Am I just grieving over the baby I lost?
Q. hey, i need a little advice on miscarriages... altho my story is slightly different to the normal. in august this year i found out i was pregnant. it wasnt planned. i live with my boyfriend and his parents and was told if we got pregnant we woul...
A. 19 December 2010: thank you to everyone for the advice you gave me. its a releif to know that the way im feeling isnt a long term thing. i wont ever copmpletly forget but i dont think anyone expects me to. all your advice has been very helpful thank you xxx... (read in full...)
Urge to pee when we get intimate...
Q. Okay so every single time my bf has fingered me, and he starts to go faster, I really need to pee. I stop him and go to the toilet but then feel like it again. I haven't orgasmed when he has fingered me - but is this peeing sensation the le...
A. 3 August 2010: before you have sex with your boyfriend try and go to the toilet before hand. when that peeing sensation starts to built up just relax and let it happen. its usually means that your about to orgasm. dont worry. as long as you have been to the toilet ... (read in full...)
She says she's too in love with her boyfriend to let anything happen with me!
Q. I'm in love with my friend and she's in love with me but she says she loves her boyfriend too much to let anything happen. what should I do?...
A. 27 June 2010: leave her be... you cant go after someone who has already told you where you stand with them... if things dont work out for her with her boyfriend dont jump straight in... for now you have to remain friends despite your feelings towards her and her ... (read in full...)
Watching anime porn...is it normal to be getting wet down there at my age?
Q. I'm fourteen years old, turning fifteen this year. I am a female. I watch hentai every week. Hentai being anime porn basically. I enjoy it a lot. What I am wondering though.. When I watch hentai, I just sit with my laptop on my lap with my legs spr...
A. 22 June 2010: it is very normal and it just means that u really enjoy watching hentai porn. ur right when you asked if its turning you on. you dont have to touch urself down there to get wet. it is perfectly normal for girls your age to be going through this. and ... (read in full...)
Fear of fellatio
Q. I'm a female and this is about my boyfriend. I am 19 years old so over legal age. His my first b/f and we been seeing each other for 5 months. He's gone down on me and we have had sex but I'm so nervous about going down on him! In my head I think, ...
A. 22 June 2010: i completely understand how u feel hunny... i was completely afraid to even touch a penis when i met my bf but over time i gradually grew more confident.
one thing that majorly helped me was having the duvet completely over me so my bf cudnt se... (read in full...)
What was this feeling I experienced?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were messing around and stuff and i started having this like tickling feeling near my vag and like i started breathing really hard. What was going on?...
A. 18 May 2010: i think what you were feeling was excitement. because you like him alot and you were messing around and u enjoyed yourself. its perfectly natural. its usually a sign that you are turned on by him which is also a good thing. :P ... (read in full...)
I'm paranoid about people using me! How can I get over this?
Q. I,m very anti-social. and I dont like goin out to pubs or drinking. It all started when i started secondary school i was bullied coz of my weight and My glasses. I was even used as a prank by I boy. He said he fancied me and stupidly I believed him ...
A. 4 May 2010: hey this sounds very similar to something i experienced in secondary school. the guy i had a crush on had been asking me for weeks to go out with him. but two weeks later his friends told me the truth. he was only going out with me for a joke. it ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for me not to go ahead and sleep with other women when she says it's ok?
Q. I don't know what to make of this. I have only had sex with one woman. She and I are together and we plan on getting married. Although we haven't set a date we are serious. She has had sex with seven other guys before. She keeps telling me ...
A. 27 April 2010: you know i dont have any advice to give but im in pretty much the same situation with my bf at the moment and we have talked about the fact that he has slept with so many woman yet i have only slept with him. it reaelly bugs me wot it wud feel like ... (read in full...)
Do You Have a “Good Girl” or a “Bad Girl” on Your Hands?
Q. Pinkee Here~ Lately, I have been reading the book The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl Sex by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D. Barbara is a sex therapist, author, and columnist, and has much to say on this topic. Unfortunately, most women fall into the “good ...
A. 25 April 2010: i actually really like these ideas. i think this book would be a very god insight to something that i think my boyfriend would like me to become. i think im somewhere inbetweenthe good girl and the bad girl but the book sounds very intriging.... (read in full...)
Molested by dad's friend?
Q. My friend let's call her "Giselle" and myself were touched by my parents friend. Last Friday my parents were having a small party most of the people there were grown-ups that worked at the University with my dad. Anyway half way through the party my ...
