him to be nicer to me, he ...
A. 17 July 2009: You've been broke up for a week and a half, and you've already been with someone else? Well that's a great way to show him you still want to be with him.
Anyways, moving on.. if he needs time then give him his space. Don't contact him, don't as... (read in full...)
Vaginal pimples?
Q. Hi.I'm just wondering if any female on here has experienced vaginal pimples.I think that's what I have.They're small bumps on my vulva,not on my lips or anywhere else.I know I don't have an std or anything because I've never been sexually ...
A. 14 July 2009: Do you shave? If so, that's what it's probably from. I get them sometimes.
I'm sure it's nothing serious if you aren't sexually active. Don't worry about it to much. They will go away in time, if your feeling self concious about it, get some bac... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst I'm asleep
Q. i really need help! my boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst im asleep. i should explain that i have a medical heart condition that makes me faint quite a lot it also makes me very tired so i have extra naps during the day to prevent b...
A. 14 July 2009: Quiet-echo, I completely disagree with your advice. I don't know what world you live in, but when is it ever okay to have sex with someone without there consent? Just because you enjoy it, it makes its okay?
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My boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst I'm asleep
Q. i really need help! my boyfriend has been having sex with me whilst im asleep. i should explain that i have a medical heart condition that makes me faint quite a lot it also makes me very tired so i have extra naps during the day to prevent b...
A. 13 July 2009: Your not overreacting at all, sex without your consent is considered rape! If this man really loved you, he would respect your body and wouldn't even put his hands anywhere he knew you wouldn't want him too. Your lack of sex drive is not an excuse... (read in full...)
Nine days late and extremely worried!
Q. I am 9 days late for my period. I had unprotected sex which i know is stupid! I don't know what it is, but i really don't think i am pregnant! I had something extremely stressfull happen in my life roughly 4 days before i was due my period, could ...
A. 9 July 2009: Don't get yourself all worked up - until you take a pregnancy test and it reads YES YOU ARE PREGNANT.
xxx... (read in full...)
I have fallen for a gay boy
Q. I'm 16, and recently i've begun to really like a a guy in my school, i knew he was interested and i think he knew i was intertested too. anyway we swapped numbers and it wasn't long until he admitted he was gay, i was devastated! but he told that ...
A. 11 May 2009: Gay? if he likes you, he clearly isn't, simple as that.
Bi-sexual, maybe? but, I think he should respect his sexual status either way, sounds you two really hit it off, so i'd say go for it.
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He's soon to be a father and I don't know if I want to be with him now
Q. This guy and I have became close friends over the past few months.. he has admited to being very attached and likes me alot, but I never really thought of him that way.. lately, I have been thinking I might give him a shot because I always date ...
A. 10 May 2009: How is he a two timer?
we're best friends - not an item.... (read in full...)
Am I too short to be loved...???
Q. Hi Will women notice a good looking but only 5'8" guy? Will they find him handsome? Or is it too short for them?... I cant stop thinking about my height for months. I'm almost 20 so i wont grow up anymore, and ive never had a gf before, n...
A. 10 May 2009: I'm sixteen, a girl, and I'm only 5'1.
I'm not getting any taller.
There are alot of short girls out there too
and 5'8 isn't even that short.
No stress.
xx... (read in full...)
I'm considering becoming sterile just soI don't screw up here life
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating just short of a year now. We're both 16 and just starting having sex about a month ago. We've only done it a few times. Both with and without condoms. For some reason she hates condoms and doesn't want to take ...
A. 9 May 2009: Do not go sterile because there is a GOOD chance you won't be with her later on in life, and you won't be able to satisfy your wife with a child when your older, and then you'll feel really stupid. (no offense)
There are more options then the pill... (read in full...)
I snooped and found messages I shouldn't have seen, now it's causing all sorts of problems!
Q. My mom and my step dad have been together ever since I was in kindergarten. I am fifteen now. They have been on and off basically my whole life. Separating then getting back together, etc. I have never really had a problem with it. A couple ...
A. 19 March 2009: I am just making an assumption here, but your mom and dad have probably been having other problems lately as well, and this just topped it off. Honey, it isn't your fault your mom had a right to know, if there marriage is strong, i am sure they will ... (read in full...)
I lied to my BF and told him I'm not a virgin - should I tell him the truth?
Q. I'm 13 and so is my boyfriend. I really truly love him but I lied to him about not being a virgin and he believes me. Should I tell him that I am or should it remain a secret ?...
