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... Send *ountry Woman a private message | | | *ountry Woman's profile:OK, I wanted to just let everyone know that for now I will not be on the site as I have realised that I need to take some time out for both my own sake and also for my family. I will not delete myself from this site as I totally believe in it whole heartedly as the thanks over the years that I have received from people I have tried to advise has been amazing and given me so much in return. This site helped me get through the loss of my dad in 2007 and I think I hid my grief a lot then but now I need to find my place in my life and need to dedicate all my energy on that goal and also supporting my family as well. Don't ever be afraid to talk to the wonderful aunts and uncles on this site and remember that if Andrew had never started this site so many people would have never had the fantastic advice and help that they needed so much. I will return you can bank on it OK.
A bit about me now I think, hi everyone as it suggests I am a Country Loving woman who has grown up in the countryside and feel very at home in lovely wide open spaces and birds singing in the morning. I am 44 years old and I lived in a semi rural area for over 19 years, my relationship with my long term partner of almost 20 years ended in June 2005.
I still consider my ex as my best friend, we have good and bad days like most people but I try to stay as amicable as possible for my daughter's sake and my own, sometimes things have not always been great during our break up but life goes on.
Even though I am not in a relationship right now, hopefully 2010 may be the year that I can start to dip my toe in the water again on the relationship side of things. Just need the body to wow now, that may take a little longer unfortunately!!! lol
I think that at 44 years of age I have lived a bit and had all sorts of things happen to me so I can only say from my own personal point of view and would never qualify myself as anything other than a helper hopefully.
My motivation in life is seeing my daughter smile and laugh and just being a mum makes me get out of bed every day. I listen to my friends and have some of these since primary school. I like to think that I am a good friend and if I can help someone I will.
I think if someone needs professional help then they should try and get it and I will advise that if it appears that way.
I do believe that life is for the living and we only get one chance of actually enjoying it as too much time is spent on the trivial things of life but after my dad got bowel cancer in 2000 your life takes on a totally different perspective. My dad passed away in Feb 2007 and so I have had personal close bereavement not so long ago and even though people tell you to get on with your life, the reality of it all is not always so clear cut. Although I had to take some time out from this site for me to help my mum and sister I am back to talk any time or try and help. It helps me too if I hear that some of my advice has helped someone deal with a difficult time in their lives as well.
I hope that my advice which is from my personal life experiences help some people and I welcome any response from anyone I try to help.
I hope in some small way I can at least help take away some confusion or hurt from those who are suffering with break ups or all sorts of other problems.
I am not a doom and gloom sort of person and most days have a smile on my face, I totally understand about money worries and the seriousness of how far that can go, even the possibility of repossession, so even if your worries are not relationship based just send me a note and I will see if I can help in any way OK.
Take care and bfn.
Country Woman
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After I got drunk and got sick at his place things weren't the same...
Q. I met a wonderful guy in October and we were both very compatible. I drank a bit too much one night and a girlfriend dropped me to his place and I was not well. I have drunk as much on other occasions 5 glasses and not got sick.I think it may have ...
A. 7 April 2006: Listen it is very easy to say move on but feelings and emotions are really getting in the way. The man is still ringing you - why if he is not interested.
The only way forward is for when he rings you the next time just say to him that this is ... (read in full...)
After I got drunk and got sick at his place things weren't the same...
Q. I met a wonderful guy in October and we were both very compatible. I drank a bit too much one night and a girlfriend dropped me to his place and I was not well. I have drunk as much on other occasions 5 glasses and not got sick.I think it may have ...
A. 6 April 2006: Has anything further happened with your man?
So sorry but I have only just found your reply as I did look but for some reason it wasn't displaying on my screen.
How are you feeling now?
Wait to hear from you.
Country Woman... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he bother to do anything special any more? He even cancelled on my birthday!
Q. I have been going out with my b/f for 7 months. In the beginning of the relationship we were all over each other, and although neither of us like talking on the phone, we talked often throughout the day. Then gradually the phone calls don't ev...
