I can't let go...
Q. I'm 17 and this is like the fist time I'd had a relationship but there has been a lot of problems lately, for example my best friend told me that my boyfriend was hitting on her and blablabla anyways I was suppose to break up with him but instead I ...
A. 15 January 2008: well i did talk to him and he sent me all the conversations on line when they were talking and he told me it may have sounded like i was hitting on her but i wasn't i was just talkin to a person whom i thought was a friend and then he told me if ... (read in full...)
I am skinny and my friends tell me to gain weight! Is being thin ...ugly??
Q. is being slim, ugly ? i'm really skiny not anorexic but like those skiny models but my friends say that i need to gain more weight!!!...
A. 14 January 2008: well i've seen the doctor and he said i'm like underweight with like 15 kilos so i guess i should be gaining some but the thing is i just don't want to ...... (read in full...)
Does this mean he doesn't care?
Q. my boyfriend is in a diffrent country and he didn't want to breakup with me before leaving but afetr a while since he left he stopped text messeging me and he stopped even tellin me when does he go on line i understand that their might be any ...
A. 12 November 2007: i'm sory but i didn't notice that my age was written 10 ti 12 i'm 17... (read in full...)
My husband and I divorced 7 years ago, and I dont want him back. Why am I sad he is dating then?
Q. I have known my husband for 20 years and we have 2 kids. We split up 7 years ago but have remained very close - even sleeping together from time to time. Since we split up neither of us has been out with anyone else - until last week when he told ...
A. 27 July 2007: maybe because you feel that he's moved on and you didn't or maybe because you feel that when you got the devorse you did not basiclly end the relation ship in the way you wanted it to end or maybe and simply you still love him but don't want to get ... (read in full...)
How can I start a conversation without letting him know I like him?
Q. i really need help there is this guy who works somewhere in my local town his name is liam. even though i know his name i don't know him, and i'm really starting to fancy him. how can i start a conversation with him without letting on that i like ...
A. 27 July 2007: start going to the places that he goes to and just say hi eventually a conversation will pop ... (read in full...)
Girls don't seem to be interested in me, what am I doing wrong?
Q. hey, i'm 15 and no girls ever seem to be interested in me. i've been told im fairly good looking and have a good personality, so wat am i doing wrong?? ...
A. 25 July 2007: well maybe you've been put with the wrong people and maybe you just don't approach to the person infront correctly so try revising your self or ask a colse friend and does he or she think good luck... (read in full...)
I'm not sure about marriage.
Q. I am in love with this guy for a year and i am not sure of spending the rest of my life with him because of our diffrences. We fight alot and argue most times. We have been able to tolerate each other for this years but i think marraige is diffrent...
A. 23 July 2007: well there are some boundries that you have to agree on before getting married like how will you raise your children and etc... if you still have feellings for him and you think you can't live without him ,then try putting some boundries . also ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being nervous all the time? I can't enjoy life to its fullest!
Q. I have a bad nerve problem. How can I stop being nervous all the time because it is stopping me from things I really want to do?...
A. 18 July 2007: to start with, you need to have every day a time of your own just to realx. i have your same problem and i was advised to always talk to some one if something is bothering me. also try doing yoga. another thing, try telling yourself that you don't ... (read in full...)
Our relationship has reached the point of being so comfortable around each other that we're more friends with benefits then anything else.
Q. Hi. Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years now, and I love him so much, but our relationship has reached the point of being so comfortable around each other that we're more friends with benefits then anything else. He says he loves ...
A. 18 July 2007: if you mean that that you've become to him a friend more than a lover , then try to notice how he treats you and look at how he treats his friends , if you see no diffrence than you've got your answer
if he doesn't treat you equally then tell him ... (read in full...)
He treats his friends like they are more important than me. What do I do?
Q. Okay, so me and my boyfriend usually spend a lot of time together, he'd call everynight and text me all day. Now, he tells me he can't come over because he doesn't have a ride, but 30 minutes later he tells me he's at a party or a friend's house. He ...