A. 28 February 2009: Thirteen? Thirteen? Stick with dolls.. I lost my virginity at thirteen and I have regreted it ever since, your body isnt fully developed and lots of other things. Tell him you ARE still a virgin. ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?
Q. I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. ...
A. 18 February 2009: Sorry sweetie, doubt that he feels the same way.. he is just trying to be professional. Move on.. theres plently of fish in the sea. He's not going to through his life away for a fourteen year old girl.. trust me.... (read in full...)
I really want a girlfriend but nobody asks me out, what should I do?
Q. im so depressed!!! i feel lonely and miserable all the time and i really want a girl friend.. ive never had one in my whole life...im 14, even though my parents dont allow me to have a social life or a girlfiend..and even though im a little i...
A. 1 February 2009: Well it sounds like this girl may like you too. It might not be worth risking your friendship over, but if you really wanna know, just talk to her and start the sentence with, 'i dont wanna ruin our friendship but....' or, 'i dont want to make thi... (read in full...)
I really feel as if I'm just missing out on life!
Q. Okay, I'm 14. I've been feeling like I'm missing out on stuff. For example, I've never even had a boyfriend and I've never even kissed anyone. My friends have boyfriends and drama in their lives. Not that I want drama but I'm just rarely involved ...
A. 1 February 2009: Your fourteen, girl. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't seek into depression just because you have never had a boyfriend or kissed anyone. Your time will come, I promise you! It's normal to feel left out when it comes down to it, but mayb... (read in full...)
I really want a girlfriend but nobody asks me out, what should I do?
Q. im so depressed!!! i feel lonely and miserable all the time and i really want a girl friend.. ive never had one in my whole life...im 14, even though my parents dont allow me to have a social life or a girlfiend..and even though im a little i...
A. 1 February 2009: Don't feel depressed, your only fourteen! You have your whole life ahead of you! If your starting to be interested in girls and want to have a girlfriend, then I suggest you make a move, some girls aren't into the whole 'asking the boy out' orde... (read in full...)
Can you ever REALLY be friends with an ex?
Q. We were together for about 6 months and I lost my virginity to him. I admit that I still DO have feelings for him, and on some level always WILL since he was my first, but I would really like to be friends and not have him simply disappear out of my ...
A. 22 October 2008: Oh, the age old question. Some people will tell you can, and others will tell you that you can't. I believe that it's all based on history, how long you guys we're together, if you loved eachother, and what happened along the way. Some people have ... (read in full...)
My friends tell me I'm a bad friend when I go out with my boyfriend instead of them...
Q. ok so i have a new boyfriend. and it's going really good. he asks me to hang out all the time and i love it. but my friends don't. and this happens every time i get a boyfriend. they ask me to hang out but i already have plans with my bf. cuzz he ...
A. 19 October 2008: When you have a boyfriend, this is very likely to happen. I'm assuming your friend's don't have boyfriends, they are very envious about this. You may not realize it, but they are. They probably feel they are being replaced. Boyfriends and ... (read in full...)
I want to be his first but I'm terrified I'll lose him if I have sex with him!
Q. There's a guy on my school's football team and his body is close to perfect and he is absolutely gorgeous!!! I've liked him for a while (I've had band with him for 2 years, I see him everyday) He's 17 and I'm about 2-3 years younger than him. A lot ...
A. 19 October 2008: I know exactly how you feel. I am no longer a virgin. I am not proud to admit I lost my virginity at thirteen to a boy I dated for 8 months, and he was sixteen years old. We broke up in May and it was a devasting time for me. Anyways, A couple ... (read in full...)
I swallowed and my mouth and neck burned - is this normal?
Q. I just gave my bf a blowjob today and I swallowed... and my mouth and throat burned so I chewed some gum and it went away after like ten minutes... is this normal or is something wrong?...
A. 19 October 2008: It could be anything from the Common Cold, to Gonorrhea. Some advice, even if your going 'down' on your boyfriend, but not having sex, you should still ask him to wear a condom, for exactly these reasons. It doesn't have the same effect, but they... (read in full...)
How can I make my beautiful young sexy wife agree to have sex with my friends?
Q. I have been married since 3 years and have a 2 yr. old son. There is something going on inside me, which turns me on. My wife is very beautiful, young, sexy, but she is a homely girl. I want to see my wife having sex with 2-3 guys at a time in front ...
A. 4 August 2008: You are pathetic. If you loved your wife you wouldn't want to share her with a bunch of men, especially if their your friends!
Your crazy.... (read in full...)
How can I win back someone who is now married to some else?
