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anonymous
writes: I dont feel that am satisfied with my relationship. My boy friend treats me like his property while with other girls he is so nice. I dont know wat to say or do with him? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (20 September 2006):
How exactly is he treating you, what is it that he is doing that makes you feel unhappy ? How long have you been together and has this always been the case ? Im not sure what you mean when you say " treats me like his property, while with other girls he is so nice" are you saying when out and about hes the coolest ever boyfriend, but when at home your treated like the hire helped, or the girl on his arm for his purposes ? If this is the case then I suggest you tell him how you are feeling and that you dont wish to be treated in this manner and ask that he have a little more respect for you and treat you lovingly and care for you and see you as an equal,rather than someone there for his own needs. If hes treating other girls better than you then are you sure you even want to be with him ? If he cant see where you are coming from and still treats you with little respect and not as a boyfriend should, then you may need to move on, you already say you are not satisfied, and im not entirely sure how he is behaving towards you, so you need to tell him your not happy. Ask him why he acts the way he does towards you and nice to the other girls.. But from the sound of it, he just wants something on his arm, but then i dont really know him, or whats going on so its a bit hard to say.
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reader, CRS698 +, writes (20 September 2006):
Hi there, You need to tell him you won't put up with it anymore, and if he keeps treating you as his property you'll leave him and he can see if the other girls hes being so nice to will put up with being owned by him too.
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