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writes: Hi Guys,I know this topic has been beaten like a dirty rug but it helps me to think straight.Me and my girlfriend have just taken a split, we have been together for 3 years through thick and thin.We still live together and ARE really close but she doesnt love me anymore.One thing that im stuck on is the second night after she told me she went out drinking with her friends and it WAS the longest night of my life. I managed to go to sleep before she came home and when she came hoem she woke me up and we had the most enjoyable 3 hrs together if you know what i mean.She told me she didnt know i was capable of that and for the moment all felt good.. Until the next day.So let me know folks if she said she doesnt love me does that mean she hates me if she can come home and tell me that stuff..Im hanging in there hopefully and praying and im gonna try to keep my distance.Advise Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): Well i bought her lingere yesterday and she thought it was so hot so we did it for a bit and then she said this doesnt mean were back together so hopefully we can still maintain a sex life lol She was asking me who i was....I think she just has to feel like shes being bad so it aint over yet .........Im ok with this arrangement while she makes up her mind.. I even told her i would sleep on the couch if she asked...She hasnt yet lol...
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reader, Marie82 +, writes (30 June 2006):
Ive been in the same situation as your girlfriend was so I think the best advice that I can give you is to try and explain how I was feeling when in her shoes.
While I still had really deep feelings and respect for him, I didnt love him anymore and I felt as soon as there was that inequality between his and my feelings, the relationship couldnt work. The last thing I wanted to do was hurt him but I had no choice if I was going to be happy. Its a two way thing and because I was unhappy, the relationship was really strained.
Relationships sometimes just come to their natural end, even if its not what you want to happen. So long as youre still wanting to be with her, you're stopping yourself from finding someone out there that will love you as much as you love them, and you can be happy again. If youre meant to get back together, you will. Give her space to decide what she wants, and you have to think about what you want too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2006): thank you for your help god this is the first time ive ever had these feelings before and im 25 oh god.... I know time will heal all but i cant stop bothering her were still really good friends god this is the hardest thing i have ever done
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reader, chunky_monkey +, writes (29 June 2006):
I somewhat understand what you are going through. My sister just broke up with her boyfriend of 6 years. Now he is a mess. You see, my boyfriend and i met through my sister and her now ex. My boyfriend is my sister's ex's best bud. What my sister said happen was that they became too comfortable around each other and would decided to stay home at night instead of going out. And then my sister wanted to go out but left like she couldn't. What happened in your relationship could have been something that scared your girlfriend and caused her to need a break. Just never give up, if you love some one let them be and if they love you they will come back
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