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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 August 2008):
You can't. You had all the time to do that before they got married. Now she has made a vow.
You'll just have to wait for them to divorce and then you can try again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, lexilou +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Why do you want to? You will be splitting them up and causing heartache. I understand there is probably more to the story but my advice is to leave well alone, If he is not happy with the person he married leave him to figure it out alone, if it ends because he wants it to then you are free to make a move for him again, but to purposely try and split up a married couple because you want him back is so wrong x
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reader, KiaGrace  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 I am going to be as blunt as blunt gets. I am going to try to say this in the nicest way I possibly can.
Do you really wan't to be responsible for a marriage ending in your favor? If the guy your trying to win over wanted to be with you, then why isn't he married to you instead of some other woman? It sounds like you've already had a chance.
I say, move on, your head is to much in the past, and I know that if you try to win him back, the tables will end up turning on you, some way or another. You'll either look like a jealous crazy woman, trying to ruin a perfectly good marriage, or he'll want an intimate relationship with you, but not want to leave his wife for you. Do you really want to be known as "the other woman" ??
I can't speak for them or you, because I don't know the whole story. It sounds like to me, your after an instant disaster. Just move on with your life and leave them be, maybe in the future it could be possible but for now, keep your heart open to others.
Sorry if this came off as rude
I am just telling you my perseptive.
Best of luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): I am sorry to say that you should never ruin others happiness.
Think f the same thing happen to you. How would you feel?
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