A. 22 March 2010: hunny i know that its going to be hard but u must tell your parrents and the police. didnt you say that this guy is supposede to be a teacher? this guy a problem that needs to be addressed and if hes let lose around a heaps of young women like ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel down at the end stages of pregnancy?
Q. is it normal to feel down at the end stages of pregnancy?? i dont want to see anyone really, one minute im fine the next im getting frustrated very quickly, i dont want any sexual attention from my partner and i cry at night because i have t...
A. 10 March 2010: hey there,
at the end of your pregnancy hormones are bound to be flying all over the place but its normal however as others have said keep an eye on it and chat to your doctor about it. the pressure ur feeling that makes you want to pee could be... (read in full...)
My friend watches lesbian porn and now I feel awkward around her.
Q. Ok basically one of my oldest friends (who I'm not that close to anymore) lended me her laptop recently and she forgot to delete her history and I had forgotten the adress of the site I had already visited so went to find it there and a link flashed ...
A. 10 March 2010: hey there hunny,
i know that this is an awkward topic for you to bring up with ur friend but at the end of the day like you said she is bi-curious and shes bound to want to watch lesbian porn and find out wot it involves and how things are done... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with masturbating
Q. Ok recently i have been masturbating more frequently than i normally would. I have been doing it every day sometimes twice. I feel like im becoming obsessed with it and its worrying me. Is this normal? Please Help!...
A. 3 March 2010: hey,
yes it is perfectly normal for you to masterbate. its a great way of discovering your body and your likes and dislikes. some people prefer to masturbate more than others and there is nothing wrong with that. if u are comfortable doing it a... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be too tight for penetration?
Q. So here`s the thing. I`m with my boyfriend about 4 months now and I know it`s not such a long time, but I`m pretty sure that we met each other very well so we started in last two months talking about having sex for a first time. We are both virgins ...
A. 11 February 2010: hey,
if you want to make sure that you are not too tight try to spend a while on foreplay and make sure that you have warmed up properly. Also because its your first time i suggest lubrication too as that will help. Some people do bleed during t... (read in full...)
How can I spice up our sex life and make things more intense?
Q. hi guys! me and my boyfriend really want to spice up our sex life and try out different things, so im after some tips or past experiences that have been good! good foods to useee? or positions or foreplay that might make things more intenseee? ...
A. 11 February 2010: hey,
Me and my boyfriend were having the same trouble... wot you need to do depending on circumstances is mix up where you have your fun like in other rooms of the house or taking a trip to a hotel for a night. My boyfriend has been saying t... (read in full...)
I had my navel pierced, can I have sex during the healing procedures?
Q. i just had my navel pierced an was wondering if i could have sex during healin proceedures and if i should put something on it if i do have sex like a plaster or something ...
A. 24 January 2010: it depends on the positions you do and whether you are wearing clothes or not. sometimes it can hurt depending on the position you do... sometimes wen i was afraid that it might catch i wud put a pillow on my stomach to prevent that. the missionary ... (read in full...)
Has anyone had to deal with stretch marks before?
Q. hey all anybody had to deal with stretch marks before? i have em everywhere of my body and they are ruining my life. i have em on my back, on the sides of my body, on my stomach, my breasts, inside my arms and legs. im too worried about these...
A. 24 January 2010: hey,
i have stretch marks on my arse which were really embarressing for me wen i was younger. i didnt know why i had them but my bf says its because i gained weight too quickly and then lost the weight again too quickly. however as the years have... (read in full...)
I had my navel pierced, can I have sex during the healing procedures?
Q. i just had my navel pierced an was wondering if i could have sex during healin proceedures and if i should put something on it if i do have sex like a plaster or something ...
A. 24 January 2010: i thort the same wen i had mine done... yes you can have sex but i dnt advise ur bf finishing on ur stomach or chest as u cud get it infected and beleive me thats not fun. but having sex during the healing process is completely fine hunny.
good luck... (read in full...)
Is it safe to give my boyfriend a blow-job with braces on?
Q. My boyfriend of three years and I are both 20, we're both old enough to be responsible and know the consequences of sex and... tomorrow I get my braces. I've been waiting for them for about eight years now (since I was 12 and found out I actually ...
A. 21 January 2010: hey,
it depends on the braces that you are getting. my bf dated a girl wen he was younger who had metal braces and while she was giving him a blowjob caught the skin in her brace and he was left with a long scar on his penis but im not trying to s... (read in full...)
I'm miserable at home and I have no idea where to turn any more???
