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writes:hey, i'm 15 and no girls ever seem to be interested in me. i've been told im fairly good looking and have a good personality, so wat am i doing wrong?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Stanley Cup  +, writes (26 July 2007):
Your problem is that you're worrying about it too much. This has probably made you a little less confident as well. I noticed that you stated that you've been told that you look good and have a good personality. That's nice to know, but do you tell yourself that you look good and have a nice personality. Be sure to tell yourself this several times throughout the day, and soon enough you'll realize it and believe it.
Additionally, when you see a girl that you like, do not wonder if she will like you, but ask yourself if you will like her. Think of it as an interview. You are interviewing her to see if she is worth you and your time. I hope that this helps give you a boost of confidence.
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reader, jomana  +, writes (25 July 2007):
 well maybe you've been put with the wrong people and maybe you just don't approach to the person infront correctly so try revising your self or ask a colse friend and does he or she thinkgood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2007): 1) you are either lying about your looks and personality 2) maybe you treat people poorly. Are you nice and kind? Do you share? When you tell jokes, are the about people (bad idea). Do you help out the less fortunate ones? Do you listen and obey parents, techaers, etc? 3) By 'interested' - maybe you mean sex? Sex - any kind - at 15 is rare - regardless of what you hear and read. A lot of kids boast about what they do. At 15, you should be holding hands maybe a goodnigh kiss after a nice, proper date. No more than that. At 15, you should be masterbating by yourself - a lot.4) you are so over worked about it, you have become nuerotic and now are nervous every time you have a socila interaction with a girl(s). Relax, and try to get your mind off what happens next. Just try and hang out and the best secret is to just listen to girls. Dont speak your opinion or try to give advice or try to comment. Just listen and say "yea, um-hum" cool and OK. Always say positive words: OK, yes, sure, Love it!
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reader, WBAuer +, writes (25 July 2007):
Hey. Im 18 and finally found love. But before my current girlfriend I was single since I was 15. It sucked big time coz like you I was told nice things about myself, which, almost made it worse coz It made it harder to find an answer to why girls werent interested. But as hard as it sounds its just about finding the right girl, and you will eventually. Althought dont go looking for her. Its hard to give any real tips for this situation except keep trying and find a new group of girls. If you want some tips on getting girls you could read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss, althought thats more about one-night stands and only really works in clubs. But it might help your confidence.Just hang in there mate!
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