Why can't I conceive yet?
Q. hi i and the coil in for 4 years and i got it took out last tuesday this month i had intercourse wit my husband and he came and i done the test on monday but it came back negative can you tell mewhat the problem could be that i can't conceive yet ...
A. 15 September 2010: You tested too early you should wait until your next period would be due and test if it does not show up on that date.... (read in full...)
Married man says he needs a "cure" to marry me?? What does that mean?
Q. i have just came back from turkey i meet a lovely kurdish waiter i spent two days with him before returning home he was lovely to me treated me like a princess he has a kurdish wife and daughter back home in east turkey he told me about his wife he ...
A. 15 September 2010: He wants to obtain a Bitish Passport once he has that you will be out of the picture. Do not lower yourself to this this man will make a fool out of you - don't go and see him do not contact him.... (read in full...)
I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one?
Q. I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one? I think all that talk when I was a teenager back in the mid 80/s about AIDS put me off for life!!!!...
A. 30 August 2010: You are not the only one in a world with so many people in it that would be impossible.
Find somebody get to know her, make sure you like each other enough and go for it. Use contraception and if you still have any niggles go and get yourself... (read in full...)
Anyone ever used "smooth leg" hair removal product?
Q. Hi mates, has anyone used ' my smooth leg' ? This is a hair remove product for men and ladies ( you guys can check out this product by doing a google search). Hair grow on my leg and my thigh. Should i get rid off it? I dont like the hair cause it ...
A. 25 August 2010: Men are supposed to be hairy why there is this trend for the male body being made to look softer and more feminine I do not know.... (read in full...)
How do I ask this boy for his msn?
Q. hi how do i ask a boy in my class i dont really talk to for his msn! u need a exuest . should i ask the people he hangs about with who are my friends ? and how do if i do , what should i say please help thanks xx...
A. 23 August 2010: Instead of hiding behind your computer why don't you just strike up a conversation with this boy anyway?... (read in full...)
Should I start to wear make-up or do I just forget about it?
Q. Not sure how to word this question...basically I'm 16 and I've never worn make-up. Does that mean it's too late to start? I have no knowledge of how to apply make-up the right way. I know that if I one day decide to suddenly start wearing it, people ...
A. 23 August 2010: First of all you need to find out what shades suit you and which foundation is best for your skin type. The best way to do that is to experiment a little even better some of the larger branches of Boots and department stores with beauty counters ... (read in full...)
Advice on removing hair from my legs
Q. Hi, should i use the hair remove product to get rid off the hair on my leg, thigh? Cause summer is coming up. It doesnt look great when u are wearing the short pants with the hairy legs. Just wana mention that my hair is black. It looks very obvious ...
A. 22 August 2010: Men are supposed to be hairy all this new fad of having smooth hairless skin on a man is a load of rubbish really. Men should be men.
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I hate being the single one!
Q. Im 13 and idk i think there is something rong with me. Like i see all my friends getting boyfriends and im jus hear watching them haavin fun. ihatee being the single one sometimes. Well truely ireally like this guy and idk if he likes me baac. One ...
A. 20 August 2010: You have many many years ahead of you to get boyfriends. Right now the main thing for you to concentrate on is your education.You're 13 relationships are of no consequence to you right now, be sensible about this.... (read in full...)
Tattoos... a turn on or a turn off?
Q. Help, i find tattoo's a real turn off my gf is planning on getting one, im worried it would make me feel less attracted to her tattoo's i dont mind on other people, i keep my opinion to myself unless asked on what i think about tattoo's in g...
A. 17 August 2010: If you love her you will overlook any tat she gets. No idea why you find tatts disgusting though. It's the oldest form of adorning the body it's not a huge issue you seem determined to make it into one though.... (read in full...)
I am worried the 13 year old I had sex with is pregnant!
Q. I am 13 i had unprotected sex with a girl my age but now i have a weird feeling that she's pregnant,and i need some advice...
A. 17 August 2010: You both shoudl have thought about the consequences BEFORE you decided to have unprotected sex. She may well be pregnant you are both to blame if she is. From here on in the responsibility lies with you and this girl - she needs to get tested you ... (read in full...)
Is 3 years later too late to report being raped?
Q. well, heres the thing when i was 14 i lost my virginity to rape. i kissed him first and willingly chose to be alone with him so i feel like i lead him on partially and am not entirely blameless in the situation. but then he did it to my friend. she ...
A. 16 August 2010: A rapist is walking the streets you know this you are one of his victims - you must go to the police. Ideally you should have told somebody at the time but please do it now.If you know the names and addresses of the other girls give them to the ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me because I don't have a job or a car
Q. i have recently broke up with my girlfriend of 4 months, we were getting along so great untill this week. she seemed really distant from me and really moody in everything i did, then she broke it off with 2 days ago, saying that she cant do this ...
A. 16 August 2010: If she can't wait just a few more weeks for you to have a job when you have done all you can to get one and if you having a car is so very important to her then she is shallow. Forget about her move on.... (read in full...)
My father's porn addiction is tearing my family apart :( How do I deal with this?
