How can you tell if someone in the service industry is into you
Q. How can you tell if someone in the service industry (waitress, operator/secretary, etc.) is into you or just doing their job happily? How can you tell in person or talking over the phone? What can you ask to determine if that person is into you, ...
A. 16 February 2008: Okay, a fact for you. Alot of women especially those who work for tips, are nice for that reason. However, alot of women are just generally lovely, have you ever tried talking to one? Not about her work? Smileing is a big sign also lo... (read in full...)
Will shy men like me EVER find true love ?
Q. Hello! I am a 25 year old man living in Syracuse, New York. I am very shy but i socialize when i can. My problem is i feel like time is running out. Everywhere i go i see people with their special someone and i don't have anyone. These hor...
A. 16 February 2008: Hey sweetie, Yes of course you will find that someone. Patience is key in these things, i found my someone in highschool and weve been together ever since. But i know that there is more than one person for everyone, Please keep your hope and... (read in full...)
How do I ask out a girl on facebook?
Q. There's this girl that I met a couple days ago randomly, and I just found her profile on facebook. I felt like when we met, we both had some chemistry. Made each other feel a little more alive, or what not. Unfortunately, I got distracted and we ...
A. 16 February 2008: Hey, im just wondering do you mean youve never actuallly met this girl and you just liked her profile?
Reading someone else saying it, might make it sound as daft as it does. For a start she could be anybody, theres millions of people in the US 1... (read in full...)
How do I approach her with this.
Q. my girlfriend and i have been going out for 6 months yesterday. we are very much in love with each other. about a month ago we were making out and i made my way into her pants and began to finger her. she really enjoyed it and when i asked later ...
A. 16 February 2008: Ask her nicely, just bring it up. Ask is everything alright and if she says theres not, reassure her by saying something like, you know you can always tell me and ill still love you, then give her a kiss. Be nice to her. Do stuff that doesn... (read in full...)
15 and Pregnant!
Q. It was a thought that day the doctor gave me the news. I was sitting in the lonely waiting room there was about 4 or 5 people there. No one talking to anyone...just looking at the posters on the wall and glancing out the corner of their eye at ...
A. 11 February 2008: I've had twins when i just turned 16, now im almost turning 17 and im 5 months pregnant. i didnt plan for either of the pregnancies but they happened, Everyone can get help, theres support groups and parents and everyone who will help etc f... (read in full...)
Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??
Q. What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...
A. 9 February 2008: To be brutally honest its usually a bit of both. But i know full well that the saying Beauty is in the eye of the beholder is very true If you have an amazing personality a girl will love you no matter what you look like. Good luck kid ... (read in full...)
14...and having some issues with my body.
Q. hello, i'm 14 and i'm having some body issues. The other night when i was getting in the shower, i realized one breast is bigger than the other. Is that normal for teenagers or should i go to a doc about it?...
A. 9 February 2008: Hey Honey, Yes its normal. Although if its very prominently different see what a Dr can do for you. But i wouldnt worry about it at all. Embrace your life and your changing body! Love Iileyana xx... (read in full...)
Getting an ex back - any tips?
Q. How do i get my ex boy friend back, we split early December and he's since changed his number and i don't see him much anymore, i'm not sure if it was because he was my first guy to go out with and it didnt last for very long where he called it off. ...
A. 8 February 2008: Honey, you can do much better than someone who won't even talk to you or avoids you. But if you do want to get him back, show him how much he's missing. Go partying (find out where he goes) let him see you all dressed up and looking H O T hot! Then ... (read in full...)
I can't even think of being with another man, please tell me how I can forget my ex!
Q. he had been my boyfriend for 7 years ,he had been always the one for me,during this 7 years we broke up 2 or 3times and i went for other guys but he was always diffrent so i came back to him,finally we broke up last year ,now i want to forget him ...
A. 8 February 2008: He will always have a part of your heart. Think about him and all your memories mourn the loss. Then go get yourself a rebound guy! But make sure hes a player so when you leave he wont be heartbroken too. Good Luck xx Iileyana x... (read in full...)
Can I use a condom during a BJ?
Q. can i use a condom when doing a blow job cause i cant imagine myself sucking his thing?i have never done it and am a 29 year old virgin...
A. 7 February 2008: Of course you can! Flavoured for fun you cant taste it if hes inside you so what other purpose could they be for? Hmm =) Have fun Iileyana xx... (read in full...)
I try to reassure him but nothing seems to stop him doubting me.
Q. I am a wife of 3 months,to a wonderful husband. Only thing that gets me is that he's always accusing me of cheating,when it has NEVER happen. I do my best to assure him that the only other person besides him is God. In past relation...
