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writes:I'm 15 and i got drunk at a beach party last week i ended up making out with 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 of the guys wasn't drunk and apparently really like me but i REALLY don't like him and he wont leave me alone no matter what i say or ask.And everyone has found out about me kissing 2 guys and most people think its fine as i was drunk and it was an accident but some people think that i might be bi or gay, honestly i dont remember any of the kissing! and i know i dont feel anything for those girls.how can i prove that i'm into guys?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): You do not!!!! If you think that you have to have sex with a bunch of guys to "prove" your not a lesbian STOP and seriously think about the consequences. Your young, and these things happen. Even if you'd been sober and had sex with one of the girls, it doesn't mean your gay. It means you had sex... so relax.
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reader, blue_eyes1981 +, writes (24 July 2010):
 Firstly what possessed you to even consider drinking alcohol at your age?. For a start your liver has not finished developing properly you are damaging it before it could even begin to cope with ANY alcohol.
Second you can't prove a negative. If you feel you have to prove yourself to these people who are your so-called friends then I 'm sorry to say you need new friends - proper ones.
I know you are young and you want to have fun but you are heading for big trouble if you carry on with this under-age drinking. And if you are not into somebody walk away do not get off with them it's pointless.
Sorry for the lecturing but you need to take care of yourself. Have fun by all means but lose the alcohol and the casual getting off with everybody around you.
Take Care.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 You don't have to PROVE anything to anyone. If you don't want to kiss/date the Guy (or girl) you kissed, tell them you are not interested. And honey, stop drinking if you can't control yourself or you will end up in a dangerous situation real quick.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 All you have to do is date a guy that you are into and not care what anyone else thinks. Making a big deal about it will just make it worse. Also try not to let it happen at another party. This kind of thing happens all the time and passes quickly, esspecially if it was just making out.
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reader, a_seidner06 +, writes (24 July 2010):
 Ok, in elementary school I was teased for asking out a girl. I was dared, but of course none believed me. I just sucked it up. I didnt need to prove anything to anyone. I knew the truth. You didnt say anything about getting teased or whatever so maybe this is not a big deal. You were drunk and yes I believe you should have but thats all adults, right?
One thing is for sure, if your a virgin-Dont give it away just to prove this.
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