A. 18 July 2007: you have to face him , ask him why did he change . may be there is something bothering him. but don't tell him you think that his friends are more importent than you but tell him lately you've changed and state the examples that you wrote in your ... (read in full...)
What can I do to feel more confident of my own abilities..?
Q. I like to feel protected and secure and for the same reason I give unnecessarily high importance to people in my life like my father, brother, brother's wife etc. I believe them to be in a better position to understand and estimate my needs and ...
A. 16 July 2007: well you have to ask your self deep inside of you why do you feel insecure or weak ??try finding the reason and work it out then afterwards you will start feeling better . ... (read in full...)
Should I enjoy the time I have with him and forget the other lad or shall I spend a much more stable and long lasting relationship with the other??
Q. Well... I'm new to this, I'm an average girl really and not really the type of girl to be constantly bombarded by boys like my incredibly beautiful sister. Well anyway... for once in my life I have got people intrested in me however I'm starting to ...
A. 14 July 2007: well...
there's no point of having a relationship with a guy who's leaving but is he coming back ? if he is then wait for him and have a relation with him.
on ther other hand , the other guy who you can't get out of your head,,i want you to ask y... (read in full...)
I'm 12 and I kissed my boyfriend after one day; what do I do now?
Q. i am only 12yrs old and i have a boyfriend we have already kissed and weve only bin going out for a day what shall i do??? do i kiss him again?? please help me!! ...
A. 13 July 2007: it depends on what you want and the same time what does he expect .. so if he accepts it and you want it to then go with the flow... (read in full...)
Is she running from something? if so, is she running from something in herself to where she occasionally runs into me and is reminded that we are a rock together?
Q. A THREE PART LOVE(?)STORY. I. I met her about four years ago, she was 19, I was 23. We began spending a lot of time together and within a few months we were living together happily. that lasted about 15 months. After about a year (give or ta...
A. 13 July 2007: maybe she freaks out from seriouse relationships , you could ask her to her face why does she always does that but ofcourse in a nice tone if you feel that she wants to be with you and that she loves you but she couldn't come up with an excuse o... (read in full...)
I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference.
Q. Well I'm a 14 year old freshman and I really like this girl who's two years younger than me. She's in seventh grade, which is the same grade as my brother. I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference, or I ...
A. 12 July 2007: if your looking for a seriouse relationship then i don't think that she's the right one but if it's just for fun then go for it ... (read in full...)
What do I do to get back her interest and for her to fall in love with me?
Q. I have been in relationship with my girlfriend for 3 years and she is already married to a man. My girlfriend and her husband married due to family pressures when they were young and there have never been any kind of relationship between them. Me ...
A. 12 July 2007: well maybe she is mad at you for doing something , why don't you face her .. ask he why is she treating you diffrently . even if she stopped loveing you atleast know the reason so when you move on you don't do the same mistake again good luck... (read in full...)
What can I say to my friend who thinks he's ugly?
Q. i have a friend that i've known for over 5 years now he thinks his ugly and asked for my help what should i say to him he has only had two girlfriends and wants to no why can you help ???...
A. 7 June 2007: you could start by saying know your inner beauty to see your outer beauty if you do not believe in your self you will never see your self as good looking
another solution is to tell it differs from you seeing your self and from people seeing you ... (read in full...)
I don't know if my bro's best friend likes me - we make out, but there is also some other girl! What do I do?
Q. ok well this guy i like is my brothers best friend and i don't know if he likes me or not but i got a pretty good idea he does because he texts me all the time and when ever he spends the night at my house we always makeout or somethin but theres ...
A. 7 June 2007: it depends if he's the type of guy whos honest enough to tell you about other girls that he knows so if he's honest then ask him what do you represent in his life and if he's gonna take this relation ship seriouse , if he's not an honest person i'm ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my best friend, but don't want to say anything in case it negatively impacts our friendship!
Q. i am in love with my bestfriend what should i do ?? well its been more then a year i know this girl she is my bestfriend now and i feel that i am in love with this girl the problem is that i just cant tell her that i love her because i dont w...
