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Is there such a thing as too perfect a relationship???
Q. Basically before this guy, i didnt believe in serious relationships in your adolescence. i met him freshmen year and now we're going into junior year and still together, even though i switched schools. our relationship has been nearly perfect with ...
A. 12 August 2009: I don't see the problem. I've been with my guy since my junior year of high school and its still great. We're engaged now because of our 'perfect relationship' My best friend dated her boyfriend since 9th grade and now their married with one kid and ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want a long engagement?
Q. Is it wrong to want to have a long engagement? I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2.5 years and yesterday I proposed. This is something that she's wanted for a very long time and its something that I really wanted to do when I did. I want ...
A. 2 August 2009: No you're not wrong. In my opinion what you are doing is very smart. Why rush into it? I REALLY REALLY want to know the man I marry. My boyfriend and I are doing the same thing. We set our wedding 3 years before it is to happen. As of now its about ... (read in full...)
We've had threesome and now my husband wants to try swinging! But I get upset at the thought of him wanting another woman. What should I do?
Q. My husband wants to swing I thought I could try this but I didn't do so well I got mad and had a fight with him. He wants a little fun in our marriage so I thought I could do this I don't know If I can do this without getting mad and arguing with ...
A. 1 August 2009: You shouldn't do anything you're uncomfortable with. Once you've told him that you aren't comfortable with the idea of swinging he should drop it. If this is causing arguements before it even happens, what is going to happen after it takes place? ... (read in full...)
Is he trying to get me pregnant again?
Q. My partner and have an 11 month old and have had a few financial difficulties over the last year. We both want more kids (I'm thinking 2, he wants 3) later on when I'm finished with school, financially caught up, and have a ring on my finger ...
A. 30 July 2009: From what you've said, yes it sounds like he is trying to get you pregnant. You told him that he would have to use condoms because you're not on birth control and he just 'forgot'? 4 times??? I highly doubt that, especially since he's been hinting ... (read in full...)
Hairy? Or non hairy?
Q. I happen to think women with at least a little bit of pubes down there is good..i mean no offense to anyone who shaves it completely off but who would want it completely bald..i mean i would feel like a little girl..and i kno it might make oral sex ...
A. 15 July 2009: Every guy I've ever been with has liked it completely shaved as well. ... (read in full...)
Sex music?
Q. Me and my girl have got this list going of really good songs to have sex to...i was wondering if anybody can suggest anything else in the lines of rock, metal, or goth. Here's what we got (not all, but some): "Poison" by Alice Cooper "Cou...
A. 8 July 2009: Type O Negative-Love you to Death, September Sun, Black No. 1, My Girlfriends Girlfriend. In Flames-Come Clarity, Evil In a Closet, Square Nothing, Reflect the Storm, Zombie Inc. Autumn Offering-Bleed Together, From Atrophy to Obsession, Obsid... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with sleeping around! Can he still be in love though?
Q. how is it possible that a man can ever be truly committed to someone when they're all so obsessed with sleeping around? how can a man fall in love with anyone, when all they're concerned with is tits and ass? i know it happens--that men fall in ...
A. 6 July 2009: This is a disgusting generalization, I would really listen to what satindesire said because she worded it perfectly. Every single person in this world is differnet, true that some people have the same habits as others, but that in no way gives ... (read in full...)
If it's okay for men to meet visual and sexual needs through porn then surely its okay for married women to date and go on romantic outings with other men to have their romance 'needs' met?
Q. I often hear men (and some women) claim that porn is ok for men within relationships because they are 'visual' and only seeking thrills....etc If this is the case and these people like to stereotype then the other side of this argument is that wom...
A. 5 July 2009: Seriously, female anonymous, did you read your own comment before posting it? Are you saying that it is wrong of men to find ANYONE attractive outside of their partner? I mean, you did say:
"If our men are interested in other womens bodies w... (read in full...)
