I caught my boyfriend in bed with my sister while her boyfriend was downstairs!
Q. well. basicly. I CAUGHT MY BOYFRIEND IN BED WITH MY SISTER WHILE HER BOYFRIEND WAS SAT DOWNSTAIRS!!! well ive been with him now for nearly 18 months, i thought he loved me, and i adore him! well DID. im confused! so bad, i stayed at a friends house ...
A. 21 July 2008: I believe your confusion is coming from the fact that you love him but your common sence is telling you that you should let him go, you sound as though you are more mad at your sister than you are at him, keep in mind that your sister is a minor who ... (read in full...)
I happened to see my son masturbating and don't quite know what to do about it!
Q. I am a mother of 2 kids, 11 year old boy and 8 year old girl. My husband is on a business tour and will be back only after two months. Couple of days back I happened to see my son doing masterbation in his bedroom. He does not know that I have seen ...
A. 12 July 2008: your son is experimenting however I would not say anything to him I would let his dad talk to him about it, however since you know your son has reached the point with sexual pleasure, I am sorry I have to say this, have a talk with you daughter ... (read in full...)
I won't have an opportunity to lose my virginity until I'm 18, what do I do?
Q. Hi, im 15 turning 16 this year and my mom got a job in Bamfield and there is nobody under the age 25. I come back to my home town for 1 week of the month. Ill be 18 when i come back permenantly. Im dont want to be 19 and a virgin. I dont want to ...
A. 12 July 2008: I thinkn you should browse this cite and view all of the problems people are dealing with, and alot of them are dealing wiht the complications of sex and relationships, and disease, and pregnancy look at the DearCupid World and know that if you do ... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant the first time you have sex?
Q. can females get pregnant when they have sex for the first time? ...
A. 12 July 2008: YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Do I go for love or for security?
Q. I was having a relationship with a guy for a year and i broke it off due to problems with my ex. I am now with someone new who is very fincially secure but I dont find him sexually attractive and I keep thinking about the guy who i was seeing for a ...
A. 12 July 2008: LOVE wins hands down, you can go for security but it is not as sure as love, Love has a way of lasting longer than security, and besides you go for scurity and find your self stuck when you are ready to get out security has a way of making you ... (read in full...)
My best friend won't get help over losing a baby. What can I do?
Q. please help nothing is working!! I posted here yesterday about my friend who lost a baby his time last year - her boyfriend of 3 years moved back home to tunisia about 1 month a go she only told me about losing the baby yesterday! I rea...
A. 12 July 2008: I am sorry i saw this post yesterday and didnt reply because I lost my son at 5 months pregnant May 28, 2008 and I felt like it was my fault and still do at times only becuse i am looking for a reason on why i had him so soon, i go throught the ... (read in full...)
Has my ex posted pictures of me on the internet?
Q. My ex has threatened to post explicit pictures of me on the internet. I'm really worried about this. I googled myself, but other than that I don't know where to look to see if he followed through on the threat. Help! Where/ How can I look, and how ...
A. 11 July 2008: since he is threatning you about him posting them you should do the research for your state and find out what you can do and then let him know that if these pics are posted, and if he gives them out he is the only one with them so them getting out ... (read in full...)
I am afraid he was just using me for sex, and he might have HIV
Q. I really like this guy alot. There was rumours going around about him having HIV. The other night a bunch of us got real drunk. We were about to have sex, when I was like, "No, I need to talk to you about something first" So I straight up asked him ...
A. 8 July 2008: listen I understand how you really dont want to disappoint your parents but you mpther will be more upset to find that you are pregnat or HIV positive so you need to deal with talking to her now, because when later comes you will look back and say ... (read in full...)
Fooling around with my older cousin...is it bad??
Q. Well, first started 2yrs ago i think. i was trying to sleep at my cousin's house, Kristen, but then he came along and went in bed with me and started to sqyeeze my breast. It's hard to explain because it was long ago. One month ago we went to ...
A. 6 July 2008: I say NO to the incest- I am sure i spelled that wrong but i still say NO! older cousin sounds like he may be pushing border line adulthood, do not let anyone violate your body. he needs to be kept away from all the other girl cousins i hope there ... (read in full...)
After 12 years with me he told me he has met someone else. How do I cope?
Q. I am hoping someone can help a bit here. I was with my boyfriend for twelve years. He told me at the beginning of June that he met someone else. He has been moving his stuff out gradually( so as not to hurt me...or so he says) and is now no longer ...
A. 5 July 2008: I am sorry to hear what you are going through, it is a tough place to be, one thing to look at is at is he could have told you instead of you finding out on your own. This is maybe a long tough road, but what ever you do, don't give up on you, keep ... (read in full...)
My marriage has recovered from our affair, his hasn't. How can I help him?
