How can I prove to her that I wont leave her, shes so jealous and insecure!!
Q. I have been engaged for a few months now and my fiancee's jealousy is becoming worse. I have never given her any reason to be suspicious of me, although I do speak to female friends on MSN. She knew my password and would sometimes go on my account ...
A. 12 September 2006: im not saying u are bad at all i said sorry i am sorry ok i gave u crap advice and im sorry for saying ur gf is a loser, i just dont like to see ppl get hurt like that but if ur ok bout it then its fine its non of my business... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her that I wont leave her, shes so jealous and insecure!!
Q. I have been engaged for a few months now and my fiancee's jealousy is becoming worse. I have never given her any reason to be suspicious of me, although I do speak to female friends on MSN. She knew my password and would sometimes go on my account ...
A. 12 September 2006: ok then sorry for accusing u i just felt a bit p*ssed off that i tried to encourage u and help u as she cheated on u 80 times, that must hurt, u didn't want to hear that tho so im sorry i don't no what else to say to ur question.... (read in full...)
My GF broke up with me today and I just can't get her out of my head...
Q. My gf broke up with me today, at first i went all hyper and in an almost sarcastic mood, but now ive been drinking lots of gin, and taken about 8 paracetamol, and ive also been crying loads, and everything i look at reminds me of her. I cant even ...
A. 12 September 2006: without sounding 'gay' as such, if u feel like u can't go on u have to promise me u will see ur GP and explain that u have taken these paracetamol, even though it is only 8. the worst way to die is by overdose believe me, and the worst drug to ... (read in full...)
My bf had an affair with a co-worker and I am in so much pain. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and I found out 6 months ago that he was having an affair with a married, older co-worker in his new job. I found out by accident, and it had gone on for a month at this point. He told me he was having ...
A. 12 September 2006: and with all due respect to ariel, he has already had ONE chance and he f*cked that up good and proper, u don't have to accept what this man has done to u x... (read in full...)
My bf had an affair with a co-worker and I am in so much pain. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and I found out 6 months ago that he was having an affair with a married, older co-worker in his new job. I found out by accident, and it had gone on for a month at this point. He told me he was having ...
A. 12 September 2006: NOOOOOOO!!!! u are not a bad person u sound like a wonderful person, i hate abusive men - "if I had loved him that I would be able to forgive him and stay together"- OMG!! manipulative horrible man. u are wayyy to good for him and he knows it! ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her that I wont leave her, shes so jealous and insecure!!
Q. I have been engaged for a few months now and my fiancee's jealousy is becoming worse. I have never given her any reason to be suspicious of me, although I do speak to female friends on MSN. She knew my password and would sometimes go on my account ...
A. 12 September 2006: then why are u asking anyone for advice? i notice my 'poor' rating has gone up considerably as u read my advice, i take it back, u do not seem nice, u seem like a moaner who just wants to complain but not accept advice u have asked for, what is the ... (read in full...)
She takes prozac but I don't want to give up on her...
Q. does anybody have any experience of having a girlfreind who has/is taking prozac. how does this effect the relationship. The reason i am asking is that there is this young lady who i have been trying to get her to be my girlfreind at various times ...
A. 12 September 2006: why is it such an issue?????????????????? one in four of experience a mental illness throughout our lives and thats just based on research. depression is the most common of all by far, 15% of us will experience a MAJOR bout of depression at some ... (read in full...)
I asked her to tell me a secret, she did but was it a joke ?
Q. Was in bed with my gf last week and we were chatting. She then asked me to tell her a secret, after being pushed for a while I told her something that happened to me in my childhood, I then asked her the same her reply in a stone-cold serious face ...
A. 12 September 2006: i think she was havin a sick joke, if it were true she'd know about AIDS and know that she'd be HIV positive until her dying days when she would then have AIDS... (read in full...)
Is his request normal ?
Q. my boyfriend wants me to call out my ex boyfriends name when we are having sex. i find this uncomfortable. is this normal? ...
A. 12 September 2006: maybe he likes the torture side to sex, it would definately torture me if my bf shouted his ex's name out during sex... (read in full...)
Could he have snogged another while he was away???
Q. Hi there, This is a really silly problem but i cant get it out of my head. My boyfriend has just spent a weekend in New York with his best friend, who is single. I asked him whether his friend scored any women at all and he said yes, he did...
A. 12 September 2006: it doesn't sound unreasonable iv felt like that, my ex had the most slimiest mates of all, but u have to see it as, his mate is single - so he can do that stuff, whereas ur bf is with u - so probably won't even want to. he was probably sat on his ... (read in full...)
I have dreams he is cheating...
