Losing your virginity. Does it hurt much?
Q. Does it hurt losing your virginity? I read a book about it and it said it hurt a lot.....
A. 20 July 2006: Everyone is different and thats all.... (read in full...)
He masturbates to porn, that's cheating right? what do I do?
Q. I've recently discovered that my fiance is not only looking at Internet porn but masterbating to it. I can help but feel this is a form of cheating. It surprises me coming from him because this is very unexpected behavior for him. Do I confront ...
A. 20 July 2006: Confront, it worked with my boyfriend and i after an arguement. He told me that im more important than porn
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I cant *bare* the thought of him seeing other women naked.. please help!!
Q. ihave been with my bf for 3yrs but over the last 6mths my jealousy has become worse. i hate the thought of him seeing any other woman naked. its ruining our relationship help!...
A. 20 July 2006: where and how is he seeing these other women naked
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My sister needs serious help before she does something real stupid! What can I do?
Q. Continuation, I have questioned before for help about my sister and her boyfriend breaking up after six years. This is a continuation of the story. Well for the past 2 years my sister has been working at a horse farm during the summer between u...
A. 18 July 2006: Basicly that, but honestly im very worried about her. I don't want her to get hurt.... (read in full...)
My sister needs serious help before she does something real stupid! What can I do?
Q. Continuation, I have questioned before for help about my sister and her boyfriend breaking up after six years. This is a continuation of the story. Well for the past 2 years my sister has been working at a horse farm during the summer between u...
A. 18 July 2006: bothering me, not boring me... (read in full...)
My sister needs serious help before she does something real stupid! What can I do?
Q. Continuation, I have questioned before for help about my sister and her boyfriend breaking up after six years. This is a continuation of the story. Well for the past 2 years my sister has been working at a horse farm during the summer between u...
A. 17 July 2006: Obivously not, but the fact that she even said that is boring me.... (read in full...)
My sister needs serious help before she does something real stupid! What can I do?
Q. Continuation, I have questioned before for help about my sister and her boyfriend breaking up after six years. This is a continuation of the story. Well for the past 2 years my sister has been working at a horse farm during the summer between u...
A. 17 July 2006: Is anyone reading the fact that she told me to break up with my boyfriend because she thinks what she is doing is right
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At 50 years old-do I find a f**kbuddy or just accept, that she won't give me sex, regularily?
Q. I have a problem I am almost 50 Years of age and I am living with a woman that I cannot seem to get aroused. On the rare occasions we have sex she is almost frigid. Her sex drive is very low. She never asks or even implies that she would like s...
A. 17 July 2006: DON"T EVEN think about an affair, that is horrible. STOP right THERE... (read in full...)
Married and looking my best then i have in years, how to deal with all the extra attention from other woman?!
Q. Hi there. I'm a 33 year old married man. I have a beautiful wife whom I adore and 2 lovely children. For all the world we have a perfect life. I even feel like a bit of a hypocrit claiming i have a problem. You see.. I met my wife when we wer...
A. 16 July 2006: If you truely love you wive, just ignore all other attention... (read in full...)
I love him this amazing guy... And he says he'll break up with his girlfriend at the end of the year!
Q. I'm in love with an amazing guy who completes me but something is in the way of us being together and that person is his girlfriend. I have been inlove wit him 4 bout 5 months but had a crush on him 4 a year and a half but he ays he wants us to be ...
A. 15 July 2006: the first question you should ask youself is why he is going to be breaking up with his girlfriend. Then you should think if he could do this to you later... (read in full...)
He says he won't, but I've heard that all men cheat...
Q. Hello. Well...My boyfriend is going to Amsterdam with his best friend for 21 days next month. I have this feeling he'll cheat on me. (plus, they're staying in hostels where both females and males stay). I can't fight this feeling. He'll be free th...
A. 13 July 2006: not all men cheat, not if they are happy in their relationship... (read in full...)
I think I need to lose my virginity!
Q. Hi I am 14 years old and I feel Im getting to that age where I think I should lose my virginty. I don't have a boyfriend or anything, but I really wanna not be a virgin anymore. Any advice? StIlLaViRgInNY...
