Just been diagnosed with Diabetes, does this now mean a downward climb plus impotency ??
Q. I'm an otherwise healthy male, but just been diagnosed as diabetic! I think of myself as generally healthy, I'm careful what I eat. wholefoods, veg, etc., I'm not over weight at all, I exercise either a 2 hour work out in the gym or 50 lengths of...
A. 29 September 2006: Hi, I'm diabetic too (insulin dependent), i was diagnosed about 10 years ago (I'm now 41)and doing fine,no problems.
It certainly doesn't have to mean a decline in any way, as long as you take the condition seriously and try your best to cont... (read in full...)
I love my husband, but I dont feel as though he loves me. I feel so alone..what can I do?
Q. i love my husband, but i dont feel as though he loves me. he never wants to spend time alone with me or tells me he loves me. he always puts me down and makes fun of me when other people are around. he never wants to talk about our relationship. i ...
A. 20 September 2006: Hi there, Things wont change if you don't do something about it, I'm sure he doesn't have any intention to do anything and probably isn't even aware (or cares) how you feel. Why not give him an ultimatum? Tell him he either does something to make ... (read in full...)
He treats me like his property
Q. I dont feel that am satisfied with my relationship. My boy friend treats me like his property while with other girls he is so nice. I dont know wat to say or do with him?...
A. 20 September 2006: Hi there, You need to tell him you won't put up with it anymore, and if he keeps treating you as his property you'll leave him and he can see if the other girls hes being so nice to will put up with being owned by him too.
... (read in full...)
How can I form a better relationship with my wife ?
Q. I've been married for 40 years, I don't love my wife and I thinks she knows that. Recently friends of ours have split up, I am absolutely obsessed with the woman in this split and I can't help thinking of her all of the time. Could you suggest ways ...
A. 18 September 2006: Hi there, But you say you don't love your wife anymore? But 40 years is a long time. Maybe your so obsessed with the other woman because you're looking for a way out? The other woman would be a way out but that could cause a lot of pain for you and ... (read in full...)
He promised he would stop his porn viewing, its started again and now he lies, what can I do to save my marriage?
Q. Do I really know my husband? He promised to stop viewing fat porn but I've found even more on his PC. I've viewed other similar posts and I understand that men and women view sex and arousal differently but this is now the third time I find myse...
A. 18 September 2006: Hi Nikki, This must seem like a terrible situation for you to be in. It sounds like you're not your husbands type at all, if he's looking at that kind of porn. It fact if hes happy with you at all he shouldn't (and wouldn't) be into that kind of ... (read in full...)
He told me he'd been to a lap-dancing club - after 11 months together!!
Q. My bf went to a lap dancing club a month and half before he met me and he had a private dance from a lapdancer and she was completly stark naked and he had an erection. He told me this yesterday, we have been dating for 11 months. I was really d...
A. 13 September 2006: Hi there, Its natural for you to be jealous but he did it before you met so you cant really go too far with it. But you DO have a right to feel the way you do and you should tell him so. You would probably want to know if its something he might ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty...Should I take her back?
Q. I got dumped a couple of months ago. It was like any end to any relationship not to get into details. I felt pretty crappy about the whole thing, i felt like i lost apart of me, and months after the offical dumping. The girl came up to me and told ...
A. 12 September 2006: Hi there, It sounds like you've moved on. You'd be better off to carry on down the new road you're on. You made your decision and theres no point looking back, just keep looking forward. Your confidence and positive feelings WILL return sooner than ... (read in full...)
I have dreams he is cheating...
Q. Hi I know this is going to sound strange but it is really bugging me. I have an amazing boyfriend and we love and trust eachother very much, but I keep having dreams that he cheats on me. I know he isnt as we are always together and I know I am the ...
A. 12 September 2006: Hi there, Are you afraid of losing him? Are you afraid something you might have done could drive him away from you?
Dreams are pointers to how we feel, but we change them to make it easier for us to deal with in a dream state.
You could try to r... (read in full...)
Can a man be in love with his mistress and wife at the same time???
Q. Can a man be in love with his mistress and his wife at the same time? But is torn between the two....
A. 12 September 2006: Yes it is possible. But its absolutely impossible to make it work without at least 1 person being hurt terribly.
And hopefully in the end it would be the man who gets hurt and ends up with no cake at all after trying to eat more than he dese... (read in full...)
I think he shows me love because he doesn't want to hurt me...
Q. my bf is always telling me that he love me and he will always love me.he is also showing it to me that he do love me.but i have my feeling doubt about it. i am so scared that sometime he is showing to me so much love and makes me feel that maybe he ...