Q. I'm finding it very difficult to cope with my family atmosphere at home at the moment. I live with my parents and a teenage sibling, and a few times in the past I have stumbled across my father's pornographic materials, like books, videos and ...
A. 16 August 2010: I understand you are shocked at your discovery but he is still your Dad.
He has no desires towards you or your sibling which is what you imply and he did not intend for you to see what he was viewing (maybe he thinks his own bedroom would be... (read in full...)
He's blackmailing me since I broke up with him...
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 14 months and he he will not accept that it is over. He keeps threatening to come and house and tell my parents all my secrets and if i don't reply to his texts he rings the house phone which means i have to ...
A. 16 August 2010: Tell your parents. They will be more concerned that you are been put through this than whatever you and your ex got up to. Yes if they ask you how he is blackmailing you it may be embarrassing to admit to the pictures but your own wellbeing comes ... (read in full...)
Withheld Unknown number keeps calling my cell!
Q. i have a problem that has bothering me for the couple of days...i have a new number on my cell and someone has been calling me for the couple of days with the withheld number and unknown number....please i need to know the number of the person who ...
A. 13 August 2010: Answer the phone. I can't understand why you would come to a website like this with this question.... (read in full...)
Help! I need help with my marriage!
Q. Please, please could someone help me? I have been in a relationship with my husband for 11 years and married for 5. He has always had difficulties - he doesn't like watching me eat or drink, he doesn't want to sleep in the same room as me bec...
A. 13 August 2010: What possessed you to even conisder marrying this man in the first place?.He clearly does not loveyou I am struggling to believe that he even likes you. Leave this marriage you need a man who will love you and everything about you.... (read in full...)
Does this text mean anything special?
Q. Hi guys! A little advise would help! A guy friend of mine sent me a text saying "I'm leaving England... Bye XxX" can any one tell me what that would mean? Especially after the fact that he hasn't told anyone else....
A. 13 August 2010: It could be that his family are taking him away in order for an arranged marriage to happen (does he have family in Pakistan or India or anywhere like that?).
The text suggests that he has only just found out that he is leaving and he just wan... (read in full...)
I want my bullying nasty sister out of my life forever!
Q. hi to everyone,i have problems with my younger sister,infact the WHOLE FAMILY has problems with her.shes always been trouble ever since we were kids and has a very nasty streak,she bullied my younger brother and sister as children.she is now in her ...
A. 13 August 2010: If you seriously want her out of your life then you could try getting an Injuction taken out against her but there would have to be reasonable grounds in teh eyes of the law for you to be granted one.
If that is not the case then just ignore h... (read in full...)
She wants me to get out of debt but spend money on her
Q. hi cupids, I need a little assistance regarding my gf and my money, she wants me out of debt, as do i, but im finding it hard, i think this latest monetary setback is another thing pushing her away. She tempts me with things like resteraunt m...
A. 9 August 2010: Does she ever split the cost of anything with you? For instance eating out etc? If she doesn't maybe it's about time to put the idea to her just once a month maybe she could split the bill with you or maybe she could treat you to a meal or ... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 3 August 2010: I love that he acts like he cares - no man has ever done that for me before no man apart from this guy has ever been interested in me and what I have to say.
In fact no person ever has just this one guy. I'm the product of rape so I should n... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 1 August 2010: I meant I'm hurting enough being involved with him I can never talk to him unless he comes online - he rarely replies to text messages. I do not have his landline telephone number and I have no idea where he lives. I'm very attached to him I knew ... (read in full...)
13 and never had a boyfriend!
Q. I am 13 and have never had a boyfriend! I read most of the questions on here and sometimes I get so upset and sad because I see others people my age talking about their relationship and how they love them and ect. At school pretty much everyone ...
A. 29 July 2010: Try not to concentarte on it too much I realise it can be difficult to deal with but a boyfriend is not the be all and end all in life. Personally, I never had a boyfriend the whole time I was at school I didn't have a relationship until I was 17. ... (read in full...)
Risk of diseases from anal sex
Q. Hey guys, whats the risk of diseases of doing anal sex? by the way im (13). My boyfriend (16) wants vagina sex but im not ready so we do anal and i want to know what risks there are of doing it? Im also really horney all he time and he wants me ...
A. 29 July 2010: I had to read this question twice to make sure that I wasn't seeing things!!
You are underage and your *boyfriend* is, in the eyes of the law commiting rape. Simply because YOU are not old enough to legally give your consent. You can say yes to h... (read in full...)
She's 13, I'm 16 and we like each other but her mom wont let us see each other!
Q. i am 16 and there is a girl that is 13 and we both like each other one day i told her she was pretty and her mom wont let her hang out with me!!! wat should i do???? i need some help...
A. 29 July 2010: Her Mother is right not to let you see each other. What you said makes her think you have an interest in her daughter.Find someone your own age.... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 28 July 2010: Can't really hurt any more than I already am. ... (read in full...)
Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?
Q. Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since. About ...
A. 27 July 2010: Do you have proof that he is actually divorced? He could have told you this just so you will keep on chatting to him.Even if he was a member of an online dating site - that makes no difference to his marital status.