A. 21 March 2006: Well like you say you seem to have moved on already and the fact that he has not contacted you speaks a thousand words.
I wish you every best wish with the new man that will come along and make you think whatever did I see in this guy. Just sta... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he bother to do anything special any more? He even cancelled on my birthday!
Q. I have been going out with my b/f for 7 months. In the beginning of the relationship we were all over each other, and although neither of us like talking on the phone, we talked often throughout the day. Then gradually the phone calls don't ev...
A. 16 March 2006: So sorry it has been so long since your last message but had problems with computer. Unfortunately as he is not asking his phone or texts etc standing around outside his house does seem quite desperate even though you may not feel that way it... (read in full...)
Is this post-natal depression, or something else?
Q. This isn't really about relationships as such. I think I may be suffering from post natal depression. Are there any signs I should be looking out for? I got really bad baby blues when my baby was 4 days old. I wanted my partner with me but he was ...
A. 17 February 2006: Hi after reading your comments and others and my previous advice, I think yes if you have seen the affects of anti depressants yourself then of course you have serious concerns. I was once on Prozac due to severe back pain and they did make me... (read in full...)
How can I spy on his online dating surfing?
Q. hi. i know my other half has been going on to dating sites,etc. i'm not sure if it has stopped. the only way i can find out is to look at his internet history or email but, as i don't know his password, i can not do that. anyone know another way of ...
A. 17 February 2006: Hi, I didn't realise you have a child together and also a child from another relationship I must admit. OK so you say you live together and you don't know how you would be single again if the relationship does not go forward. Women cope extre... (read in full...)
How can I spy on his online dating surfing?
Q. hi. i know my other half has been going on to dating sites,etc. i'm not sure if it has stopped. the only way i can find out is to look at his internet history or email but, as i don't know his password, i can not do that. anyone know another way of ...
A. 12 February 2006: A man who spends there time on a computer looking out and talking to other women for conversation (sexual or non) are not worth bothering with. My ex spent over 2 and a half years on his computer while I was left holding the baby as it started wh... (read in full...)
Is this post-natal depression, or something else?
Q. This isn't really about relationships as such. I think I may be suffering from post natal depression. Are there any signs I should be looking out for? I got really bad baby blues when my baby was 4 days old. I wanted my partner with me but he was ...
A. 12 February 2006: I suffered with post natal depression for over 2 years before anyone actually listened to me, including my then partner. If you don't feel like you are getting the support and your baby is only 7 months old then yes it sounds to me like you could ... (read in full...)
After I got drunk and got sick at his place things weren't the same...
Q. I met a wonderful guy in October and we were both very compatible. I drank a bit too much one night and a girlfriend dropped me to his place and I was not well. I have drunk as much on other occasions 5 glasses and not got sick.I think it may have ...
A. 12 February 2006: This man who once said you were in a committed relationship just saw you in a different light the night you were unwell. Did you ever discuss it fully? Get to the core of the problem by asking him outright and say to him that you think you need him ... (read in full...)
What can I get a lady friend for Valentine's that won't give the wrong message?
Q. Hey there ladies, need some valentine gift ideas for a very good "lady friend". Me and my "lady friend" are really close good friends, have loads in common. I'm not looking for a relationship, and she only just got out of a frustrating 3year re...
A. 7 February 2006: Sounds to me that you want to show her your feelings for her so even though you say you are just friends it sounds to me like you would like it to be more when the time is right. You could always get her a little teddy to say that when she feels s... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he bother to do anything special any more? He even cancelled on my birthday!
Q. I have been going out with my b/f for 7 months. In the beginning of the relationship we were all over each other, and although neither of us like talking on the phone, we talked often throughout the day. Then gradually the phone calls don't ev...
A. 7 February 2006: If your boyfriend has never taken you out unfortunately he does not want to admit that you are a couple, if the intimacy levels were there in the beginning but after only 7 months things have cooled to this level then cut and run. I had 19 and a... (read in full...)
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