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male
age
41-50,
*aveo
writes:My girlfriend is moving to Newzeeland in about 4 - 5 months and we are going to break up. We started off our relationship sexually and have had a good sex life up until recently. Now we really have sex which causes rows and we think going on a break might help. I love her and she loves me but I need passion in my life what should I do?
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reader, Ileana +, writes (9 November 2007):
 Hey there!!
Im going through this right now!
My boyfriend is actually in New Zealand!!
And we have been together a year but on and off previously before that,
We have had sex, and ofc its tough wihtout the passion but why was web cam invented? =p
I really think if you want this to work, you will work around the passion aspect.
Message me if you need to talk!
Ileana
xxx
A
female
reader, Ileana +, writes (9 November 2007):
Hey there!!
Im going through this right now!
My boyfriend is actually in New Zealand!!
And we have been together a year but on and off previously before that,
We have had sex, and ofc its tough wihtout the passion but why was web cam invented? =p
I really think if you want this to work, you will work around the passion aspect.
Message me if you need to talk!
Ileana
xxx
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Hi there.
Tough situation.If you are going to break up in any case, then why wait. Your are just putting your happiness on hold.
The tension might be because both of you know things are going to end in a couple of months anyway, but the way you are doing things now will hurt both of you. Tell her it was great while it lasted, but the time has come for you to end it, and to stop the pain you are causing each other at the moment. I'm sure your idea was to love each other till the end, but the way things are going, you might end up hating each other... No need in dragging out the inevitable.
I know it is a tough decision to make, but it will be better for the long run.
Good luck
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