If it's okay for men to meet visual and sexual needs through porn then surely its okay for married women to date and go on romantic outings with other men to have their romance 'needs' met?
Q. I often hear men (and some women) claim that porn is ok for men within relationships because they are 'visual' and only seeking thrills....etc If this is the case and these people like to stereotype then the other side of this argument is that wom...
A. 5 July 2009: This is so far beyond ridiculous. Watching porn is the same as dating?....I don't think so. First of all, its not just men that watch porn, women do it too! *Gasp* Shocker I know, but its true. Talk about sterotyping. Secondly, yes the people in ... (read in full...)
Can homosexuals practice tantric sex?
Q. Is tantric sex only for heterosexuals? can lesbians/gays practise tantric sex? any guidance? i dont wish to buy any books or videos.......
A. 5 July 2009: Tantric sex isn't restricted to straight people, its about a complete connection of your body and your soul while you are having sex. The absolute epitome of intimacy and love. Gay people can connect just as well with their emotions so it works for ... (read in full...)
I've never had sex, but I've masturbated before and bled. Am I still a virgin or not?
Q. Hi, i was wondering about my virginity. I masturbated a lot when i was a teenager but not as often now. The reason i stopped was i bled a little when i inserted a handle into my vagina.then tonight i decided to try masturbating using ice. the thing ...
A. 5 July 2009: You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse, so you are still a virgin. There is nothing that needs checking. Virginity is lost when you have sex, so if you haven't had sex you're a virgin. ... (read in full...)
My socially-retarded brother invades our privacy
Q. Anytime my girlfriend of 3 years comes over to my place (we usual go in my room), my brother/roommate likes to walk in on (he picks the lock) me and my girlfriend when we're making love, and splash us with a bucket of water (we're usually in our ...
A. 16 June 2009: Go ahead and beat the shit out of him! What the hell is the point of disrupting your love making? I would be so mad, SO MAD if that happened to me! You could threaten to beat him up (or just do that, I think he deserves it) I'm assuming you have ... (read in full...)
What do you call a cheater?
Q. A few years ago I caught my wife having an affair with a co worker of hers. When I caught her I called her a slut. She became very angry I said that and has not to this day let go of me using that word. Why? Isn't a cheater a slut?...
A. 16 June 2009: SHE hasn't let it go? Excuse me? This woman cheated on you, betrayed your trust and is mad at YOU for calling her what she is? I'm sorry, that is retarded. Yes, she is a slut because she cheated on you. How dare she be mad about that! You should be ... (read in full...)
Mother trying to force her religious views on me and break up my marriage
Q. My mom (she's christen) doesn't like my wife (of 3 years) because she's atheist. My mom has been on my case about it since she read her facebook religious status. She says if I don't find someone who believes god or I'll cut out her will and I'll go ...
A. 15 June 2009: You are NOT being unreasonable!!! I sincerely hope that no one comes on and tells you otherwise. You should love your wife and refuse to leave her over what your mom says and it really is pathetic that she would say those things to you. You are ... (read in full...)
Question about morals in today's world!
Q. Hi. Would I be right in saying that if a man and a woman fancy each other and are exposed to each other for sustained periods of time (i.e. months/years at work) then basically they are going to sleep together regardless of whether or not one or ...
A. 12 June 2009: I am going to repeat what everyone else has already said: NO! That is not a correct assumption at all! People can be faithful if they want to. Just because you spend lots of time with someone doesn't mean you HAVE to sleep with eachother. If you are ... (read in full...)
When did you start dating / when were you allowed to start dating?
Q. Heyy! I was just wondering, what age did you start dating/were allowed to date?? Because I have had a crush on the same boy (we are both 15) for a few years now, but my mum said that even sixth formers (16-18yrs)only have a boy/girlfriend for a 'f...
A. 12 June 2009: My parents are really religious and I wasn't 'allowed' to start dating until I was 16. I didn't care about that though, I was never into their religion and it was my life so I didn't listen to that rule. I started dating my first boyfriend when I ... (read in full...)
