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About me, I'm 20, sophomore in college studying economics and finance. I am currently dating around and have learned tons about me from all these experiences (my friends are so entertained with my love life that I'm starting to feel like a walking soap-opera, ha! kidding!).

I have learned to love every aspect of me (It took me several years to reach this point), thus, I respect myself, know my limits and I am constantly looking for new ways to fulfill/empower myself. My heart has been broken several times but thanks those painful experiences and I've grown much stronger. I try to take something good out of every experience whether good or bad.

Have a very close relationship with my mother and thus I've learned a lot from her unfortunate mistakes and because of that I completely adore her.

What qualifies me?

I'm not qualified at all, all I can offer is my most sincere advice as an unbiased person, I can offer a take on an issue based on what I would do. I can offer my most sincere wishes and I can only hope that I can contribute to you in a positive way.

Does my co-worker like me or is it my imagination?

Q.   ok so I started working at this office downtown. I must admit that my job is pretty easy and there's quite a few hot guys (unfortunately most of them are young married lawyers :( ) anyways so there's this one particular guy who I stated liking ever ...

A.   11 September 2008: thanks everyone for helping! I appreciate it!... (read in full...)

Does my co-worker like me or is it my imagination?

Q.   ok so I started working at this office downtown. I must admit that my job is pretty easy and there's quite a few hot guys (unfortunately most of them are young married lawyers :( ) anyways so there's this one particular guy who I stated liking ever ...

A.   11 September 2008: ok, so I officially stopped working there and when I was going down to his floor to maybe get the guts to either ask him for his number or to make a quick reference about my last day.... he was gone!!! Apparently he went home a bit earlier :(, ... (read in full...)

Can't Get Over Him after 5 Years Have Passed...

Q.   We where together from when i had just finished turning 14. He was 19 or had just turned 20. Our Birthdays are on the 1st and 2nd of Same month. Our relationship was wonderful we faught But never anything serious,he would always be mad at me ...

A.   3 June 2008: Hello sweetie, I'm sorry to hear your story, I feel your pain and what hurts me the most is that you are 21 and you say that you are unhappy in life. I understand why you feel that way.. but I can't help it, I really wish I could he... (read in full...)

I couldn't cancel the bookclub plans in favour of dinner with my husband's family, this created much tension between us. Your opinions?

Q.   My Husband asked me if we can go to his brother's who is visiting for four months has invited us to eat dinner, i told him that yes i would love to go, but that the bookclub was that night, so i told him that i may cancel so we can go. i cont...

A.   3 June 2008: sorry forgot to mention as to what I think you should do: I say you give him "love coupons" I know it might sound cheesy but they do MIRACLES!!!! and he'll probably find it somewhat funny, that way you can ease tensions and just talk about bo... (read in full...)

I couldn't cancel the bookclub plans in favour of dinner with my husband's family, this created much tension between us. Your opinions?

Q.   My Husband asked me if we can go to his brother's who is visiting for four months has invited us to eat dinner, i told him that yes i would love to go, but that the bookclub was that night, so i told him that i may cancel so we can go. i cont...

A.   3 June 2008: Hello darling!, I don't really much about marriages but whoa!....here's what I think: First, would you cancel going to your mom's funeral because of bookclub?. I'm assuming you'll say no, for some people family is THAT o... (read in full...)

How often do people see or contact their boyfriends and girlfriends each week on average?

Q.   I'm just curious as to how often people see their bfs/gfs each week on average? And on the days that you do not see your bf/gf do you always contact them by phone/email/text message to see how they are going? Thanks for the replies in advance :...

A.   3 June 2008: hello anon, I don't have a bf currently but in most of the past relationships I only called them about once or twice a week, that allowed me to actually have something to say, not the regular "hmmm, so what are you doing to... (read in full...)

Why did he just suddenly started drifting away and become funny with me?

Q.   I met this guy last year, we hit it off instantly and had so much in common. It was a bit of a difficult situation as he told me that he needed to be single having just been in a relationship, but we became very close very quickly. When we went out ...

A.   2 June 2008: hmm this is strangely similar to what happened to me (may I refer you to my question... what would you do in m case?), however, this is what most of the aunties and auncles have told me. If a guy is EMOTIONALLY available and LIKES YOU he will do ... (read in full...)

Why cant she get pregnant?

Q.   My girlfriend and i are trying to have a kid. We have had sex so many times so why wont she get pregnant?...

A.   2 June 2008: hmmm maybe you should ask yourself if you CAN PHYSIOLOGICALLY and EMOTIONALLY have a child at your age. Most likely both answers will be no. However, I think that your age is wrong and I'll assume that you are old enough to plan on a child, y... (read in full...)

My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do

Q.   I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this ...

A.   2 June 2008: Hello sweets! I have dated several guys that are 10 years older than me (i'm 20) and even then my friends think that I'm crazy, (my mom's okay she actually likes relationships where the guy is older than the girl for many reasons however,... (read in full...)

Do I let them be happy together or what can I do to get him back?

Q.   I would like to tell you the whole story and maybe you could understand better but it's way too long and you'll propably get bored but heres the basics : -Meet boy -Start dating boy -Loose virginity to boy -Two weeks later we brake up -I try e...

A.   31 May 2008: Hello, I am sorry you are in this situation, I understand how difficult it must be. Here are a few things that jumped out at me: 1)I try EVERYTHING to get him back 2)I mess up as well 3)You lied to your friend about liking him... (read in full...)

I'm too shy to ask for his e-mail address face to face...

Q.   Hi, i was just wondering does anyone know a site, were i can find someone's email adress, please any help would do. Thanks i relly need it, as i'm too shy to ask face to face. Please it would be doing me a great favour....

A.   28 May 2008: I don't think it's legal... (read in full...)

If I love my boyfriend why do I feel like cheating on him when the occasion rises??

Q.   why is it that i love my boyfriend and i cant seem to live without him but when ever i notice a new guy i feel like cheating i feel like i wanna start something new with someone else.....

A.   28 May 2008: I think that the minute there's thoughts of infidelity is because something is missing in the relationship. As yourself what is it that you are mising from him and you should probably ask him the same...... (read in full...)

Why would anyone do that? What should I do now?

Q.   I recently started taking ballroom classes, I met this guy at the class whom I felt very attracted to but he's 10 years older than me. NEways. We hung out outside of class, we went dancing a few times and I took him to my sorority formal, then I f...

A.   28 May 2008: hmmm it all makes sense.. I think that I should try to just get over my frustration first (boxing anyone?) so that I can get over it.... (read in full...)

Should I have sex with this friend?

Q.   hey, im wondering should i have sex with one of my close friendds for the first time. actuaally what im asking is would it be right? becausei can see myself doing that with him, ive done stuff with him before. were really close and it would be ...

A.   28 May 2008: Honey!, I am in college and I will tell you that I am still a virgin but it if I have chosen to remain a virgin is because to me giving my virginity is such an intimate act that I wouldn't feel comfortable having sex with just ANYONE and then hoping ... (read in full...)

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