A. 7 February 2008: Oh Honey, i was in the same position only my boyfriend never had anything wrong done to him! You just need to talk to him and tell him your not like the others and that when he accuses you of these things he's pushing you away. It will give hi... (read in full...)
I think I may have caught a sexually transmitted disease. What now?
Q. i like having sex, but after i have it i feel really bad, i have it with my cosins and i am afaid i might have cought a dissease .what do i do? tell my my mum and get cheaked out or leave it and keep it too myself . by the way don't think im a...
A. 7 February 2008: Please tell me this is a hoax question! Ive got kids myself and although there only months old, the thought of them having sex at 11 kills me!!!!
... (read in full...)
He wants a lap dance! How should I do this?
Q. Sometimes, I joke about giving my boyfriend a lap dance. Saying I will makes him go erect, and he seems to love the thought. And if only I had the confidence and the looks, I would! He says I'm beautiful, and that everything I do turns him on, but I ...
A. 6 February 2008: Hey honey, Why dont you take a class? Its a very popular exercise now erotic dancing and also pole dancing, while your doing that you'll feel healthier and happier which will boost your self esteem then you can go and show him what you've learned!... (read in full...)
Can you discover paternity without a DNA test?
Q. I'm pregnant with two baby daddy. I slept with these guy in the same month. How can I find out which one is the daddy without DNA test....
A. 6 February 2008: Unless the daddys are two different races, no honey, you need a dna test.
Iileyana
xx... (read in full...)
She doesn't see anything wrong with posting trashy pics of herself on line. Am I being out of order?
Q. I'm going to try to be as fair on this question as possible. I'm not going to leave anything out, even things that I did. My girlfriend and I have been together for years. Toward the beginning of the relationship, she posted a picture on one o...
A. 6 February 2008: Your not wrong. Your not right either. Honey, a lot of girls everyday accept compliments from their guys and then on their way to work/out have a guy wolf whistle at them at its better than a compliment. She knows you love her but needs that outside ... (read in full...)
What's your opinion about porn?
Q. Ok every time I write that i have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn i always get this answer that all guys do it and to expect it. I just want to see more peoples thoughts on it cause if its so harmless, why am I getting so hurt by it? Ill ...
A. 6 February 2008: Would you rather he watched and didnt touch other women? Or touched other women and didnt watch? Every single guy has a stash and if they say they havent, there lieing. Dont be jealous hes probably thinking of you doing what they're doin... (read in full...)
I want to leave her but I don't want to ruin my childrens lives. What do I do?
Q. Hi, I hate my girlfriend so much 90% of the time, we have 3 gorgeous children all aged under 4 and I would be heartbroken if I had to leave them, they are my entire world. I put up with my girlfriend because i have seen the hurt on other children ...
A. 6 February 2008: Hey, Couldnt you work things out with her? You loved her once can you remember why you did and work things out on that? If not, you can be a father and not a boyfriend. I recomend you leave now, otherwise they'll resent you because they ... (read in full...)
We were going to leave our spouses and start a life together but he's gone back to his wife!
Q. I have been having an affair now for about 3 months and it all started at work. Him and i were instantly attracted to one another. I started to come up to work more often to see him and spend time with him. Well it all started one night when he ...
A. 6 February 2008: 1) Are you selfish? 2) Do you love this man? If you answered no to the first and yes to the second you would know you have to let this man try again with his marriage. Let him be happy. You too have a spouse, and you too can try to be happy. The... (read in full...)
What can I do about the situation and can I deny the DNA test, given that I'm a teenager pregnant with my cousin's baby??
Q. I'm 17 years old. Me and my cousin have been dating for a while, it feels weird to be attracted to my cousin but i really do have lots of feelings for him. Anyway i'm about 5 months pregnant with his child. My parents already know about my pregnancy ...
A. 6 February 2008: Hey, Well firstly a first cousin? I think that would result in your baby having some genetic disorder! Despite myself i would say for the babies sake have an abortion - im so sorry to say that because i have 5 weeks old twins myself. But what... (read in full...)
What can I do to find out if a child is mine when the mother is unresponsive?
Q. What right's do i have regarding my ex girlfriend's child whom i'm sure i'm the father to. Honestly she wasn't my girlfriend, we'd both come out of seroius relationships and just wanted a bit of fun so it ended when she became all serious and talked ...
A. 6 February 2008: Get a solicitor. Your in the UK and you could probably explain your case and then they would decide what action to take. I hope your very proud of yourself to want to take responsibility!! I know all us aunts and uncles will be. Good luck swee... (read in full...)