Q. Hi I know this is going to sound strange but it is really bugging me. I have an amazing boyfriend and we love and trust eachother very much, but I keep having dreams that he cheats on me. I know he isnt as we are always together and I know I am the ...
A. 12 September 2006: don't be so supersticious, if that were the case i'd be riding a giant dog over clouds eating marshmallows to my heart's content. good theories suggest that when we sleep our conscious is sorting its self out, any worries and problems we have are ... (read in full...)
I cheated a while ago, now she has cheated, but shes always flirtng online, is this doomed ?
Q. PLIZ HELP...I've known my girlfriend for 3 years, we once broke up coz I was seeing another girl. But we got back together 1 1/2 years ago coz we still luved each other so much. but it has been a distance relationship. I vowed I would make it up to ...
A. 12 September 2006: it seems to me like when u cheated at first u really hurt her and although she came back because she still loved u, she must've loved u SOOO much, and now u'v numbed part of that. u'v killed part of that flame she had inside for u and u probably ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her that I wont leave her, shes so jealous and insecure!!
Q. I have been engaged for a few months now and my fiancee's jealousy is becoming worse. I have never given her any reason to be suspicious of me, although I do speak to female friends on MSN. She knew my password and would sometimes go on my account ...
A. 12 September 2006: she is insecure because she is a cheat and her minds works in a vicious and deceiving way, so she assumes that urs does too. she will always be like this because she will always have the fear that one day u will get ur own back. i respect that u ... (read in full...)
I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!
Q. My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...
A. 11 September 2006: it seems as though u are about 10 years old, if this is so and ur gf is the same age then it is quite normal for her to hav 'quite small breasts'... (read in full...)
he called me nasty names but claims he loves me!!?
Q. What does it mean when your boyfriend of a year gets angry and starts calling you names when you are arguing and he makes you cry, by calling you a "slut", "hoe", "dirty" and that hes had better than you, even though he is in love with you???...
A. 11 September 2006: it means ur boyfriend is an insecure waste of space who thrives on abusing u allow him to go back to whoever was better than u if thats the case he shouldn't hesitate... (read in full...)
What to send my crush!
Q. I'm really good friends with/kind of have a crush on a guy who currently lives overseas. For my birthday he sent me a great surprise package with a present inside. So, I planned on sending him a package for Christmas. But the other day I was o...
A. 10 September 2006: just chill out stop freaking over it and send them... (read in full...)
I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!
Q. My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...
A. 10 September 2006: oh yeh, Dr Psych what a fetching piece of advice i wish id came up with that... (read in full...)
I have lost interest in her because of her breasts!
Q. My gf and i have been in a relationship for over 3 months. I am begining to loose interest in her becasue she has very small breasts. This sounds really immature but I can't help but feel it. I really like her and she has the best personality and ...
A. 10 September 2006: OH MY GOD like Ariel says finish it cos she deserves better than someone who IS immature and only cares what he equally stupid mates think, let her be appreciated by someone normal... (read in full...)
My wife has a low sex drive and its driving a wedge!
Q. Wife has low sex drive and am thinking about an affair. I have a much higher sex drive than my wife and would like to have sex 2-3 times per week. In her perfect world 1-2 times per month would be better.I am very passionate and like for an enco...
A. 10 September 2006: i suggest that u don't pester or have a go at your wife regarding this as she may feel embarrassed and inadequate if you try to ridicule her. i think you should put up with it for a while longer and focus on other methods of showing her affection - ... (read in full...)
He treated me bad but i still love him
Q. "Does he still loves me? Is it over?" I met my ex bf online. We communicate online and by phone for a year and half. When we met I felt like I have known him for so long. I stayed in his house and first night he begged me to performed an oral sex...
A. 10 September 2006: wow it sounds as though u have kept a diary of every miniscule event that has ever happened during your relationship. u seem as though u are very on edge and nervy, taking things out of context. - "I felt like nobody cares about me. For hours I was ... (read in full...)
My bf had an affair with a co-worker and I am in so much pain. What should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I were together for 5 years and I found out 6 months ago that he was having an affair with a married, older co-worker in his new job. I found out by accident, and it had gone on for a month at this point. He told me he was having ...
A. 9 September 2006: aww poor u i feel so bad for u. he obviously doesn't care to think about the enormity of pain he's caused u and doesn't seem too serious about saving ur relationship by just refusing ur attempt at fixing things between u. uv already made up ur ... (read in full...)
My bf maturbates over the entertainer Jake Shears! He denies being gay so what's wrong with him?
Q. Hi there... I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 22. Recently he's become obsessed with Jake Shears from the Scissor Sisters, spending time on the Internet masturbating over photographs of him. He denies ever being gay when I asked him, and said he fa...
