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writes: Hello.Well...My boyfriend is going to Amsterdam with his best friend for 21 days next month. I have this feeling he'll cheat on me. (plus, they're staying in hostels where both females and males stay).I can't fight this feeling. He'll be free there, lotsa girls around him.. Besides, he's really good looking and attractive for most of the girls. He tells me he won't ever cheat on me but, there's this doubt. Even if he does, how will I know, how can I come over this feeling, should I trust him or is it true that all men cheat? :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): No. All men do not cheat. I have more faith in the men of today and so should you.
I think that having someone you love and spend so much time with tells you they are going away for a bit would be crushing. I think your fear; although genuine, have no real basis. I think that your fears lie more in you and how you view yourself then how he is.
Irish is right-you expressed your concerns and he gave you an answer-have faith.
Best of wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): You have told what is in your heart and he has reassured you nothing will happen. There is nothing more you can do. You can either believe him-trust him...or this could really fester inside of you. Why do that to yourself? Be positive and don't bring it up again. If he's always been true to you and there is a real, binding force in your realtionship..you won't have any worries. Any other woman coming onto him, will likely make him feel complimented (because he's not dead)...but they will not tempt him. But in the end, your boyfriend will make his own choices. This will be a time that you both will have to hold fast to your commitment and you need to rely on his common sense and good judgment. Think hard about what type of person he really, really is and if you see a loving, committed man...you'll both be okay. Good luck, dear.
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reader, chunky_monkey +, writes (13 July 2006):
not all men cheat, not if they are happy in their relationship
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reader, sexc_sadie +, writes (13 July 2006):
 If he truely has feelings for you he wont cheat on you, it doesnt matter how preety a gurl is if he loves you. Don't think the worse. If he tells you he wont ever cheat -- he wont! :)
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