A. 7 June 2007: ask her about your situation without saying that your the one inlove as if your taking her advice for a friend and think about what she's gonna tell you
... (read in full...)
Is it my duty as a son to satisfy the emotional and psychological needs of my parents?
Q. Is it my duty as a son to satisfy the emotional and psychological needs of my parents, especially my mother? Why is it that my parents want to bully me in to doing this job for them? I am 25 yrs old guy.. please advice....
A. 29 May 2007: well since your 25 then your old enough to get a job and if your living with them then you better get one because it's time for you to be independent... (read in full...)
We're on a break as my girlfriend has said she doesn't trust me and it's driving me mad not seeing her.
Q. I would like some input on this as its very upseting for me and i feel i have no control over the situation. Me and my girlfriend are on a break for 1 month. She feels she cannot trust me because a few weeks ago we had an argument and my ex ...
A. 29 May 2007: why don't you try to let her remember all the good times you had and all the times you didn't let her down , that will make her come to realize that you are still good inside off you and how hard it is to let go off all these good memories . and ya ... (read in full...)
His gift is too big for me, what can I do???
Q. My boyfriend just bought me a beautiful Gucci belt to go with a bag i recently bought... the only problem is that it's too big for me !! He doesn't have as much money s i do so i know he must have had to save for it. I don't want to hurt him by ...
A. 29 May 2007: you could simply tell him it's to big for me could you help me put another hole so i could wear it , that way he won't feel down or take it the wrong way... (read in full...)
I discovered that my mother masturbates, what should I do?
Q. i discovered that my mother masturbates herself , what should i do?...
A. 29 May 2007: i don't think you have anything to do except try to give her more privacy so you don't see her doing anything you don't want to see... (read in full...)
Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when you're with someone else?
Q. Is it right to spend time with the opposite sex when are you in a relationship with someone else?...
A. 29 May 2007: well it depends on the situation are you alone with the opposite sex or are you in a group and it also depends on your partner's mentality... (read in full...)
Should the man have more rights than a woman in a relationship?
Q. is it fair when a guy gives him self more rights than a girl as to be more controlling or to give him self the privlige to do things that he would not allow his girlfriend to do?...
A. 29 May 2007: thanks
we spoke about it and now we know that soon enough we will be breaking up because we both disagree about this issue but right now we are trying to find a compromise and my problem is now that how can i make him see that this isn't right ... ... (read in full...)
How do you go from dating someone to actually being in a relationship with them?
Q. how do you go from dating someone to being in a relationship with them? i know that sounds stupid but i honestly don`t know. do you say after a couple of dates "so should we start a relationship together" or what?...
A. 27 May 2007: well while your dating start talking about more intimte or personal things and see how it goes if your partner responded in a good way then by time you will be having a relation ship ... (read in full...)
I'm good looking (people say) but look young for my age!
Q. What is the best way to start chatting to a girl in a club? I would class myself as a nice guy, i get loadsa compliments saying im good looking, but i think my downfall is i look young for my age. I'm 19, but probably only look 16, and this kno...
A. 26 May 2007: i have the same problem. people think i'm 14 but i'm gonna be 17 soon and it really pisses me off but the thing is just go with the flow . you've got a nice charachter your good looking so that's enough and so what when a girl says no there are alot ... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't pay much attention to me anymore! What should I do?
Q. I feel so sad lately. Me and my girlfriend both still live with our parents, so we only see each other like every other weekend. She says she loves me and I love her too. But she doesn't french me anymore, and everytime she comes over she just ...
A. 26 May 2007: you should ask her why did she change and according to this decide what your future actions will be... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want any physical contact. Can we save this marriage?
Q. Is there anyway to save this marriage? I have been with my husband for over 4 years. I noticed a real change in his romantic and physical expressions of love after just one year. We used to have a great sex life, kisses and hugs "hello" and "goo...
A. 25 May 2007: i think you should reply back to his answers like when he said that's how marrige is, you should have said no. you should have said that there are a lot of married couples who are still having sex. then you should ask him "how come that's the way ... (read in full...)