Should I put my foot down or am I overreacting?
Q. I am 34 weeks pregnant and I have been married for 7 months. My husband, however, is still visiting a dating site and contacting the women on there. He does let them know that he is married, but he wants them to send him messages and pictures. I ...
A. 12 June 2009: I agree with all the other people, you are NOT overreacting, that is your husband and you are pregnant with his child! What the hell is he doing on a dating site? What is he going to do about any of it? Start cheating once he finds someone ... (read in full...)
My current guy isn't compatible with my needs and wants
Q. Hi, im new to this site and hope someone can really give me advice on what im going threw right now.... my topic is which lover do i choose First of all i've been in a realationship now with my boyfriend who is now 24 for a year now..im 21 and w...
A. 9 June 2009: Well, the jobless criminal who lives on his cousins couch does sound like quite a catch from what you've described... But personally I think I would pick the other guy. I think you should pick him too.... (read in full...)
He still wants to have sex, but not live together, is he using God as an excuse?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 4 years and have been living together for 3. I don't know how to define a ''good'' relationship, i'd say it is, with the occasional arguements of course. We're both 21. Recently he's gone through a ...
A. 9 June 2009: This guy wants you to move out so he can do what he wants unmonitered, and yes it sounds to me like he is trying to end this relationship in a really lame way. If he was serious about his new faith the sex would stop AND you would move out. I'm ... (read in full...)
I keep cheating on him when I'm drunk, what should I do?
Q. I'm in a relationship with the best boyfriend ever. He would do anything for me and we love each other dearly. He's three years older than me, and works full time, whereas i am a student at university. Truthfully he's my first love, i have nev...
A. 7 June 2009: Ummm, stop drinking? If it is JUST the alcohol that makes you cheat (which it probably isn't and thats a lame ass excuse) then if you stopped getting drunk you would stop cheating. Theres probably more to it though if this happens everytime you get ... (read in full...)
He read my journal and accused me of cheating. Was all this my fault?
Q. My boyfriend of 7 months and I broke up today. Last night, while inside the gas station paying for gas, he stayed in the car and found my journal. He began to read it and found out that I slept with someone in the time between I broke up with my ...
A. 7 June 2009: I can't see anything that you have done wrong here. You weren't dating him yet so why does this have anything to do with him? Sounds like he is jealous of the other guy maybe because of that song, or some other reason. This guy sounds like a dick to ... (read in full...)
Are guys being selfish if they stop having sex after they orgasm?
Q. This is a question for men. Can you control how long you keep your erection for? Is it subconcious and out of your control or is it somewhat of a 'skill'? The reason I ask is because my boyfriend now can keep it hard for as long as we want to have ...
A. 6 June 2009: Hey everybody thanks for the answers, I guess its good that they weren't being selfish cause its out of their control. First female anonymous you sound just like me, I felt deprived too once I started having sex like this, and when you said "these ... (read in full...)
Sex with my ex but he has a pregnant girlfriend, I feel I'm going mad!
Q. Help me please im really messed up i split with my guy last year but im still in love with him we where only together for 8 months, The thing is he now has a gf and sees pregnent and i wish it was me that was having this baby, and the other day i ac...
A. 6 June 2009: That is really pathetic of him, in my opinion. That shows he has absolutely zero class to stay with his pregnant girlfriend but cheat on her. He deserves no respect for doing something like that and I couldn't love someone I don't respect. I agree ... (read in full...)
What did she mean by this comment?
Q. What did she mean with this comment? Ok, so we're eating cake just celebrating my boyfriend's B-day and he's joking around about how he got no presents nor anything to unwrap. And she says, 'Well I'm sure she gave you something to unwrap.' And just ...
A. 6 June 2009: It sounds to me like she was saying you were going to have sex with him for his birthday. ... (read in full...)
Wondering how people's 'first times' were?
