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writes:Guys please help me, there is this girl in my class that I love, I already told her how I feel and I told her that I want to be with her.. but she says she doesn't know what to do or how to react to this feelings I have. we get along but we don't really like spend that time together, because we keep being distracted by our work and she loves spending time with her friends. anyway, I asked her to meet me alone, but I don't know what to do or what else to say to her when we meet. Please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (8 September 2011):
 Wow. Ok first you're coming on too strong to her. This is the reason why she didn't really know how to respond/react. You'll be lucky if you didn't scare her away. Especially if you've asked to meet her alone somewhere.
If, by chance, you do have the opportunity to speak to her again, apologize if you came on too strong and say something like you think she's very pretty, or smart, or whatever (say something complimentary- but make it genuine) and you would really like to get to know her. Hand her your number and say that whether or not she calls is up to her, but you would really like to speak to her again. And then walk away.
*Because your first impression didn't go so well. I'm advising you to put the ball in her court and see if she's going to call you. USUALLY I recommend that the guy ask the girl for their number, but in this case there's an exception.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2011): Prove to her that you're worth her time. If you want to be with her, make her happy by doing things that will make her life amazing. Surprise her with a trip somewhere she wants to go, bring her gifts, show her you're not just saying words. Prove that you like her enough for her attention, then you can start asking her the serious questions about what she'd be interested in doing.
Worked for me at least.
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reader, CASA DE FIGUEROA +, writes (7 September 2011):
You should tell her that you are atracted to her but dont tell her that you love her cause then you will sound like a stalker. Be somooth, take things slow and just ask her out on a date and see where things go. Tell her to give you a chance. good luck!...Peace..!
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