15 and wanting children
Q. hey guys im 15 years old and i really want children, i have a part time job in year 10. when im not working or going to school im watchen childrena and i have been since i was 8 years old id cook dinner clean the house. the ages i normaly whatch in ...
A. 4 February 2008: Hey Hunny,
Im 16 and i have a 8 month old baby boy and im 4 months pregnant. Its hard work! My reasons where my contraception failing yes both times. Me and my boyfriend work full time and have a little flat but its still difficult. Having a ba... (read in full...)
Poll question. How old were you when you lost your virginity?
Q. Hey would like to know how old were you when you lost your virginity and also did you tell your parents about it or not till later? How were you sure it was the right person?...
A. 29 November 2007: I was 15 had been with the guy unseriously since i was 12 and were still together now at 17, i dont regret it one bit.
I love him to bits, only thing a little sad. Im now 6 months pregnant at 17 =( but i wouldnt change it.
Love
Ileana ... (read in full...)
She doesn't like oral sex.
Q. I've been dating this girl and we've had sex a few times, one thing I noticed is that she hasn't come. Although Ive ask her why she says is very common, she still likes the sex but it's very hard for her to come and when she does is depending on the ...
A. 15 November 2007: Dude,
Your 10 - 12!!
You should not be having sex, your babies!!... (read in full...)
I'm happily married, sex is not a problem, but there is a lack of affection, is this common?
Q. Do some people just not have any need or desire to be affectionate in a relationship? Even in a marriage? My husband of 2 months loves me, he prooves it/ but he never shows it. He has never once given me a compliment, he has never once said he loves ...
A. 12 November 2007: Sweetie,
You need to sit him down and tell him what you just told us.
Tell him you love him but you need his affection and support as well as love from him.
Its clear your doing something from the baby on the way and congratulations on that!!
T... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and want to have sex.
Q. me and my bf have bin dating for two months now and we done stuff and he whats to do more as in sex... but i dont know if i should i am 14 but i feel ready and i really do care about this guy we have bin dating on and off for over 7 years now i ...
A. 9 November 2007: 7 years? Hun your 14.
Ive been with my boyfriend i was 12 but at 7?
Well im not here to judge, im going to say wait. The longer you wait the better it will be for both of you.
If like every other teenager you choose to ignore me and do it any... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is moving to NZ, we love each other but we think a break will help us. What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend is moving to Newzeeland in about 4 - 5 months and we are going to break up. We started off our relationship sexually and have had a good sex life up until recently. Now we really have sex which causes rows and we think going on a ...
A. 9 November 2007: Hey there!!
Im going through this right now!
My boyfriend is actually in New Zealand!!
And we have been together a year but on and off previously before that,
We have had sex, and ofc its tough wihtout the passion but why was web cam invented? =p... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is moving to NZ, we love each other but we think a break will help us. What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend is moving to Newzeeland in about 4 - 5 months and we are going to break up. We started off our relationship sexually and have had a good sex life up until recently. Now we really have sex which causes rows and we think going on a ...
A. 9 November 2007: Hey there!!
Im going through this right now!
My boyfriend is actually in New Zealand!!
And we have been together a year but on and off previously before that,
We have had sex, and ofc its tough wihtout the passion but why was web cam invented? =p... (read in full...)
I want to be an early mother.
Q. k, i'm 15 and soon to be 16 and i have given it alot of thought i want to find the right person for me and be and early mother, i want to graduate before haveing the child though, but i need help finding the right guy. i just feel like ive always ...
A. 8 November 2007: Hey girl,
Listen to me, i am 16 years old now soon to be 17 and i have a 4 month old baby boy,
It is so difficult to provide for him, luckily my boyfriend who is also 16 going on 17 has a decent education and a decent job, we rent a flat and all ... (read in full...)
My friend might be anorexic, how can I help?
Q. hi. I think my friend might be anorexic. How can I know? What do you have to eat to be anorexic? How much do you have to exersise? Please help, I'm not sure what to do. I need to know exactly what makes someone anorexic, so i can see how serious ...
A. 6 November 2007: Sweetie,
Ask your friend to come onto this site if you can take to her about it. If she does ask her very nicely to Private Message me.
I came very close to death with anorexia, i can help her get through this.
I am 16 years old now, i was a... (read in full...)
How to KISS
Q. I really wanted to snog my last bf, but I don't know how to, so I didn't, then he dumped me. I now fancy this other guy but I'm scared that he'll ask me to kiss him and I won't know how!...
A. 4 November 2007: Hun, guys wont ask you to kiss him, he will lean slowly in and kiss you, then it will come naturally.
Anyway darling your 10 - 12!! Live first before getting into boys, climb trees. Have sleepovers!!
