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writes:There's this girl that I met a couple days ago randomly, and I just found her profile on facebook. I felt like when we met, we both had some chemistry. Made each other feel a little more alive, or what not. Unfortunately, I got distracted and we stopped talking and she left.How do I ask her out for coffee or something? I also noticed her profile says, "in a relationship." Should I just back-down? I think this girl would make a good friend, so it's not like I only want her romantically. Also, I mean also sometimes girls just say they are in relationships to avoid people coming on to them all the time.She also lives nearby to me, about 10 blocks away, I hope I'll just randomly see her one day again, but I'm wondering if that is likely to happen.This girl is also about 4 years younger than me. I am 26 and she is 22. So that's also an issue.
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reader, tmack034 +, writes (4 September 2010):
You don't. At least ask for her number the perhaps you could ask her out then
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reader, songbirdjesusfreak +, writes (7 January 2010):
I would talk about her about normal stuff, and eventually work over to talking about her boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): well first NEVER ask a girl out on face book be friends. just chill and find out if she has a boy friend bring it up in a conversation. but when u see taht she is free shure go form it but start slow ask her to go somewere and u could ask her there or you could ask here on face book first but get to know her as aperson not a face booc profile. but relax and chill it is only girl just say hay would u mind if we went out but wait for the right moment a romantic one or a quite on were bolth of u are chilled out the pop it.Good luck Alan
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIileyana,
Just to clarify my situation. I met her last week and we chatted, while in a queue. And she told me her name, but that's about it. I should have asked her for coffee then, but I didn't. So later on, I searched for her in facebook and found her based on her name. Now I'm not sure what to do.
Thanks!
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reader, ZoeElizabeth  +, writes (16 February 2008):
hey
firstly i dont really think your age difference is a huge issue. its only four years and your both adults.
you could mabey comment her, asking her how she is and that you saw her the other day. see if she replys and then carry on conversation if she seems interested ask if she wants to meet up again for a coffee or something.
good luck
Zoe x
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reader, Ileana +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Hey, im just wondering do you mean youve never actuallly met this girl and you just liked her profile?
Reading someone else saying it, might make it sound as daft as it does. For a start she could be anybody, theres millions of people in the US 10 blocks away or not. Havent you heard about people who meet over things like this?
Second of all, im just worried about her having a boyfriend, how would it make you feel if you had a girlfriend and she went for coffee with a guy who she met over Facebook?
Third, the age isnt a problem sweetie, ive heard of people with a 40 year age difference being in love. Age doesnt matter.
However, the meeting over facebook and the boyfriend, pretty important. Find out if she wants to meet up, but be careful. Also think maybe she thinks if you ask your not who you say you are.
Good luck
Iileyana
xx
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