A. 9 September 2006: ok............!! wow. that guy is nice but this is quite a strange situation. how awful for u! i think its time u were straight with him and blatently said it has to stop. tell him it is not normal or healthy for a 22 year old man to obsess ... (read in full...)
After 9 months, she e-mails me but I responded in anger. I am still hurting..what should I do?
Q. well i'm a 30 yr old fireman who recently ended a long, loving relationship..she was younger than i (23) , but we were engaged and had bought a house..i found some pictures of her with another man and i initially broke it off..after a few weeks i ...
A. 9 September 2006: it sounds like she really misses the friendship u both had and although she doesn't want to go back to having a romantic relationship just yet or ever, the truth is that she misses u. she's feeling guilty and distressed about the way things ended ... (read in full...)
My bf is visiting from abroad and has only called me twice. Am I not reading some bad signs here or what?
Q. my boyfriend lives abroad and came home to visit recently.in the two weeks he's been here i've seen him only twice and i always call him and he doesn't return my calls.I'm begining to feel like I'm stalking him. Am i not reading the signs?.what ...
A. 9 September 2006: he doesn't really seem interested to be honest, i wouldn't waste my time on him, find someone who actually wants a relationship and appreciates you x... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to use this guy to make babies? Trapping him as a father?
Q. I am a confident, intelligent, and independent 21 year old woman. I work full time, i am also a part-time university student (finishing my degree in 6 months). I own my own car and have recently moved out of my parents house and have had no troub...
A. 9 September 2006: why would u even consider trapping someone like this and potentially ruin their life? wake up and realise what u are saying, u hav got ur self caught up so deep in thinking about cloning the perfect child uv lost touch with reality.... (read in full...)
I have a sexual problem that my doctor says doesnt exist please.. Please help!!
Q. I have a sexual problem and my doctor wouldn't help me. I almost feel like I'm imagining this as my doctor wouldn't help me and he basically said it was in my head. It's so personal that it's difficult to explain or see anyone about it. one of my ...
A. 9 September 2006: if u truly believe there is something wrong u could go to your surgery and demand u want a scan like maxsteel86 says, explain that it is causing u significant psychological problems and distress and u would just like to be PROVED wrong instead of ... (read in full...)
My affair guy has announced he is marrying his girlfriend!!!!
Q. I am married woman having an affair for the last year with a wonderful man. We are both besotted with each other. He has had a stormy distance relationship for the last 5 years and his girlfriend has been putting a lot of presure on him to get ...
A. 9 September 2006: ok, well u obviously know that people are going to think 'hmmm' and disapprove of u having an affair while ur married, but why are u still married if u don't love ur husband? defeats the whole idea of marrying someone. anyway... u talk about the ... (read in full...)
I want things to be like when we first met!
Q. ok my boyfriend and hace been off and on for 4 months now and lke i get the feeling hes bored with me and i jst want him to like me, the way he did when first met how can i do this?...
A. 9 September 2006: hi, if ur bf cannot appreciate u then find someone who does, don't think that ur not any fun or that u have to change, it sounds to me like he is the boring one if he has nothing worthwhile to say to u. why don't u hang out with friends for while ... (read in full...)
Should I stay or should I go!?
Q. Should i stay or should i go? My husband of 7 years told me six weeks ago that he was unhappy in our marriage. As with all couples we had a few problems but we had been talking about starting for a family soon. turns out he isnt sure if he wants...
A. 9 September 2006: it looks to me as if uv already made ur decision but ur just running it by us for approval. go for it, i can tell by what uv said that u feel this is the right thing to do. ur husband obviously has something on his mind that has made him suddenly ... (read in full...)
My 16 year old sister is dating a 45 year old and says shes wants to marry him!!
Q. I'm 21 and my sister is 16 years old. Recently I found out that she's been dating a 45-year-old man, which I feel uneasy about. She says there's nothing sexual going on, and that he's not been pressuring her for sex etc., and they've been dating ...
A. 9 September 2006: have you got parents around to talk to?? i no u probably don't want to lose ur sister's trust and go behind her back but if ur concerned for her future or scared she could make a huge mistake that will stay with her for her entire life then isn't ... (read in full...)
17 and fancy a married man
Q. I'm 17 and have liked a particular guy for 3 years. The problem is he is married, is 39 and now has a baby. His wife works away and I'm often round there and am tempted to make a move. I think he likes me -he shows me loads of respect is quite ...
A. 9 September 2006: FORGET ABOUT HIM!!! this is a married man with a child we're talking about! if he can do this to his wife and jeopardise his family then what would he do to u? try not to get so flattered by things he says and does. Why are you going round ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with the guy who loves me but has no drive, or try out the new guy ?