Q. I had a brief affair with the most amazing, funny, sexy, wonderful man who I really felt was my soul mate. We ended it because we are both married and mutually agreed that we would try and work things out with our partners. The problem is I have ...
A. 4 July 2008: If you are truly trying to make your marriage work you will grant your husband's wishes. As long as you and your former lover keep in contact with one another the harder it will be for either of you to move on. If you are still in contact with him ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do? I am not ready to be a father, I need your guidance.
Q. Need advice, I recieved an email from a girl I slept with about 6 weeks ago, saying she is now pregant, wants to keep the baby and wants nothing from me and is willing to cut off all commuication. I don't know what to do? I am not ready to be a fa...
A. 4 July 2008: YOu need to get to the bottom of this dont brush it off, and think you got off easily, if you get a letter in the mail from family court requesting your appearance you may not like it too much. your best bet is to have DNA test done when the child ... (read in full...)
My daughter who is 5 is still wetting the bed at night, what can I do?
Q. Hiya everyone my daughter is 5 now and is still wetting the bed im a little worried that she is never going to be dry at night. We have tried everything from stopping fluid at a certain time to getting up in the middle of the night to wake her up f...
A. 4 July 2008: I would keep of the advise received on here on mind, but would still have her checked by a MD, my former best freinds son is now 16 and he wet the bed untill 14 yrs he had a condition where his kidneys did not grow the normal size they should be i ... (read in full...)
My perfect girl lives with another guy!
Q. There's a girl at work that is perfect for me. I don't believe in soulmates, but we have everything in common. We hang out often, going to lunch and even dinner and drinks just the two of us at times. Only thing is that both of us are in a ...
A. 4 July 2008: In your own words If you don't want to make trouble for her at home or work, don't pursue it past the friendship!... (read in full...)
Why does he say he has no time in his life for me yet tells me he wants to marry me? Does this make sense?
Q. hopefully someone can help me find the answers on this one. Why would a man persistently tell you he wants to settle down and marry you every time you speak to him, but then make no effort to contact you . When I have asked him is this what...
A. 4 July 2008: I agree with the oldersister, i wonder if he is maried or in a relationship already with someone else unknown to you, dont be fooled people who want to cheat can find a way to cheat and get away with it!! just the fact that you have asked what to do ... (read in full...)
He thinks a woman's only goal is to steal a man's money...how do I break up with him?
Q. he lives at home and ive suggested we buy a house but he says he wont because women are only after money and he would prefer to get his own, he doesn't ever want kids and i do, he never wants to get married because women steal the mans money. im not ...
A. 4 July 2008: I think it is great that you dont want to hurt him , but it seems that he pretty much has that covered all of the decisions that he makes about the relationship is basically to keep him from getting hurt, maybe you should let him know that you asnd ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend says there are rumours my new guy has HIV. Is he lying? If not, what are the risks for me?
Q. I just met this boy, his name is Derrick. Even though, I don't know him as well as I'd like to. He has really seem to grow on me and I think that someday our relationship could go a step further. Well at least, I'd like to hope so. A previous boy...
A. 4 July 2008: I cant agree more with Smiles, although he may be lying just to keep you with him in mind he may be telling the guy a lie about you. but when it comes to HIV and other STDs you cant take a chance protected sex is always the way to go if you know you ... (read in full...)
I had a baby very young and people seem to judge me. How should I handle this?
Q. why do people always judge me when they see my in the streets, or abuse me and call me all the names under the sun when they see me with my child. im 16 now, just after my 14th birthday i was raped by a friend of my cousins in his late 20's and ...
A. 4 July 2008: I am so sorry that yo had to endure such a thing. people are going to talk reguardless. You don't owe anyone an explination for your son. people are rude and crude and just evil. they pass judgement with out even knowing what had occured in ones ... (read in full...)
Please tell me how to let go of the money my ex owes me, because he is sending me crazy! And that scares me..
Q. Pleeeeease help me be stronger! Ive posted on here before, but the same problem is still about. I dumped someone in jan, stupidly i got manipulated into lending him a few thousand pounds beforehand, which my gran left me when she died, and i am ...
A. 4 July 2008: ok was not aware of the details of the previous posts, I have done some things that i am not to proud of myself the only thing i can say is stop accepting phone calls, text message and any type of uncessary contact with him. if you stop putting fule ... (read in full...)
My step-father and I are masturbating together everynow and then...is this ok?
Q. HI I am a 15 year old boy My stepfather and i are masterbating together every now and then I was just wandering if it is ok??...
A. 4 July 2008: No it is not okay,you and he should not be seeing the others male anatony he is probably trying to build a comfort zone with you so he can comfortably ask you to do something more sexual with him this is inappropriate!!!!!... (read in full...)
Am I a slut like everyone says or is this just a phase?