A. 12 September 2006: Hi there, It's ok for you to feel scared, we all do when in relationships.
But ask yourself: Is he doing anything that would make you think he'll leave you? If the answer is no, keep telling yourself the answer.Keep reminding yourself that he does... (read in full...)
We got back together, but all the anger from before the break up is still with me!!
Q. Dear Cupid, I dated a guy for fifteen months and then broke up with him because he was neglectful and not affectionate, like at all. After some time apart, we started talking again as just-friends, even though I found it emotionally painful. The ...
A. 11 September 2006: Hi Rachel, Do you want to be with him?
It sounds like you're not sure at all if you do.
the only way that you'll be able deal with the hurt you feel is to deal with it, either by talking to him about it and hopefully getting past it, or by trying s... (read in full...)
Was I in the wrong, do some girls just like control ?
Q. Help I am from the Uk and moved to a another country when my girlfriend got a great job offer. eventualy I got a job too and we moved intogether. We work strange shifts at the same place. These are mt problems. She insisted that I am lazy and mess...
A. 11 September 2006: Hi there, It really seems like she is controlling you.
Everything you describe sounds like her trying to control your life and stop you from being yourself. If she's finished it, you should move on and break away to create your own life without her.... (read in full...)
Will the "No Contact Rule" work ?
Q. The No Contact Rule My wife recently separated from me. I still love her and would love her to come back to me, but she says that she can't be friends anymore, as she knows no other separated couples that are friends. It has been suggested t...
A. 11 September 2006: Hi there, The no contact rule would maybe be a good idea, until you've moved on with your own life at least. If not you will always be connected to your ex and will not be able to get on with your own life. If your separated then you need to ... (read in full...)
I feel like its gone from girlfriend to friend, should I move on now ?
Q. i have been dating a man for a few months now, we live quite far apart but try to meet up a couple of times a week. he calls me his girlfriend, But lately i feels like it's more of a friendship than boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. in his texts to ...
A. 11 September 2006: Hi there, It does feel like hes not into the relationship in the same way that you are. maybe you could ask him straight out if he wants to be with you or not?
No one can be too busy to contact you or spend time with you, and the messages? it does... (read in full...)
Should I just ask him out!?
Q. hey i have already asked this question but i only got one answer and i was wondering if some more ppl cus answer too Well there is a guy that i get on the bus with to college. he talks to me everyday and he gave me his number, i am 17 but i dont...
A. 6 September 2006: Hi there,
It does sound like he's into you and you're into him, so I'd say ring him!
Or keep talking on the bus until one of you decides to ask the other out.
I hope it works out for you.... (read in full...)
I have a bit of a problem with my penis, Im worried it will cause probs in my relationship...
Q. This is quite embarrassing for me. But i'm getting increasingly worried and anxious about it. I'm 16, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 11months nearly. Our relationship is great, and things are great as they are, but we have yet to ...
A. 6 September 2006: Hi there, Why not go to see your doctor? Let them have a look.
It may be that you need to have a circumcision type thing to allow the head to come out properly.
I'm sure it wouldn't be an issue for your girlfriend, but in terms of it being co... (read in full...)
We want a FUN evening date!! - any ideas?
Q. Does anyone have any exciting date ideas? Something that will make us both laugh together and be lots of fun? We want to do something exciting Friday night, but i just cant think of anything to do in the evening that fits the bill. I can thi...
A. 6 September 2006: Hi there, Why not try: Bowling? Ice skating? Swimming? Squash? They could do the trick for getting rid of energy after the week. You never know it might turn into a regular thing for you both. Is there a local leisure centre near you? Have a look ... (read in full...)
Sex and cigarettes...
Q. Does smoking cigarettes decrease a person's sex drive? Also if a person were to stop smoking would their sex drive improve or would soon after, take time, or have been forever decreased? Thanks....
A. 6 September 2006: Hi there, Smoking does affect the blood vessels to some degree, it can impair blood flow to the penis, which can lead to erectile dysfunction, but in regard to someones sex drive? I don't think so, thats more of a psychological issue. The blood flow ... (read in full...)
My best friend confessed her love for me (but wants to carry on in her current relationship)
Q. one of my best friends, who's in a relationship, just admitted to me that she's in love with me. i asked her if she was sure about how she felt, and she said she was absolutely positive. but the catch is, she said she wants to see where her ...
A. 6 September 2006: Hi there, It looks like your friend has made up her mind. If she wont leave her current boyfriend, theres nothing you can do but to move on and find someone else. If you DID make an attempt towards her it would probably create all kinds of pain for ... (read in full...)
