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writes:Hello,There is a supervisor at my job who I would always have small talk with and she's very accommodating when I ask her for something work wise. Sometimes I'm so busy I don't get the time to talk to her. I can admit that I do find her attractive, but since lately she's been a bit passive aggressive towards me or she'll just walk by me and not talk to me. One day she made a remark that she doesn't like me, but not in a serious way. Do you think this person is falling for me? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 December 2016):
 Hmm from what you have wrote I think she is trying to let you know she is your supervisor and nothing more. She was friendly you thought oh she is attractive. You probably gave off some signs and now she is avoiding you like the plague because she does not want to be caught up in anything. Treat her like she is your supervisor and leave it at that.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (19 December 2016):
 I agree with Auntie BimBim,
I don't see any attraction going on here from her end.
My advice? Stick to being nice, polite and PROFESSIONAL - you are at work to ... WORK, not look for dates.
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reader, blueskyday +, writes (19 December 2016):
She could possibly of had feelings for you. It seems as if she's noticed her behaviour is inappropriate and has since backed off. Don't jump to conclusions. Maybe you offended her in some way. There are a number of possibilities for her actions. It already seems as if you're falling for her, considering you care and have noticed she's changed. Be careful what you wish for. Don't go out of your way to re-create what you once had. Things will eventually smooth out if you continue to act professionally.
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  +, writes (19 December 2016):
 Ha ha! Brilliant! If she is friendly, she fancies you. If she is not friendly, she fancies you. Get you!
She is being a supervisor. Her job is to keep in contact with her staff. The fact that she is "very accommodating" work wise means nothing more than she is a good supervisor and trying to keep her staff happy.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 December 2016):
 From what you have written it would not appear she has fallen for you, he not talking might be because she has picked up the vibes you are interested in more than a workplace relationship.
Tread carefully, if you assume too much from what appears to be normal workplace interactions you could put your job in jeopardy.
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