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writes: Hi there...I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 22.Recently he's become obsessed with Jake Shears from the Scissor Sisters, spending time on the Internet masturbating over photographs of him.He denies ever being gay when I asked him, and said he fancies the guy - a contradictory statement, isn't it??We don't even have sex much any more - he refuses to have it, even when I initiate it.I'm worried about him... all he ever talks about now is Jake Shears.
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reader, joeymac +, writes (9 September 2006):
ok............!! wow. that guy is nice but this is quite a strange situation. how awful for u! i think its time u were straight with him and blatently said it has to stop. tell him it is not normal or healthy for a 22 year old man to obsess like this over someone he will never meet. to not want to have sex with his girlfriend anymore because he has found love with a scissor sister... its just not acceptable is it. i can't think of a clear answer to give u because this is such a bizarre situation. all i can say is u need to drill it into his head that u are really hurt and confused by it all and try to bring him back to reality, otherwise just leave him to it. by the way, how did u find out he was doing this?? did u catch him doing it a few times or has he just openly done it infront of u?
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