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writes: Well, first started 2yrs ago i think. i was trying to sleep at my cousin's house, Kristen, but then he came along and went in bed with me and started to sqyeeze my breast. It's hard to explain because it was long ago. One month ago we went to the Philippines, and we had an 8hr drive to manila and we were in the back seat facing each other. No one can see us because big luggages were blocking us. So, then he put his legs opened around me and started to go in my shorts. I tryed to pull his hands off, he's so friggin buff. He even exercizes in the car.=_=. he stuck his fingers in my pussy and said, "does it feel good?" all i said was stop to make it seem i didn't like it. Then he kept on goin deper. And then i kicked his balls. but i guess it was in an angle so i couldn't get it. Once I kicked it he wouldn't stop maybe because he liked it? Cause i vibrated my foot on it...O-oAfter a while we got to manila we were in a room together by our selves... and he put me in a position where I couldn't hit him. so he would stop and he kept on fucking me with his fingers.Also we were goin to the airport so it was a long drive and he made me rub his balls. Freak it was long... and now when i see him again he wants to play strip black jack or strip poker. Do i say yes or no?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008): I wouldn't call it incest. You get loads of posts here about cousins doing stuff and we don't call it that then. Incest is brother and sister.
It is family though, but to be honest, the most important thing is that if your not happy with him doing it then you need to tell someone. If your too embarrassed tell him to stop it.
If your age is the same as what it says up at the top, then you could tell a school consuellor or something like that...
Personally I'd tell him because I couldn't talk to my parents, but if you could tell your parents then I would try to...
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reader, Khandi +, writes (6 July 2008):
 I say NO to the incest- I am sure i spelled that wrong but i still say NO! older cousin sounds like he may be pushing border line adulthood, do not let anyone violate your body. he needs to be kept away from all the other girl cousins i hope there is not another little cousin that cant /wont tell that he is doing this to also. alot of time it does not just happen to onw person.
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reader, D.D.B  +, writes (5 July 2008):
DONT thats a bad idea and to keep a long story short just tell a responsible adult or a p[arent that he is sexually abusing you and just stay away from him and say NO!!
please take my advise and do the right thing Dont.
P.S
please dont put rude things on your questions because im 11 and i find it disterbing
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (5 July 2008):
 i cant figure out whether you like wat he is doing to you or whether you want it all to stop. if its the latter, well then it is a family member sexually abusing you, and you need to tell someone, this is not right and he should never have gone that far if you told him to stop and you didnt like it.
however, if it is some sort of hard to get, s and m relationship, then i would advise you to think of the consequences - he is your cousin and your family im sure would be very shocked and upset to hear wat the 2 of you have been up to. its also a form of incest!!
but i cant help getting the feeling that you dont want this to happen and you want him to stop - in which case you need to tell your family, stop staying in rooms with him and get help.
i would love to help you more, so please email me and we can talk about this, good luck hun xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): well tbh babe i think thats a bit gross seeing as its your cousin but if you like eachother then its ok i spose. If you are comfortable with things then there should be no reason why you shouldnt do them but if you dont like it and he is making you do things you dont want to do then tell someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): no u should not play strip anything with him sweetheart thats nasty and u should tell someone about that he should get in troble for that well good luck with that
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reader, LouLee +, writes (5 July 2008):
 By what you've said, it sounds like you're not completely ready and he sounds like a bit of a pr**k for not respecting you.
Do what you want to do, not what he wants you to do.
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (5 July 2008):
 In a way I believe he kind of raped you because he did sexual things against your will (the fingering etc).
I'm not sure about the Us but here it's not illegal to do these things with your cousin but it is still considered taboo to some if not most (including myself).
Another thing is you are too young to be having sex at all anyway or doing anything sexual.
You be best checking the laws in your area before either of you get into serious trouble with your parents or the law (most likely to be your parents).
If he tries to do it again just be firm with him and if it comes to it shout at him but don't use physical violence - you don't want him to hit back do you?
Good luck!!
P.S. I'd keep it low on the language if I were you or censor parts with a * as there are young children using this site.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): You say no and you tell your parents that he is giving you unwanted attention and touching you. He's touching you intimately and you are telling him no and he is still doing it. Wrong, wrong, wrong. Tell your folks and say that you don't want to be left alone with him. Don't let him treat you like this! You deserve more!
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