A. 4 July 2006: WHAT FOR THE RIGHT GUY. BELIEVE ME IT WILL MEAN MORE TO YOU... (read in full...)
My Bf can't orgasm through oral sex and a hand job-is there something wrong?
Q. my boyfriend gets an erection really easy, but can't have an orgasm by oral sex or a hand job very easy. most of the time the only way he can have a orgasm is by being inside me. what is wrong?...
A. 3 July 2006: Ask him if he masterbates and if he orgasms there. If he does then something is werid.... (read in full...)
We still live together, she says she doesnt love me, but we spent 3 hours chatting and said it was great! what now ?
Q. Hi Guys, I know this topic has been beaten like a dirty rug but it helps me to think straight. Me and my girlfriend have just taken a split, we have been together for 3 years through thick and thin. We still live together and ARE really close...
A. 29 June 2006: I somewhat understand what you are going through. My sister just broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years. Now he is a mess. You see, my boyfriend and i met through my sister and her now ex. My boyfriend is my sister's ex's best bud. What my ... (read in full...)
I am in love with a married man
Q. iam 18 years old,attractive, intelligent girl and my problem is that i think in love with a married man with two kids one year and four year children. he is living with his wife the only time i see him is the weekends when his wife is at work. to be ...
A. 27 June 2006: Inside you know this is wrong. STOP IT NOW... (read in full...)
Worried my older boyfriend might expect more than I'm ready for! What should I do?
Q. I'm only 15 and still very young. I've recently met this guy and we've been dating for about 4 months. This guy is older then me, in fact 3 years older so he at the moment has more experience. He recently broke up with his ex and now that we're to...
A. 27 June 2006: Look any guy that actually cares about you will wait until you are ready. Im 18 and i started dating my boyfriend when i was 16. He is 2 year older but he never pushed me into anything. As he used to say, ill be ready when you are. No ... (read in full...)
My GF doesn't want sex until after marriage, but is it OK to ask her for other sexual activities?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for over 3 months already. We kiss, hug, and cuddle and whatnot. She has no knowledge of the sexual world. She thinks of sexual things as disgusting. I know it isn't right to ask to have sex, especially when ...
A. 27 June 2006: Sex isn't the only thing in a relationship. What is important is the love. You are only at 3 months, let the relationship take its on path. Honestly who is to stay that you will be married in 10 years. And you won't be a lonely virgin because ... (read in full...)
I have a new g/f that is pregnant, but my ex wants me back...
Q. I am 24 and about 5 months ago split up with my girlfriend of about 18 months - she is 29 and has her own house and a 7yr old girl. I still love my ex and she still loves me and wants me back. The problem is my new girlfriend who is 22 is 3 1/2 ...
A. 27 June 2006: You are not being fair to either of these girls. I think you should figure out why your first relationship ended and then decided why it isn't worth going back to. Be there for your pregnant girlfriend, get her to move or you move to her. STOP ... (read in full...)
Is high school meant to be the best time of your life? If so then why has it been miserable for me?
Q. Is high school meant to be the best time of your life? If so then I must be in for a miserable life. I go to hgh school in the UK (i'm 18 and now at the schools sixth form which is like college) and I was bullied really badly. This one guy from whe...
A. 22 June 2006: Bullies are bullies. dont worry about next year at university. No one will know. I have move around alot and people only knew my past that i told them. Next year I am also starting uni. and people will only know the high lights of my high school ... (read in full...)
Found my fiancee's porn collection... I believe it's a form of cheating!
Q. i hate the thought of my fiancee getting off on porn. i have found a collection of it on his computer and was nearly phsically sick. I know this is as people say normal. but it wasent normal 100 yrs ago when marraiges actually servived. When other ...
A. 14 June 2006: I found my boyfriend's too and we got into a fight over it. He was the one that made a decision to get rid of it, which i thank him for. He told me that im more important that the porn. Sure sometimes i worry that he has more. But we have a deal ... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex, period was very light, could I still be pregnant?
Q. I had unprotected sex, I got my period but it was very light compared to normal, even though I got my period could I still be pregnant??...