Q. hello, thank you in advance for reading my post. To start out with, i'm an 18 year old girl, senior in high school (I go to school for less than half a day), and I just recently lost my job a few weeks ago. I have no money saved up, im currently...
A. 14 January 2010: hunny listen to me here,
this is not acceptable for your uncle to treat you this way and same goes for your mum. that is teaching the younger children bad behaviour which means if they do that at school they cud get into alot of trouble.... (read in full...)
When I have an erection it's a bit painful!
Q. i have an uncircumsized penis and i can pul it down over the head of my penis wen i dont hav an erection easily , but wen i hav an erection it tends to be a bit painful ... help please?...
A. 10 January 2010: i asked my bf about this and he sed that you are too tight maybe your not warming up properly but if the problem persists than speak to your doctor and he/she whichever you prefer and you can ask for a male doctor but im sure they will help you with ... (read in full...)
I no longer want to be friends with her any more as she told one of my deepest secrets.
Q. I have (had) a best friend and she knew one of my most deepest darkest secrets and she told it to another person. I now have to tell so many lies to others to make sure they dont believe what is the truth. what do i do?? i no longer wanna be friends ...
A. 10 January 2010: hey hunny,
i had an experiance like yours not so long back wen i was in school... we were best friends then all of a sudden she told my biggest secret. the truth is if she really was your best friend she wud have thort about her actions and wudn... (read in full...)
No period but yet..no sex! What could be wrong?
Q. I haven't had sex for months and I have had my period since apart from this month I am also experiencing nausea at night, lack of appetite and I'm not tired until early hours of the morning what could it be? ...
A. 26 December 2009: why dont u go buy urself a pregnancy test just to put ur mind at rest altho depending on how many months u havnt had sex for its not likely. however. there are other factors that cud be causing the sickness lack of appetite and lack of sleep. have u ... (read in full...)
Since being played I cannot trust
Q. im a 22 year old virgin.my whole school experience was pretty terrible for me i always felt insecure missplace and low because i was always being made fun of, plus my first relationship ever was a sad wreck i got played! as a result im unconfident ...
A. 4 December 2009: hey,
wen i read ur story i realted straight away. i was in the exact same situation. i was played in my first relationship and it left me feeling extremely low. all thru school i was made fun of and was the typical target for the bullies on the scho... (read in full...)
What if you're too tight for sex?
Q. What if your ready to have sex but your too tight? Is that a bad thing what do you do.... I feel like that would be so embarrising!?? ...
A. 2 December 2009: hey there hun, i totally agree with cheryl. my partner had to warm me up first before he cud he even think about putting himself in me. warming up is a great way to loosen up for the both of u. fore play is great for that. like cheryl sed first us... (read in full...)
One year anniversary ideas?
Q. hey guys, its coming up to my one year anniversary with my partner in january. i like to plan ahead for things. ive really got no idea. guys ur advice wud be appreciated... my bf is not the romantic type and dosent do soppy very often... howe...
A. 2 December 2009: thank you gina il try and arrange something like that... it definitely sounds like a plan. xx... (read in full...)
I stay unhappy to make him happy...
Q. I really need some help from someone, ive been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months so not very long and he loves me so much but i dont feel the same way, i really like him but im not attracted to him in any way so find it very hard to have a ...
A. 2 December 2009: hey,
ive bin in ur situation before and the truth is it wont last long. the guy i was with was head over heels baout me but i just wasnt attracted to him in any way and it made things very hard for me. in the end i broke it off and hes fine. he move... (read in full...)
He likes to party but I don't
Q. i like this guy, and he seems to like me back. the problem is that he loves to party, and i don't party because i was brought up in a Christian home and i have no problem with the fact that i don't party. for months since school started we've been ...
A. 2 December 2009: instead of him asking wait untill ur ready... dnt feel pressured into kissing him because he wants u too. if u want to kiss him back kiss him wen hes not expecting u too but discreetly so he dosent get embarressed with it being out of the blue. bare ... (read in full...)
I think I might be pregnant, but I don't know how to tell
Q. What are the chances that I could be pregnant? My last period was on the 9th November and I had sex on the 24th about 5 times and on the 25th once. All times we used the withdrawral method. I've realised I've been very stupid, and it won't be happ...
A. 2 December 2009: id say wait untill ur period is meant to be if it still hasnt arrived after a week get a pregnancy test and check if not to be doubly sure see ur gp asap. because of ur age ur gp will keep this confidential. i guess uve learned ur lesson here to use ... (read in full...)
