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reader, Banoffee  +, writes (1 June 2007):
 I really don't see any problem here, other than your apparent reliance on what your friends think you should do. Sounds like you'd prefer a woman with a bigger cup size. Good for you for being honest about what you want - it's the polar opposite of immaturity. There are plenty of folk who feel safer expressing whatever opinion they feel they "should", or who seek safety in numbers by jumping on a band wagon. Unfortunately it's easy to allow the negativity of such people to influence our thinking (see Star Wars).
The world is full of billions of women and chances are you'll find many beautiful women with great personalities AND lovely big juicy jugs!
By the way, you needn't be concerned that you'll be leaving your lady on the shelf. She's not a sparrow with a broken wing and there are many men who love small breasts.
Whether this is really all about breasts is irrelevant. When we want someone, whatever it is that we find so special about that person allows us to overlook flaws that would otherwise trouble us. It sounds like you don't want this woman and might be well served “tasting the fruits”! Enjoy yourself.
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reader, Lytoo +, writes (10 December 2006):
Get your wife pregnant and breast-feeding. Best way to naturally enlarge breasts. :-)
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 O, if your 'mates' say drop her, then go ahead, do her a favour and drop her - I hope they then tell you to go jump in a croc-infested swamp!!!
IMMATURE, oh, yes, indeedy!
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reader, Green_Eyes +, writes (12 September 2006):
 There's more to life than boobs!!! I think that if you were really into her, you would barely notice the bits you weren't so keen on. Focus on what you like about her and, if you really can't get over the flat chest, finish it and 'set her free' so she can find someone who appreciates her for who she is.
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reader, james1980 +, writes (12 September 2006):
Forget what your mates say, breasts are VERY IMPORTANT in a relationship, my ex spent 3600 on new ones, look beyond the boobs for sexual stimulation, get her to lap dance her breasts across your face wihout you being allowed to touch them, - lets see how small you think they are then!!
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reader, joeymac +, writes (11 September 2006):
it seems as though u are about 10 years old, if this is so and ur gf is the same age then it is quite normal for her to hav 'quite small breasts'
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reader, DannySanto +, writes (11 September 2006):
 I dont even want to give you advice!
Get over yourself and grow up
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2006): As with DrPsych, I agree, drop the girl. If you're influenced by what your friends think you should do, then just do what they want you to do. I'm sure there are other girls out there with massive breasts just waiting for you.
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reader, sugapuff  +, writes (10 September 2006):
 are u gods gift to women or something!
yes us women put on earth as pieces of meat to be judged by men!!!!!!!!!!!!!
while men can be as fat ugly old unattractive smelly stupid and brain dead as they want!
they all have the right 2 grade this meat and alot of the meat has bought into the idea they should care wat u hunks think!
i hope she dumps your pathetic ass and finds a real man!
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reader, MadameRazz +, writes (10 September 2006):
 If you don't find her physically attractive, don't go out with her anymore. But don't tell her that thats the reason why. 3 months is a short enough time to tell her that you just dont think its working out. Be nice to her. And to us smallbreasted women, there are many benefits, no sagging and drooping when you get older, and we can...run easilier.
Hurrah!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): So what about breasts? More often than not the women who have huge breasts also have huge hips and thighs.
What about her butt? I have found as men aged, they went from obsessed over boobs to desiring a killer booty.
Have you ever seen that southpark episode where Cartman draws nipples on his butt cheeks and takes a picture of his butt like it was breasts as he was being bullied from that older kid? Those kids drooled over his ass for crying out loud!!!
Anything you can do with breasts can be done with the butt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): Dear, I don't think you have the mature mindset to be even dating, yet. Peer pressure and what your friends think are far more important to you. You do mention she has a wonderful personality and is quite pretty. I am glad to hear that 'you' admire her other qualities but you are still in that 'superficial, childlike' mode that has you thinking, in this manner. I suggest you come clean and let her go find someone else who takes her as is and doesn't judge her based on the size of her breasts. I hope you take the advice you have been given on this page and really learn about treating people with respect..from all that has been said to you. Good luck, dear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2006): maybe your mates just wanna get on it cus they're jealous?
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reader, joeymac +, writes (10 September 2006):
oh yeh, Dr Psych what a fetching piece of advice i wish id came up with that
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reader, joeymac +, writes (10 September 2006):
OH MY GOD like Ariel says finish it cos she deserves better than someone who IS immature and only cares what he equally stupid mates think, let her be appreciated by someone normal
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (10 September 2006):
 Your mates say drop her because she has small breasts!! So er who exactly has the problem here!! Your mates and its all about keeping up appearances!! We are all different and have different qualities.. we dont know who we will fall in love with and we dont tend to think oh shes got small breasts cant fall in love with her or be seen out with her because my friends make fun! Get a life and learn that breast size in the real world does not make a person! So what if she does have small breasts.. what you gonna do wait for a bigger breasted girl to come along that has a bad personalilty, ahh but im guessing that will be alright so longs as your mates can stare at her breasts... dont think you will get anyone on this site taking this seriously in the slightest... you have alot to learn my friend and you better start realsing that not all girls measure up to your mates... just hope that one has the guts to turn round and tell you one day what a shallow person you are... perhaps when you have grown up you will realise what a numbnut you are!
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reader, David Lewis +, writes (10 September 2006):
 What attracted you to her in the first place?
I am just curious to know, because you dont seem to be able to see beyond her breasts.
I think it is because of your friends why you feel this way, they have made you doubt your very own feelings. She deserves much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2006): i wish you someday that your girlfriend will not tell to her mates that you have a very soft and small dick. you better go and play with your mates.... its for your own sake
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reader, shania +, writes (9 September 2006):
 You are a very,shallow young man and i hope one day that you dont get dumped because your girlfriend thought you had a small dick.So if your mate said to you.."Go and jump of a cliff"..you would do that because he said so? There is more to a woman then a pair of tits and im glad that you are going to give her the elbow because you will be doing her a massive favour!
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (9 September 2006):
 DrPsych that was the best piece of advice that could've been offered!
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (9 September 2006):
 What you need to do is simple...dump the girl...what a disappointment her breasts must be to you all the time, and how dare she disappoint you and your mates...wicked girl to have a personality but no breasts. With all the cash you save on not having to take out Ms FlatChest, you can save up to have some silicon implants attached to yourself so you will never have to take a chance on another girl again, all that wasted energy...you can just play with your own at home! Or share them with your mates...
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