A. 14 June 2006: just get a home pregnancy test... (read in full...)
Having sex with my best friend's husband..but his 16 year old daughter caught us in bed! Help
Q. Please help I've been sleeping with my best friends husband with her consent. It was a sex arrangement that suited us all and no1 knew, til now. Her 16yr old daughter caught us and don't know what to say. We all want to stay friends but have agreed ...
A. 2 June 2006: ummm, if she really was your best friend how could you cause her so much pain by sleeping with her husband. I really don't think she is your best friend... (read in full...)
my brother's 19yr old friend wants sex and I am only 13, what do I do?
Q. hi i am 13 and i am confused my 19 year old step brothers friend keeps on nagging me and asking me if want to do things with him. he has kissed me plenty of times which i dont mind we hug every time we see each other and we have snogged but that ...
A. 2 June 2006: This is illegal. You are under the age of to agree to sex. TEll him you are not ready yet or break up with him... (read in full...)
Got a date with a guy from college who has a girlfriend
Q. "Hi,I met a guy a few weeks ago-there was some flirting and instant chemistry but was spoiled by the fact he has a girlfriend-but we are going to go out next week. I am coming to the end of my studies and so is he so in a few weeks time we shall be ...
A. 1 June 2006: You don't want to be the other girl. Don't help him to cheat on his girlfriend. Don't go out with him next week. Find some unattached... (read in full...)
I feel me and my boyfriend should just be friends now, what can I do?
Q. I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. I've been with him since I was in high school. Lately I've been feeling like we've grown into mere friends and sometimes I even feel like we're roommates. Just recently when I ...
A. 30 May 2006: Think really carefully if you want to write off this relationship.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend lives far away, will he get fed up?
Q. i have been seeing my boyfriend for about a month, i really like him but he lives quite far and cant see me every day, i understand this but i just feel as though he will get fed up and meet someone who lives closer to him. what do you think?...
A. 30 May 2006: Give the relationship a chance. This past year my boyfriend went away to college about 5 hours away. I really worried about what you are now too. But he actually loved me and didnt even look around. Instead mid-year he gave me a promise ring and ... (read in full...)
Is there a romantic future for us teenagers
Q. I'm 19 and have been in a relationship with a 16 year old girl for almost a year. I'm at University and she's going to start college next year.Whilst I live away, the distance has never really been a problem as we would normally see each other at ...
A. 25 May 2006: If you both love each other then yes there is a future. To relate to my life, im 18 and my boyfriend is 20. This past year he went to college while i finished highschool. We were separated by distance of 5 hours. What we believe is that if we ... (read in full...)
I hate leading this double-life but really dont know what to do!!!
Q. I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend of 5years and have a beautiful daughter aged 3. I'm 22 she is 22. The problem is that our relationship is gone stale.i find it hard to be affectionate to her eg.kissing cuddling up playing with her hair ect...
A. 25 May 2006: how can you even think of leaving the daughter's mother when you are only arguing because of your affair. If the bible states one thing i agree on is that we must be loyal to one, which you obivously arent. You are the cause to the problems and ... (read in full...)
Can my boyfriend enjoy our first-time sex even if I'm not?
Q. Losing my virginity to a mate/ex bf in a few days. Thing is, this is new to me and not to him, will he still enjoy it even if I'm not? I'm expecting the whole pain/bleeding thing that most women get first time so I doubt i'll enjoy it....
A. 25 May 2006: Please wait for someone you love like your soon to be new boyfriend. Wait for the one that will be there for you afterwards.... (read in full...)
Can you be "too young" to get married?
Q. Is there an age too young to get married by other peoples' perspective? Just wondering :)...
A. 21 May 2006: I disagree. Everyone is different and so is their relationships. I know people that have been married since they were young and still the happiest couple you know. Its is a know fact that first loves are designed to last because you tend to grow ... (read in full...)
Will he cramp my style when I go to college?
Q. should i break up with him when i go away to college? my boyfriend and i have been going out together for 8months now but i wil be going away to college in september. im afraid il miss out on the real college experience if im still attached. i...
A. 17 May 2006: I've dealt with a long distance relationship while in university while my boyfriend was in college about 5 hours away. I don't believe it restricted my enjoyment while at school. But in the end its your decision... (read in full...)
