I am suspicious of other people and their motives when they want to get close. How do I deal with this?
Q. I find any act that is aimed to come close to me physically as being something that is a hostile move from a human being to hurt me, disturb me or harm me in some way. It is rarely a move that is aimed at showing affection / respect / love or ...
A. 26 May 2007: You just need to learn to trust yourself and that what ever you do its what you want... (read in full...)
Can we get back that connection we once had?
Q. Could The Connection Come Back.. Im 16 years old and this boy who i like has just turned 19.. About a year ago we both liked each other but nothing happened between us because he had a girlfriend and things seemed complicated.. and plus my pare...
A. 24 April 2007: Anything is possible, just don't put to many eggs in the basket and just go with the flow. Try to get in contact with him and see where things take you. ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my ex about getting back together, or just move on and go for my guy friend?
Q. ok. i am very confused. i like two guys, one is my best guy friend and the other is my ex-bf. all of my friends hate my ex and say i should move on to my guy friend, but i don't really want to. one of my friends think i make a really good couple ...
A. 23 April 2007: Don't worry so much what others think and do what your heart tells you.... (read in full...)
I am seriously panicking about my exams and can't sleep or eat.
Q. hi, im 20 and am in my second year of uni. problem is that im seriously panicking about my exams, i try to revise but cant, i cant sleep, and i keep crying all the time at the most pathetic things and most of the time i start crying for no apparent ...
A. 23 April 2007: Yeah sounds like me all over again. Im in my first year at Kirkwood and its been ruff. I find that I would spend an 1/2 hour to an hour just thinking about test before I would fall asleep. I get so nerves and my grades were nothing like my senior ... (read in full...)
All I did was love her; all she did was use and abuse me - I'm devistated. Please help!
Q. I will appreciate any advice and help on this, well it is a long story but I will keep it short, I meet this girl through internet, she come here to UK to work, she was a European citizen so in that sense she didn’t need me for visa or anything like ...
A. 15 November 2006: I know where your coming from. Its like a mixed up feeling of love and loss. I had a girlfriend that matches your friend. Ripped out my heart and my money. Needless to say it took me forever to get over her. Unfortantly it was the hard way and drug ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to do with my life, or what I want!
Q. I don't know what I want for myself in life. I don't know how to make myself happy. Please someone help me as I don't want to end up in 20 years time, married with kids and still unhappy, because it's not fair on them....
A. 15 November 2006: Its easy to feel lost time to time. Everyone has those days. I suggest you try new things. Sort of brake the chain and find something you want to know more about. Go out meet people, study something you have always questioned, or volunteering. Don't ... (read in full...)
Should I ask the girl he texted what happened between them? I feel like I wasn't told the whole story.
Q. hi, i posted a question on 8th march 06, the title was There is agirl calling and txting my boyfriend, he says they are just friends, is this true? i got 2 replies, i know it was a while back but im having the same feelings about the situation, what ...
A. 15 November 2006: Honesty, Integrity and Trustworthy. A famous person once said I think therefore I am. Put blankly means I think that I think therefore I think I am. What I am trying to say is if you think there is something more with this other girl, who is in the ... (read in full...)
I am busy...how do I find a proper balance to fit all these things in my schedule?
Q. I am having trouble with fitting school, a job, activities, and just having a good time all into one schedule. I know that there needs to be a balance of all these things in life, but right now I am in a jam....
A. 28 October 2006:
I know where you’re coming from. I got into a lot of things too when I was in high school. It does feel like your accomplishing a lot with everything your in. Sooner or later those jams are going to turn into melt downs. Times where you just can'... (read in full...)
The age old question...What Is Love?
Q. what is love...
A. 23 October 2006: Thats a good question. Some say its the person you can't stop thinking about. From the second you wake up to the moment you fall asleep. You don't know why but for some reason you can't stop thinking about this person. Others would argue its a ... (read in full...)
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