Q. How can I win back someone who is now married to some else?...
A. 4 August 2008: I am going to be as blunt as blunt gets. I am going to try to say this in the nicest way I possibly can.
Do you really wan't to be responsible for a marriage ending in your favor? If the guy your trying to win over wanted to be with you, then why... (read in full...)
She's a virgin and we can't have sex because it hurts her too much. Any tips?
Q. Alright, so me and my girlfriend are getting hot and bothered and ready to have sex, catch is, she's a virgin. So I try to be gentle and all, because I hear it's sometimes really painful. I try, she says "OW!" really loud and I stop because I don't ...
A. 4 August 2008: First thing is first, your status says age 18-21, is this your real age?
Second of all, It's going to hurt until you go all the way. If you stop everytime it hurts her, then it's always going to hurt! After a few times of having sex, it doesn't hurt... (read in full...)
Will he think my love poem is creepy, or cute? Should I show it to him?
Q. I wrote this tonight. It's about a guy that I really like. I am fourteen and he's seventeen. When we met we clicked right away, I am falling for him, and I know that he is too, but he thinks the age difference is a big concern. Should I show ...
A. 30 July 2008: I think you have amazing talent! You should definetly keep writting thats forsure, now about showing it to the guy you love. Maybe instead of you taking credit for the poem, you can be like, "I found this, and it kind of reminds me of you" So, he ... (read in full...)
Help, I'm In love with my stepbrother!!!
Q. My Mom will be getting married to a very nice man in March of 09. This man has a son that is 14, I am 13 and I REALLY REALLY like him, maybe evan LOVE HIM! I have never felt this way about anyone in my life, I have had several crushes before but ...
A. 15 July 2008: Alot of people say, "theirs nothing wrong with liking your step brother or sister, because there not blood"
But while you don't share the same DNA. It's called
"stepBROTHER" You may as well just date someone from your own blood. But hey, that's ... (read in full...)
We are both 15, we love each other, have had sex already, he has a job, and he wants us to have a baby, when we turn 17, I am not sure about this, please give me advice about having a baby at this age"
Q. hi! well my boyfriend and i akready had sex for the first time a month ago we are both 15, i am really happy wth him there isnt one day he doesnt tell me he loves me. well last night we were talking, he started a conversation about how he wanted to ...
A. 15 July 2008: I think thats really cute. I think Young Love is the most adorable thing, one of the best things youll experience in your life. Unfortuantley Hun, I don't agree on "Let's have a baby" part.
You are only fifteen, and even when you are SEVENTEE... (read in full...)
Can I be a player and possibly cheat, without hurting anyone?
Q. when i was growing up i had the status. of getting with girls. ppl called me a player but i wasnt like a slut.. i finally settled down and i got a lil soft but just not really a player anymore. now finally i have girls in my life.. and i kind of ...
A. 11 July 2008: Unfortunatley, someone will get hurt in the end. If you have sex with multiple girls, one of them is bound to end up having feelings for you. Also, your status says your 18-21 years old, and alot of girls your age are getting ready to start settling ... (read in full...)
I don't even want to go out in public anymore thanks to this jerk at the grocery store!
Q. Today I went to the grocery store to shop for food. My mom and sister came along. While I was standing behind my mom while she was paying the cashier. There was this stranger that took a look at me and told his friend quietly that he was standing ...
A. 11 July 2008: It's very unlikely that you will ever see this guy again, so I say move on and ignore it. Nobody has perfect skin. Everyone gets embarassing pimples and acne! It's a part of life. So what the hell was he snickering about? I'm sure he is bitter and ... (read in full...)
I know I ought to settle down. Can anyone give me some advice to set me straight?
Q. I am fifteen years old. I've had sex multiple times with four different guys, and I had unprotected sex with three of them. Let's just say, if I were to get pregnant right now, I wouldn't really know which four of them it would be. I failed my cu...
A. 9 July 2008: Well, first things first. You have to want to change, and it sounds like you do. Lay off the sex for a while, or better yet, just lay off the boys in general. You are a troubled teen looking for some sort of affection from all these boys but your ... (read in full...)
Will I be doing the right thing by going all the way?
Q. O.k I've been seeing this guy for about 2/3 weeks now but we're not officially an item but I'm sure he's going to ask me once school is over. We've kissed and stuff but is it wrong I want to have sex so soon? We were really good friends before all ...
A. 8 July 2008: Let me tell you a quick story, hun. I am fifteen years old, I had known this guy for a while, and I thought I could really trust him. I started to fall for him, so quickly. He seemed loyal and trustworthy, and I thought he would never do anything to ... (read in full...)
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