Q. During the outcome of this year, my life has brought me many different things, new experiences and alot of surprises. Alot of people are labeling me as a "slut", I am wondering, do you think the same? or is something else in my life effectin...
A. 3 July 2008: I dont like the word slut, i dont like words like that, how ever your behaivior has been one to be misunderstood. i think you are looking to be loved in a way that you are not going to get it! having sex does not make anyone love you any more than... (read in full...)
I'm dating an older guy online, could he be using me?
Q. Hello. I have a question to ask.... I am a 15 year old girl...and i'm dating a soon to be 22year old male over the internet. My friends think it's wrong and my parents don't know about my relationship with this guy.. I want to move o...
A. 3 July 2008: In the cyber world any one can be and have anythin they claim to. just be careful there are some people on the web who calim to ahve so much and realy dont have anything.and are not who they claimed they were a few years ao i use to be aprt of a ... (read in full...)
I'm thinking my husband may be gay or bisexual; what should I do?
Q. I really need help figuring out if my husband is gay or bisexual. I have a gay brother and we have been going out with him pretty regular to the local gay club. I have no problem hanging out there just to be around my brother. This past weekend we ...
A. 3 July 2008: Sorry but your husband is SO GAY and he has let you know that and so has his family, i just hope that he has not had an affair, but you have to ask yourself if this is true what are you willing to do? live with it or leave it? he may not want to ... (read in full...)
Can you help me with a solution to this letter my wife wrote?
Q. After 20 years of marriage , she has decided I'm not her ideal husband . She wants a me to not be like me or I need to change to be different . She is a generous , helpful and will do anything to help others . These are things that I am not , ...
A. 3 July 2008: i dont believe it takes 20 years for one to discover that someone is not right for them, marriage counseling may be the best option here. Good luck to you both... (read in full...)
How can I gain her trust back and get a second chance with her? Please help I need some good advice....
Q. Please help! Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago now after being together for a year. I love her so much and I want us to get back together, but I dont know how to convince her to give me another chance. The reason for us breaking ...
A. 3 July 2008: the past can surely tell you alot, she hasd a violent breakup in the past, and then if you realy look at it it was a violent break up with you, you are going to have to earn her trust maybe inevest in relationship counseling she may need that ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance of getting pregnant on your period?
Q. Hello, I have been wondering lately, if there would be any possiblity of geting pregnant on your period. Because last weekend my boyfriend came inside me. But he told me not to worry because i cant get pregnant on my period. He said theres like a o...
A. 3 July 2008: from what i understand when you are on your period what is hapening is your uterus is shedding its lining, the lining of the uterus is to prepare for an egg to plant itself after being fertalized, when no egg is fertilized the uterus sheds, so no i ... (read in full...)
I love my family, but they keep giving me lectures on everything I do! How can I stand up for myself in a good way and not hurt them?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. Long time no question. Firstly, let me say I am very close to my family and I know they'd do anything for me and likewise to them. (to cut a story short: I got stranded in Donnington and had to take the bus to bristol then tra...
A. 3 July 2008: With out knowwing your family I can clearly see that they have the best interest at hear for you but sometimes people forget that there roles chenge in the lives of people were children and are now adults. some people dont know how to relate. ... (read in full...)
Please tell me how to let go of the money my ex owes me, because he is sending me crazy! And that scares me..
Q. Pleeeeease help me be stronger! Ive posted on here before, but the same problem is still about. I dumped someone in jan, stupidly i got manipulated into lending him a few thousand pounds beforehand, which my gran left me when she died, and i am ...
A. 3 July 2008: Money can destroy a friendship never lend money that you know if you dont get it back will drive you crazy or will destroy a relationship. your best friend can be your worst enemy, your ex- has found a way to control you, he is controling you and ... (read in full...)
Help! My ex tried to use me to cheat on the mother of his child and she just called me to ask if he's been faithful!!
Q. Please help me! I don't know what to do... I recently had a very, very complicated situation dropped into my lap. About four months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. Shortly after he moved out he found out his ex-girlfriend that he had dated ...
A. 3 July 2008: I am sure you already know the anser to this one, stand completely cear of this guy. he has no intention what so ever on being faithful to either of you. he is playing a game, and he is trying to keep the both of you, i know this because I was you a ... (read in full...)
I feel a need to fix everything, but it doesn't seem to work
Q. Can some one help me? I am totally lost in life. I feel like I must fix the world. I am 25 married and have a career. I am currently separated from my spouse do to my job. I love my career, but again I am not sure if I should be at home wit...
A. 3 July 2008: I couldnt agree more with Reality christian, Ask your Husband what does he want out of life you have to remember that the both of you are a UNIT, everything each of you do shold be talked about with the otherh i think sometimes what happens is that ... (read in full...)
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