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writes: I like to feel protected and secure and for the same reason I give unnecessarily high importance to people in my life like my father, brother, brother's wife etc. I believe them to be in a better position to understand and estimate my needs and evaluate worth in life. I have always been such a dependent on my family for moral support, whereas from what I realize is that it is not me who needs it, but it is the other way round in that they depend on my moral support and approval for things they do. Though I do not necessarily feel that I need their support or approval. It is just when I am emotionally closed to my fiancee that I believe so much weak. What can I do to feel more confident of my own abilities..?
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reader, jomana  +, writes (16 July 2007):
 well you have to ask your self deep inside of you why do you feel insecure or weak ??try finding the reason and work it out then afterwards you will start feeling better .
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2007): this is tough, you can repeat affirmations to yourself in the mirror every morning (sounds silly but it works for a lot of people) write a list of all the good things about yourself and stick it somewhere you'll see it everyday.
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