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writes: i have been seeing my boyfriend for about a month, i really like him but he lives quite far and cant see me every day, i understand this but i just feel as though he will get fed up and meet someone who lives closer to him. what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, lovesickallthetime  +, writes (28 January 2011):
the thing is that trust is what makes a relationship. I have been in a strong relationship for 10 months now with a guy that i see maybe once a month because he lives 2 1/2 hours ago. Every chance we get we talk and that makes all the difference. To make sure your relationship willl work out i recomend talking to him and telling him how you feel about him and make sure he knows and if he does make the most of the time he has with you then you know he is going to love you and if you keep the relationship strong on your end he will see how much you like him and how much you want it to work even though you are hours away. Good luck
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reader, boyLuver100 +, writes (8 July 2010):
I no just how u feel i recently started having a new boyfriend and he lives like 2-3 hours away.... i dont think he will get fed up with u but try to keep talkin to him bcuz if ur afraid he might get mad. than just keepin him happy with u by tlkin to him. its better to talk to him and be expectin wht can happen than to just not talk and have him really fed up. but just dont constently try tlkin to him. i feel the same about him meetin another girl. i was afraid he could find someone and cheat on me but i figured he likes me alot and he wouldnt do tht. if u no tht he really likes u and wht he likes about u than maybe u can be even more better than u already are and than he DEFINTLY wont meet anyone else. sorry if this is alittle confusin i'm not tht good at these haha lmao but i hope it helps :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): if ever when he is around he tries by all means to make every minute count then there's nothing to worry about. do not make axcuses when he is not around. 'cause he will not be fed up as you think. you know you have to be tenacios and stop stressing yourself.iam also in a distance relationship and it's going very fine and its my third year now and we its good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2006): Trust me, if you want to make it work, you'll make it work weather its 3 1/2 hours drive or 14 hours i should know, but unfortunately my world has been turned upside down tonight, funny how things turn out.
Give it a chance and you'll work it - shame the girl i thought i was fallin in love with dont wanna know.
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reader, chunky_monkey +, writes (30 May 2006):
Give the relationship a chance. This past year my boyfriend went away to college about 5 hours away. I really worried about what you are now too. But he actually loved me and didnt even look around. Instead mid-year he gave me a promise ring and now i know he is looking for an engagement rings as i had imput. Just give everything a chance and if it is meant to be it will work out
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (30 May 2006):
 Hey give the relationship a chance. Its not nearly got off the ground yet. Just because you cant see each other all the time doesnt mean you will like each other any less. Let him know how you feel, not full on, but mention that the distance is a bit of a pain and that you are keen, and would depsite this really like to make the effort to have a good go at a relationship. Just see how things go, just because you are not around the corner doesnt mean hes going to find someone else. Hes been in a relationship with you for a month, so he likes you, dont go worrying just yet. If you like someone enough you dont get fed up, you find a way of being together and make the effort. At least your wont be living in each others pockets and will be giving it a chance to grow and flourish!
Good luck
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