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writes:I was having a relationship with a guy for a year and i broke it off due to problems with my ex. I am now with someone new who is very fincially secure but I dont find him sexually attractive and I keep thinking about the guy who i was seeing for a year. Do i go for security or love.
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reader, lexilou +, writes (12 July 2008):
 Love, love, love.
Financial security will not make you happy, if you dont find him attractive then you will resent him and regret your decision. I'd rather be in love and broke then rich and unhappy. I fancied my husband the day I met him, I still fancy him now and my tummy does that funny twisty thing when he walks through the door or I come home and see his car parked outside and I know he is waiting for me. I love him to bits and would love him even if we had no money x
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reader, Khandi  +, writes (12 July 2008):
 LOVE wins hands down, you can go for security but it is not as sure as love, Love has a way of lasting longer than security, and besides you go for scurity and find your self stuck when you are ready to get out security has a way of making you misirable but yet staying anyway, secure yourself so that way if the love fades and the security becomes insecurity you have enough on your own to secure yourself and keep it moving. never go for the money becuse you cant take it with you when you go but LOVE on the other hand feels so good when you get it back and when you leave it has a way of lingering. and another thing I learned is when someone truley loves you they will do everything they can to make sure the one they love is secure in all they need. so go for TRUE LOVE it is the best security.
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