But you have to remember... (read in full...)
I want another dog but he said "no" with a load of silly reasons!
Q. Hello I really don't know where to start but I'll try my husband is an only child and I'm not sure if this is where the problem is I can have anything I want materialistaly but any thing else is a no no we did try for a baby without sucsess and now ...
A. 26 July 2010: Are we talking the type of dog that is a house dog, that you take for walks, feed and stroke and pet OR are you talking about one of thos etiny things that you absolutely must have with you at all times being "mummy" to it etc etc.
If it is the l... (read in full...)
All I want is to meet somebody! Will I be alone forever?
Q. I'm 30 years old and a single father. I've been single for four years now. I'm not good looking - some might say I'm ugly and although I'm not fat I don't have a great body. My ex cheated on me then walked out on me and my kids for another man. ...
A. 26 July 2010: To feel unwanted is awful and because of that we often settle for second best. I myself have these issues and nothing ever turns out great. I don't really know what to suggest I guess all I can say is that maybe someone will come along when you are ... (read in full...)
It would be nice if he was more confident in our relationship!
Q. Hey guys. About 5 months ago me and my bf came out to each other. We were best friends and did everything together...and about a month ago we started being a couple. We get a long great and everything flows but he's a little shy. When it comes to ...
A. 26 July 2010: Have you not thought that maybe he is not as into it as he says. Perhaps "coming out" was a way for him to make sense of his feelings maybe he's scared of any of the physical stuff as he is not sure where it will lead. He's young you both are maybe ... (read in full...)
I can't sit and watch him kiss drunk girls while I'm working hard to change!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been on hiatus for about 2 weeks. I have posted my problem here before, and I do admit that my insecurities did end our relationship. The past week has been good. We are talking as friends and he keeps emphasizing that ...
A. 26 July 2010: This man has made it quite clear to you that friends is all you and he can be. I know only too well how insecurites can end relatiosnhips and it's no fun to see your ex moving on.
If you think you can handle just bening friends and not getting ... (read in full...)
My dad is going to press charges against my 21 year old boyfriend!
Q. i am in a relationship with a 21 year old guy, and im only 16, i had kept this away from my parents but one night they heard me talking on the phone with him, and they asked my sisters who it was and they told my dad i had a 21 year old boyfriend. ...
A. 24 July 2010: If this guy has touched you in any way at all even if you let him, legally you don't have the right to consent to any sexual activity with a man who is over the age of consent as this guy certainly is.
Basically this guy can be charged with sta... (read in full...)
I don't want sex yet, how do I tell him to back off without being harsh?
Q. I was wondering your adivce on the best way to talk about having space with someone and slowing things down a bit, without going overbooard and scaring the other person away. I have been seeing this guy for just over 3 weeks now, and we get along ...
A. 24 July 2010: All you can do is talk to him honestly. Just tell him that you like him a lot but you would prefer to work up to sex slowly. If he is into you he will respect your wishes if not he will go or try to persuade you. But please never have sex with a guy ... (read in full...)
How do I prove I'm not gay/bi ??
Q. I'm 15 and i got drunk at a beach party last week i ended up making out with 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 of the guys wasn't drunk and apparently really like me but i REALLY don't like him and he wont leave me alone no matter what i say or ask. And ev...
A. 24 July 2010: Firstly what possessed you to even consider drinking alcohol at your age?. For a start your liver has not finished developing properly you are damaging it before it could even begin to cope with ANY alcohol.
Second you can't prove a negative... (read in full...)
He never bought me a gift from his travel abroad?
Q. What does it mean if you date a guy for five months, during which he travelled once abroad and he never buys you a gift even when he returned from his trip? ...
A. 24 July 2010: Did he buy gifts for other people? .i.e family, friends etc? If the answer is no then I wouldn't over-analyse too much.
If he did however then there was really no excuse for not getting you anything even a little trinket even if it didn't c... (read in full...)
Will my intense questioning drive him away?
Q. Sometimes I think to much, I over worry and feel the need to ask my boyfriend a question about what I am thinking of. I am quite scared that he is going to end up finding this annoying but I don't know how to stop. Like right now I just watch the ...
A. 24 July 2010: In a word - yes.
I'm guilty of doing this very same thing myself and was told only the other week that I was a "self fulfilling prophecy".
Clearly you have insecurities within relationships and that manifests itself in all sorts of ways wi... (read in full...)
He stopped molesting me, but is he about to do it again?
Q. ok, im going to try be to the point here. im 17yrs old now and from the age of 12 to about 4months ago, i have been sexually molested by my moms boyfriend (lets call him joe). so joe has stopped abusing me now, but a few nights ago i was working on ...
A. 24 July 2010: First of all it is NOT stupid to be scared about what has happened and what is happening.
The truth is honey that this man is preying on you. He most certainly doesn't love you he is just trying to lure you into being someone that he can act out ... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 23 July 2010: I have asked myself if it is true what he tells me and quite honestly I don't know. I only know how I feel when I'm with him. I've never been very sociable I'm not the type of woman who can meet a man very easily. I'm very shy and quiet when a man ... (read in full...)
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