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writes:I can't sleep, haven't been able to for a while now. It's not as if I'm lying there staring at my ceiling doing nothing - I know what's keeping me up; my thoughts. Problem being, I can't seem to stop them. I over-analyze every situation and more importantly think about the future, try and predict it... think about all the "if only's". If I do manage to get to sleep, it's very fragmented - I wake up pretty often and if I get up to get a drink of water or whatever I won't go back to sleep.I've always had it, but I solved it for some time by doing more exercise - which I still do. I go on runs every other day and hit the gym whenever I can, but it's not helping any more.The main subject of my thoughts are a girl who I've liked for a while. She liked me too, or so I thought. Turns out over the summer she no longer likes me. I've accepted this and as far as I can consciously tell, I've let go and feel... nothing about her any more. Why can't I get her out of my head? Other girls are interested in me, and I've tried to get myself interested in them but I just can't... I can't seem to feel anything about anyone anymore. I'm apathetic about everything and I don't want to be! God knows what I can do, hopefully someone here will be able to help me!Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2011): Cheers bud.
Thing is, it's not as if I'm feeling sad... I'm not. I don't feel anything but I keep thinking about her - which is stopping me from sleeping. I just don't understand it, but perhaps it's best left that way.
MR REPLY to this is yeh its strange hearing it from someone else, as i was in your boots, i no whats its like, it drives you absolutly mad, its perfectly natural what your feeling and it will take time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCheers bud.
Thing is, it's not as if I'm feeling sad... I'm not. I don't feel anything but I keep thinking about her - which is stopping me from sleeping. I just don't understand it, but perhaps it's best left that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): Hello mate, I can guarantee you 100% that every single boy/man in the world has been in your situation before.
Its a horrable feeling, but you will get over her, it will take time, could take weeks or months, but you will get over her.
Another thing, if you cant get her out of your head at the moment it aint doing you no favours trying to date other girls, just chill for now have fun going out with your pals. Even speak to your mates individually, they WILL NOT take the piss out of you trust me.
Was in your boots about 7 months ago, and i moved on.
GOOD LUCK
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reader, CASA DE FIGUEROA  +, writes (5 September 2011):
You should not worry too much about this because your very young and you have to learn that girls are gonna come and go, thats how you will find ultimately the girl of your dreams. Your around 16 and 17 and your hormones seem to be all over the place and thus making you really emotional like sadness for no reason. Just stay cool and dont worry about it, think about the future and all the amazing girls you will meet.....YOUR WELCOME!..Im saying this and know this cause I know what your going through and Im also in the same age range as you. Hope this helped dude.
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