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writes:I am a 38 virgin, am I the only one?I think all that talk when I was a teenager back in the mid 80/s about AIDS put me off for life!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): your not the only one. I know a 51 year old virgin and she is the happiest person i ever met. but you could just be Asexual???
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): Thank you all for your kind words.
But I think most women would hate me being like this.
The funny thing is that people would not belive it about me becasue of my looks!!!! You know that guy would played Robin Hood in the 1980`s . Waht`s his name in Robin of Sherwood , the one with the long dark hair. I have been told over the years , that I look a bit like him!!!!!!!
Women do not understand that good looking men can be more shy then ugly men!!!
If you live in the Uk you will know what I mean about the Aids adds!!!!
J C
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (30 August 2010):
 Hey I loved that movie 40 year old virgin. I'm sure there are men who are virgins..plus you can adjust them to your likings. Now, if you happen to find a woman you really want to be with and want to sleep with her then I would ask her to provide proof of her last gyno visit and her results from being tested from STDs, and AIDS. Got to see the papers, most people can lie and say they've been tested recently when they haven't been tested since 05 and only god knows how many people they've slept with since then. Protect yourself always!
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reader, blue_eyes1981 +, writes (30 August 2010):
 You are not the only one in a world with so many people in it that would be impossible.
Find somebody get to know her, make sure you like each other enough and go for it. Use contraception and if you still have any niggles go and get yourself tested.
You need to find somebody that you trust because if you come across a woman who wants to spend her life with you and wants to have a family with you, you cannot use condoms for the rest of your life.
Maybe you should try some counselling or therapy because it sounds like you have developed a deep-rooted fear of sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): Thirty-something male here. Virgin. And I don't care. Many people will never understand that one can have a happy, fulfilling life without having sex. They are just too busy copulating and deluding themselves that sex is the end-game, the best that one can get in life.
They know nothing. And their mental development usually stinks, which is an euphemism for saying that all of their other brain functions are usually irreversibly atrophied. Hell, if it weren't so, there wouldn't be millions of zombies watching stupid, vulgar mind-candy TV programs that need not be mentioned here.
So... Be proud that you have more than enough intelligence and willpower to not behave like the masses and to consciously choose when to get involved in something and when to step back.
My advice to you? Find a woman with a great personality, preferably a virgin, and marry her. She'll fulfill many of your desires, not just physical ones. And you'll grow in each other mentally and spiritually, not only physically.
Just my two cents.
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reader, SnowStorm51 +, writes (29 August 2010):
Well...I'm only 20, which is almost half your age...but I'm still a virgin and perfectly ok with it; it's my decision, afterall. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): 25 and a virgin. Not for want to trying though. So, you are not the only one!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): yes
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): If you read dc you will discover you are not the only one. The adverts of the 80's were designed to frighten you, but into safe sex, not into now doing it all all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): i should tell u guys that im really impressed...i mean nowdays finding a virgin girl is almost as impossible as to find a girl who looks exactly like paris hilton lol
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (29 August 2010):
 Well if it gives you any comfort, I am a 27 year old virgin!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2010): Dont worry, you are not the only male vigin in their 30's. If you have sex, i suggest asking your partner about their "past", make sure they dont have any STD's, or AIDS. I think it is wonderful that you are worried about catching a diesease, because some people dont care, or think about the risks, including pregnancy. Make sure to wear a condom. And if you get an STD or AIDS you will have to take pills for AIDS and most STD's can be cured. Dont worry about it. You dont want to be a virgin for the rest of your life, do you?
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