Should I finally tell my BF im on the pill ? Will it offend him I didnt tell him before ?
Q. I've been on birth control pills for a year now. My boyfriend does not know about this. Being a responsible adult, we use condoms everytime we have sex. The only thing is my boyfriend doesn't know I also use the pills to be extra protected. I know a ...
A. 5 September 2006: Hi theskycastle, Why not just tell him you've 'just' gone onto the pill. If you still want to use condoms why not talk to him about why you feel you want to have the extra protection, although if you're on the pill that should be the only protection ... (read in full...)
Ive only had one GF, think im not good at, any tips for dating ?
Q. Hi I'm a guy and I need some advice on dating. I think I'm ok looks wise but I ask because I've only had one gf and I think she only went out with me as a rebound from her boyfriend. So, I don't know if what I did was good for askking girls out. A...
A. 4 September 2006: Hi there, The best advice is to be yourself. You must be considerate and caring as you are asking the question here. Many women (if not all) would love to be with someone who has that in their personality, so you'll be fine. Don't worry about how ... (read in full...)
I think my ex messed my head up something awful
Q. I am 17 and i know this might be normal but i feel like a bad person and feel like i don't deserve anything. Ever since my last ex boyfriend, who was VERY controlling, made me tell him EVERYTHING about my past and it's like I also had to tell him ...
A. 4 September 2006: Hi there, Maybe due to you exposing so much of yourself to your ex you feel emotionally raw? Thats understandable, to tell someone all our internal thoughts and feelings makes us feel really vulnerable and stripped away. You shouldn't worry about th... (read in full...)
He's moved on but I have not
Q. me and my ex have been very very good friends since sixth grade. he liked me then and we "went out" in seventh but that lasted like a month since we were both so young and dumb. we have always like each other from then on. we ended up together again ...
A. 4 September 2006: Hi, I don't think he split just because it was your senior year, it may be that he doesn't want the commitment that you do. Without anything coming from him that says he wants to be with you, you will have to accept that it's not what he wants. If ... (read in full...)
The signals are there that she likes me as more than a friend... Should I ring her?
Q. I asked this before but it was never answered. This time I'll go more into detail, too. I like one of my friends (We're both freshman, I'm 15 (almost 16) and she's 14), she seems to be giving off the right signals that she likes me yet she says ...
A. 3 September 2006: Hi there, Why not wait for an opportunity to catch her on her own and ask her out, maybe during lunch. She might get scared if you just call out of the blue.
If she says ok thats great, if she says no then thats great too, you WILL find some... (read in full...)
He just can't get hard enough to have sex with me...what is the problem?
Q. i am 21 years old in my first real relationship with a guy i really love. the thing is he cant seem to get hard enough for us to have sex. we have been together a year and a half n never had sex. he doesnt drink, smoke or isnt undr any stress. its ...
A. 3 September 2006: Hi there, The worst thing that you could do would be to make it an issue, that would make it worse for him. This is anxiety on his part because he really wants to please you, so hes putting himself under pressure.
Why not agree together that you ... (read in full...)
Since getting back with my man, my friend is off with me! I dont want to lose either of them!!
Q. i was with a man and we split up after me bieing mardy and over dramatic but he also played his part and realised what he had done and he said he was sorry.we are now back togeather.however my bestfriend doesnt like him and ever since we got back ...
A. 3 September 2006: Hi, It sounds like your friend may be jealous of your relationship with your boyfriend. When you 2 finished did you spend more time with your friend? If you did, that could be why she's having difficulty dealing with you going back with him.
W... (read in full...)
She wants to get back together, but not just yet, I thought things were well and truly over... should I wait ?
Q. My wife and I split over a year ago and it is has taken me a long time to get back on my feet. We both made mistakes in how we treated one another and decided that it wasn't working. I am now in a new job, have a beautiful girlfriend and g...
A. 3 September 2006: Hi, You said you are happy with your new life and its going well for you. Going back to your wife would put a stop to that wouldnt it?
If she says she wants you to stay away she cant be that serious anyway.
If you go back to it there will be a lot... (read in full...)
My husband wants to dump me in full mid-life crisis
Q. What should I do? My husband has decided that he just wants to be friends with me after 15 years of marriage! He says he loves me but he isn't "in love" with me. I am devastated. If we separate, is there a chance he will come to his senses and b...
A. 3 September 2006: Hi Wendi,
This could be a 'mid-life' crisis for your husband, but it isnt fair to you to wait and see if he comes to his senses sometime in the future. Change only happens if the person wants to change, not because another person wants them to chan... (read in full...)
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