Q. Dear All, I've written a couple of times already about this problem, but it's just got worse - please help!! I have a boyfried who loves me very much - we have been dating for 2 months, but he loved me for 3 years beforehand. In the past, h...
A. 9 September 2006: Hey hun, try not to worry so much, i say this but i'm in a very similar situation. my current bf is a builder and iv been with him for a year, but he is too immature even though he is 25, we have different interests, i want to go travelling and ... (read in full...)
I read her emails and found out shes been seeing one of my friends!!
Q. I've had suspissions that my girlfriend has a thing for a close friend of mine. They always seem to be talking or texting each other. So I thought i would talk to her about it. She said i was just being silly and imagineing it. I didn't believe her, ...
A. 8 September 2006: awww i feel so bad for you i don't really know what to tell only u can decide in the end, we all hav little crushes on people when we're with someone we love but the difference is if we care that much we don't carry them out, that means even just ... (read in full...)
I feel so sorry for myself (long-winded post)
Q. Hi, More than a year ago something happened to me. It's a long story so here goes.. Me and my boyfriend have a great realationship but one night things went wrong. I did something for him but it didn't go to well and then it got worse when he got...
A. 7 September 2006: i think u just feel stupid because of the kind of situation and because ur feeling sooo embarrassed ur not seeing things properly ur having a hissy fit and causing all this commotion to distract u from feeling stupid... (read in full...)
I feel so sorry for myself (long-winded post)
Q. Hi, More than a year ago something happened to me. It's a long story so here goes.. Me and my boyfriend have a great realationship but one night things went wrong. I did something for him but it didn't go to well and then it got worse when he got...
A. 7 September 2006: Don't mean to be horrid but ur boyfriend just sounds like a normal guy, u had an arguement and then u went over the top acting like a spoilt child. that's how it sounds to me, i'm not tryin to be abusive, just think about it honestly and if i'm ... (read in full...)
Can you really be in love with two people at the same time?
Q. Is it truly possible to be in love with two people at the same time? or is that just something people say when they're afraid to admit how they truly feel, or are scared to say they don't love their partner anymore? I always thought that it wasn't ...
A. 7 September 2006: Just to reply to the anonomous writer who says u can be in love with 2 people...
HOW? one sexually and one emotionally??? then neither of them are love! love is a bond that u share every part of a relationship with. just because my best mate... (read in full...)
He has lost interest in sex, and blames me!
Q. I have been in an almost 7 year relationship. We have been through a lot this last year from September 2005 to now having moved twice. We met in NYC where neither of us had any real friends since we were both new to that city. Then we moved to a ...
A. 7 September 2006: I think he loves you it's obvious, but I think Davie is right in what he said, he's felt unworthy and rejected for a whole year but has still loved you through it, I think he is very hurt and wounded, now you're complaining that he's turned you down ... (read in full...)
Can someone try and help sort through this mess in my head.. Im scared of making the wrong choice with the wrong guy!! (very long)
Q. Hi, First of all I am just warning you that this could possibly be the longest letter you have ever received but I wanted to tell you every little thing so you have the perfect picture. I was hoping you could help me make a decision as I ca...
A. 7 September 2006: Thanks to everyone who answered my questions and thanks for actually reading the novel!! I'm going to take some time on my own and see friends, I haven't been on my own since like forever from about 15 years old. Thanks especially to malyce synn72 ... (read in full...)
Got caught cheating online..how do I regain my gf's trust?
Q. How do I gain trust back when I have been caught cheating online with females but no sexual activities? I have to get my girlfriend back, please help!...
A. 7 September 2006: why do u want her back? u'v betrayed her with something that's probably really hurting her now why should she get back with u?? sorry, but if i was her i wouldn't go near u again. u obviously have no respect for her and u certainly don't love her ... (read in full...)
My obsessive bf, dumped me, but he says he just wants me to take a step back!? What should I do ?
Q. My bf who used to obssess about me dumped me after 10 months, how do I get over him? He was the perfect bf, never cheated, always loyal. And he is so hot, he had to turn down a lot of girls. But when we went to college he suddenly changed, he aske...
A. 6 September 2006: oh my god! lose him he is messing you about, he's trying to have his cake and eat it. he is just making excuses, i know its hard but move on, your at college now there should be plenty of new people to meet - and i'm sure thats what hes thinking ... (read in full...)
He has lost interest in sex, and blames me!
Q. I have been in an almost 7 year relationship. We have been through a lot this last year from September 2005 to now having moved twice. We met in NYC where neither of us had any real friends since we were both new to that city. Then we moved to a ...
A. 6 September 2006: Hey, maybe your partner resents you for some things in the past and he is just saying nasty things that he doesn't mean. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now and i know that he loves me more than anything on earth, but ... (read in full...)
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