Is the age gap to big??
Q. Dear Cupid, I was just wondering... im in the last year of secondary school (year 11) and there is this girl at one of the clubs I go to who is in year 9 (2 years below) and i think she likes me. she is always texting me, giving me presents, eve...
A. 8 May 2006: Don't think of the age gap at all. 2 years isnt much. For one my boyfriend is two years older than me. I liked him when i was in grade 10 and he was in grade 12. Now I am in grade 12 and we've been dating for 2 years. Remember that everything ... (read in full...)
How do I ask this (married) guy for his number?
Q. i work at a place that has a truck come deliever stuff to us once a week. im very attracted to this guy. but i found out that he won't be delivering anymore after next week. i want to ask him for his number but im way to shy and scared of what he ...
A. 28 April 2006: Look you don't want to be the other girl! What about his family and wife? Honestly move on, affairs affect everyone. the wife, husband and you if the guy doesn't end up leaving his wife and just carrying you along. Find someone else
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How do you stop a bad influence?
Q. I know that if it is meant to be everything will work out. But how do you stop the friend that a bad influence and who is always there from destroying it?...
A. 28 April 2006: I have tried to me more accepting but these bad influences have causes troubles in our relationship as my bf as you could put it, does "stupid" things with him. Some that are bad. Like my bf knew smoking kills and wasnt a smoker. But because his ... (read in full...)
How do you stop a bad influence?
Q. I know that if it is meant to be everything will work out. But how do you stop the friend that a bad influence and who is always there from destroying it?...
A. 28 April 2006: I have tried to me more accepting but these bad influences have causes troubles in our relationship as my bf as you could put it, does "stupid" things with him. Some that are bad. Like my bf knew smoking kills and wasnt a smoker. But because his ... (read in full...)
How do we resolve our constant arguing?
Q. my boyfriend and i just got over a rough patch of trust being broken. But the problem is that now we tend to argue a lot over little things. We plan to get married, yet we can get over this little stupid fights that sometimes turns into large. For ...
A. 26 April 2006: It was him that borke the trust with me. We both are happy in the relationship. We just fight about stupid irrevantent things. Its like we fight and then the next moment afterwards everything is fine, almost like we didn't fight. But the ... (read in full...)
How do you stop a bad influence?
Q. I know that if it is meant to be everything will work out. But how do you stop the friend that a bad influence and who is always there from destroying it?...
A. 26 April 2006: he is the best person to me when i am just with him. He is the best when he comes home from school to see me, about 5 hour drive. He lied to me for 4 months to be social with this bad influence. I forgave him for it but its hard to forget. I feel ... (read in full...)
Know my girlfriend wants it, but I'm scared to do anything in case I'm crap!
Q. I have been going out with my gf for 3 weeks. I know she wants to get off with me...but I'm really shy. All my mates tell me to do it, but I'm scared if I'm crap. What do I do? ...
A. 14 April 2006: Wow, slow down. If you have only been dating her for 3 weeks then you are rushing into something too quickly. You should never feel pressured into doing anything. If she already wants sex she may just be using you for sex. Maybe you should ... (read in full...)
I think I'm too young to have sex with my boyfriend, but I keep thinking about it!
Q. I am 15 and I have been dating this guy for almost a year. He's getting his license soon and I know when the time comes I'll probably want to have sex. But I'm too young and I know that. How do I keep from wanting to do bad things?...
A. 14 April 2006: I you believe you are too young then don't jump into it. Take you time. Remember you only have one first time, so make it worth while with someone you love and when you are ready. Your first time will be with you forever.... (read in full...)
I want something to happen with me and a work colleague, but he's married!
Q. About two months ago i was chatting online to a work colleague, he is about 25yrs older than me. After a while it became obvious he had had a few to drink and was suggesting some rather sexual things.Because of my personality i played along but he ...
A. 14 April 2006: People can say anything they want but you will never know what happens behind closed doors. Stop and think about what you many be doing. Think about his wife, do you want to be the other girl? I think you should just move on and find someone who ... (read in full...)
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