Private message me if yu need to chat,
L... (read in full...)
Can I find out if I'm pregant this month or will I have to wait??
Q. I am trying to become pregnant and i no i'm ovulating because i have clear ovulation fluid coming out and my husband finally gave in yesterday and came inside me. Is there any chances of knowing if i'm pregnant this month or will i have to wait??...
A. 3 November 2007: Okay hun,
Ive just read your question. And all the other Aunts and some Uncles have given you the same answer No you have to wait.
Ive picked up on you saying your husband finally gave in.
Have you talked about this at all? You both need to dec... (read in full...)
Do you think this is bad for me?
Q. hi. im on a diet and am currently eating one apple a day n thats it n doin exersise but nt too much. Du thnk this is bad for me? im 8 n half stone n almost 15 nw in i jst really want to be skinny, like the ones in the magazines. plaz tell me if this ...
A. 3 November 2007: Darlin' you know this is bad for you. Im a recovered anorexic and i didnt eat even one apple a day, i dropped down to below 6 stone almost below 5. I almost died. In fact i came so close i could taste it.
Try exercising for at least an hour a d... (read in full...)
Why are you so sceptical about LD relationships working?
Q. This isnt a question really, Just an email for all of you. There are many people out there askign questions about relationships, where you are 60 miles apart and only see each other on weekends. Why are you all so sceptical about this wor...
A. 1 November 2007: Im not thanking you lot. Just saying thanks for your opinions in a none thanking way.
My boyfriend went back to New Zealand a few weeks ago,
and now i am doubting myself,
But i know i can do this.
Its about how strong you are not whether your so ... (read in full...)
I need sex, what do I do
Q. i feel like i am going to die without sex what should i do i am 12...
A. 10 October 2007: Hey there,
You have gone 12 years without it why cant you wait a few more?
Love
Ileana
xxx... (read in full...)
I dont seem to have goals in life. I'm in a long distance relationship and she's starting to annoy me a bit. Whats happening???
Q. i need some help! first of all i wanted to know how to not feel so insecure about myself and hav a vision in my life to achieve a goal? i dnt hava vision i cnt seem myself going any where, even tho i study and wnt a degree i jus have no vision to i ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey honey, Set yourself a goal each day when you first wake up, even if its something small like 'Do the Laundry,' after a few weeks of doing that and achieving your goals make them bigger and for the whole month, That should help you there. ... (read in full...)
WHY do people masturbate?
Q. Hi this may sound really stupid but its always been something i'd like to know the answer to. Why do people, both men and women masturbate? Are there any particular reason why they do it? I have before and i've never known why mainly just because i ...
A. 30 August 2007: People masturbate because it feels nice. Thats it really. Plus it relaxes people and makes them happy, Love Ileana zxxx... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by the guy I've been having an affair with! I dont need judging, I just need some advice...
Q. I have been seeing this guy for years. Before you judge me you don't have to live my life and there is a lot of screwed up stuff in my marriage. I am married and scared to death of my husband. I found out that I am pregnant and don't know what to ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey sweetie, One question is this man aggressive towards you? If he is get out now! Never stay in a relationship where there is violence hunny your worth much more. And plus now you have a baby growing inside of you a precious life, go to the ... (read in full...)
My friend is Bi curious and I love her! She said she wanted to experiment with me. Should I tell her I love her????
Q. Hi, I hope you can help! I'm 20 and I was recently joking with my friend that's also a girl that I would give her oral sex and have sex with her because she has never had it and I said that she is missing out on it! She's never had any sexual e...
A. 30 August 2007: Tell her. Ileana xx... (read in full...)
Next week I leave for another job 20 miles away, how do I get over him?
Q. I'm seriously going crazy over this guy at work, who I really like. He is everything I look for in a guy, manly, smart, kind, sweet and loves football, of which I'm a huge fan. The thing is I leave next Friday and I can't help but think about how ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey, Looks like you might not want to get over him and unless you want to you cant, sorry. Try speaking to him more and swap contact details so you can arrange nights out together or meet ups just as friends and see how things progress although... (read in full...)
I don't want to have to choose because I need them both in my life, but I really can't take any more of this.
Q. My mum hates my boyfriend so much that she even used an old mobile to text him so it looked like he was cheating, I know because I knew the number was my brother's old number from his first phone. She's always talking bad about him and calls him all ...
A. 30 August 2007: Hey sweetie, In your mothers eyes no boy will ever be good enough for you but that wasnt right for your mother to do that to him. Mothers are there to give support and to pick up the pieces once the mistake is made. Just make sure you dont fuel her... (read in full...)
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