I don't like Granny's new husband
Q. Ok, i am 18 years old now, i am really getting annoyed with my gran and her "new husband" who thinks that he is the head of the family when nobody likes either of them because of there marage!. i am a full-time student and have had enough of li...
A. 2 December 2009: wot u can do if u desparatly want out then i agree with aunty bimbim but heres another option. try and get a council flat or house and get into contact with a connections advisor and talk about benefits to help with ur living fee. be aware that u ... (read in full...)
How do I silence my squelching fanny?
Q. when i am having sex with my bf my fanny makes a squelching noise. how can i stop this? help...
A. 15 November 2009: I agree with all the coments said so far. There isnt a lot you can do but like justsguy18 me and my boyfriend just laugh at it and make it funny. it was just as embarrassing for me the fist time it happened but my bf reassured me it was a natural ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend maintains contact with her ex. Should I confront her?
Q. My girlfriend of four months is still friends with her ex. Not only does she still talk to him, she is still friends with his family. His aunt cuts her hair for free. She visits his family's restaurant where he works and gets food for free. ...
A. 14 November 2009: there is nothing to worry about. many girls have exes as just friends and get along with them quite well. ... (read in full...)
Life as someone's slave is hard, especially when they treat you worse than a bit of shit on their shoe!
Q. if i knew what to do i wouldn't be here but i need help and advice the man i'm with has left me with no friends and feeling like my life isn't important enough to discuss sometimes i feel if i start talking who'd actually listen. i'm with my pa...
A. 14 November 2009: listen hunny,
from my point of veiw this guy in no way deserves you. parents are there for a reason hunny and i think u shud listen to them and let him go. he dosent treat u rite in any way and hes possesive, controlling and telling u how to live ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online?
Q. Is it normal for a girl to watch porn videos online? My friends commented that it is disgusting for girls to do so but I have to confess that I always watch them and masturbate after that. Is it normal or am i a weirdo?...
A. 12 November 2009: hey there,
i completely agree with livelifetothefull, it is perfectly normal for girls to masturbate to porn and online videos... like her i also do the same as u and it makes me feel good. my current boyfriend encourages me to do so but only if i... (read in full...)
Am I setting myself up for another fall?
Q. hi im 28 and the guy i love is 23. i know him since i started my current job, i started 2 weeks b4 xmas in 2005 he was 19 and i was 24 when i first met him we connected on many levels then at the xmas party we kissed. at that stage he was in a ...
A. 12 November 2009: hey there,
after reading through this i feel that this guy has a very weird way of showing that hes a nice person towards you. i think that u may be looking at another fall because as soon as he decides that he dosent want anything to do with u a... (read in full...)
Overhead my boyfriend say he would have sex with some girl!
Q. I am 23 years old and am almost 6 months pregnant. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We love eachother very much. The pregnancy was planned, we both wanted and talked about it before it happened. I have a hard time tusting ...
A. 28 October 2009: i can totally understand why u are so upset with what ur bf has sed. me and my bf are pretty much the same as u guys. dnt completely mistrust him because of what u have over heard. boys say things like that. basically everything that has been sed by ... (read in full...)
How do I find the hole with the lights out?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have recently started having sex. we lost our virginity to each other and its all amazing and that, but i have 2 kinda embarrassing problems that i'm hoping more experienced guys/girls could help me with... 1: When we're naked...
A. 27 October 2009: first of all make sure that you are both warmed up properly ie a bit of foreplay to begin with and then you'll both loosen up a bit and that will make things easier. secondly unless you're pretty quick to finish don't wear a johnny because y... (read in full...)
Should I have an affair on my husband?
Q. Soon after getting married, my husband had an unfortunate incident where he became paralysed, resulting in us not being able to have a sex life. I love my husband dearly and I did not leave him. I look after him and attend to him the best way I ...
A. 27 October 2009: you need to have a major discussion with your husband and explain to him that you do love him to bits but you have needs. explain to him that you could end up in a dead end relationship. also explain to him that you are unhappy with your sex life ... (read in full...)
How can I convince myself to trust my boyfriend?
Q. Im having trust issues with my boyfriend. i know he loves me because of the things that friends tell me and how we are together. however i cant seem to stop myself from thinking he might cheat on me. he reassures me all the time but for some reason ...
A. 15 October 2009: thankyou guys for being so honest with me. like some of u sed it is a hard fact to listen to if i dnt change but i have taken ur advice on board and have already in a short space of time seen some of the good effects. ur advice has been so helpful ... (read in full...)
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