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How do I properly satisfy my curiousity?

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Question - (6 September 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Ok to put this bluntly I've fantisized about having sex with another male since I was in my late teens. The only way I can think of, to try this out is meeting someone online, especially in my area. Obvisouly I want to be safe both physically and sexually. I've been chatting with 2 men I've met online, both are older. Would meeting one of them be a bad idea?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011):

meeting someone is the only way to find out isn't it...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011):

Yes its okay to meet him. Just make certain its during the day at a place where lots of ppl are. It should go well, just relax n make the most of it.

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A female reader, Fate100percent United Kingdom +, writes (7 September 2011):

Are you gay or just curious do you mean? Why can't you just meet people in a gay bar for instance, get to know them, have a gay relationship etc??? Or is it just gay sex you are after do you mean?

Meeting people that your only know online obviously has risks. So if you do decide to do that is there anyone you can confide in as to where you are going etc?

I don't want to scare you, but remember people aren't always as they seem on line! They may be perfectly nice people, or they could even be homophobic or something and just want to beat you up. Be careful and if you do it, have someone check on you by phone or text before and after to make sure you are ok!

Best of luck! x

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A male reader, CASA DE FIGUEROA United States +, writes (7 September 2011):

As long as you are single and not cheating on anyone i say go for it. But beware cause you may go gay and never come back. And also gay sex does not compare to real sex cause the butt is not lubricated so you gotta use alot of water based lubricant and condoms! Use protection please! And please tell me your gonna be thegiver cause if your the receiver than OUCH! thats gonna hurt! Most receivers cant walk the next day. Good luck! Peace..

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