Breaking up with my boyfriend will probably cause me to fail the exams. What shall I do?
Q. I've been really hurt. I had to split up with my first proper boyfriend 2 days ago. We were together for a year and had all our 'firsts' together. During the last month of our relationship, he had started be really rude to me, saying stuff like 'I'm ...
A. 25 May 2007: you've got 2 options either discuss with him why did you break up with him or, forget him. obviously the secound solution is not the best thing for you. so why don't you phone him and ask him why did he suddenly change and why couldn't he wait at ... (read in full...)
I am skinny and my friends tell me to gain weight! Is being thin ...ugly??
Q. is being slim, ugly ? i'm really skiny not anorexic but like those skiny models but my friends say that i need to gain more weight!!!...
A. 23 May 2007: thanks for the advice
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Bf is doing drugs, everyday! What should I do?
Q. I'm 17 and my Boyfriend is 20, He has no Job no money. We've been going out for almost 2 years he was a nice guy totaly againts Drugs. And now, We changed he started to do a drug and hes doing it almost every day. We were sepost to hang out today. ...
A. 19 May 2007: first you have to see if he's willing to change ,if you feel from him that he might become what he used to be , then try to find out what was the reason for him to turn to drugs from the first place and ask professional people for advice ,but if ... (read in full...)
Do I stick around to see if she changes her mind about being with me, or are there some better strategies out there?
Q. Hi there, im daniel, from australia and i really need some help here! I known this girl for about 4 years now in which we worked together for sum 6 months or so. she had a bf at the time we first met...she had a house with him and all and she w...
A. 16 May 2007: your problem is a common one . i know alot of people who went through what your going through .and i want to ask a question, how does it feel when you believe that she's the one and that she may leave you ? hard huh? well, imagine her feelings ... (read in full...)
How do you truly express that you love someone when they dont believe you!?
Q. What do you say to someone whom you love so much to keep them?How do you express how you really feel if they dont believe you when you say you love them?...
A. 16 May 2007: in your situation i think that you should ask why do they feel so ? why does he or she thinks that you don't love him or her!!?
anthor point is that it's not what you say but what you do, so be always by their side when their down or be the firs... (read in full...)
My parents were over protective when I was young, Im now 21 and dont feel I have a normal life and I'm scarred!
Q. I grew up with two very overprotective parents, who wouldn't allow me to grow up, in fear of losing their little girl forever. Whenever I tried to act my age, they would give me a hard time and I would get in trouble, even if I was doing something ...
A. 16 May 2007: forget is to forgive and for you to move on with your life ,you have to forgive your parents!and inorder of having a normal life i believe that you should be sociable , and from the people around you ,you will then learn and know things that you ... (read in full...)
What is REAL love???
Q. how do i know if he loves me?...
A. 12 May 2007: real love is when you'd do anything and evrything to the person you love . real love is when your partner would try to comfort you in any way when your feeling down . real love is when you feel respected and secure from your partner.... (read in full...)
I know this is a silly question... but should I break up with him?
Q. should i break up with him ? first,i don't trust him like i used to.secound,i don't feel that he actually understands me like he used. third, we fight alot. fourth, i don't feel that he listens to me .fifth, i don't feel that he cares about me !!!ya ...
A. 12 May 2007: thanks to all of you for the advices , seems like you all come to the same conclusion. right now , we're not on a break but he's in a diffrent city so we aren't seeing each other but we still talk so i'll see how it goes , and the only thing that ... (read in full...)
Is it right for me to remain less then happy for my daughters sake even though I would prefer to be with my ex anyway!?
Q. Here we go...the ex wants to come back! There was alot of good and bad between us, but so far its been almost 2 yrs and my feelings for him still have not faded. Maybe its because my current bf just doesn't make me feel like he did, good or bad. ...
A. 11 May 2007: well it's pretty sweet of your ex boyfriend to ask you to move with him but what if that changes again and you quarrel again ,wouldn't that cause some imbalance to your daughter. she's already causing you trouble every day ,what do you expect from ... (read in full...)
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