Q. Okay so I've been awfully curious about how different first times having sex has gone. This isn't like an advice needed thing. I would just like to hear how male and female first times went. Did you regret it after? What made you feel like you were ...
A. 5 June 2009: I was 14, my boyfriend was also 14 and we were eachothers first times. I had no regrets after and I still don't. I had been dating him for 8 months. It was the day before Valentines and he had flowers sent to my class so that made me want to do ... (read in full...)
I find older women very attractive, is there anything wrong with that?
Q. Ok im 18 f i have this problem. I seem to find older women attractive but i simply cant be coz its just wrong it says in the Bible. I dont know what to do. Please help!...
A. 31 May 2009: I don't where you heard that but thats not in the bible and theres nothing wrong with finding older women attractive.... (read in full...)
Bi-sexual men-what are their real preferences?
Q. Bisexuality--I am female, and I think I'm bisexual. I've never been with a woman, but I have fallen in love with a few, and I am sexually aroused by (some) of their bodies. I am also very attracted to men, and have fallen in love with them as well....
A. 26 May 2009: If he is saying he would really really really love the cock and worship it he is definately way into guys. No straight man would ever say that, I don't think. I would stick by what I said with him being mostly into men, but sometimes liking women. I ... (read in full...)
Bi-sexual men-what are their real preferences?
Q. Bisexuality--I am female, and I think I'm bisexual. I've never been with a woman, but I have fallen in love with a few, and I am sexually aroused by (some) of their bodies. I am also very attracted to men, and have fallen in love with them as well....
A. 26 May 2009: I don't think this guy is going to be black and white straght or gay, most people aren't like that anyways. But for him to say 'tolerate the pussy' and 'really love the cock' shows that he is definately more inclined towards men. If he were really ... (read in full...)
He has shown sexual interest, but how soon is too soon to have sex?
Q. I'm going on a date with a guy I really like. He is almost ten years older then me but that doesnt bother me at all, however he has indicated that he is interested in me sexually as well. I feel the same spark as he does and would do it in a heart ...
A. 24 May 2009: My boyfriend has proposed to me and has bought me 2 rings on our one and 2 year anniversarys, so yes we do want to marry eachother. We aren't married yet because we are both only 19, he doesn't want to get married until he is 21 and he wants to have ... (read in full...)
He has shown sexual interest, but how soon is too soon to have sex?
Q. I'm going on a date with a guy I really like. He is almost ten years older then me but that doesnt bother me at all, however he has indicated that he is interested in me sexually as well. I feel the same spark as he does and would do it in a heart ...
A. 24 May 2009: I had sex with my boyfriend on the first date and we have been together for over 2 years now. So no it doesn't mean he is going to leave the second he has sex with you. He was oh so hot and I wanted to do him, so I did. In my mind, we were just ... (read in full...)
Should girls shave their pubic hair, or do guys find it attractive?
Q. ok i hope no one thinks im nasty or something but should girls shave pubic hair? or do guys find it attractive for girls to have it? im not haveing sex or anything i just wanted to know? ...
A. 23 May 2009: All the guys I have ever been with liked it shaved
I've been with a guy who said they wanted some hair.
And I like having it be nice and clean and hygienic.... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 20 May 2009: Oh goodness, I really wasn't looking to get into an arguement here, I was just curious about this. But, to dear 19 year old annonymous, how dare you! If you really think that only the 'bad' kids have sex at 14 you are extremely close-minded and a ... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 19 May 2009: OK, after 35 answers, here's my official count:
12-one
13-five
14-four
15-four
16-four
17-two
18-three
19-three
20-one
21-one
22-one
23-two
25-one
26-one
29-one
32-one
33-one
37-one
So, there we have it, 13-16 were the most commo... (read in full...)
A poll regarding virginity
Q. I am wondering at what age most people lost their virginity? This is a really interesting subject to me and I am just curious, I googled it and it says the average age is 16, but thats seems a little old to me. It also said like only half of the ...
A. 19 May 2009: Hey everybody, thanks to everyone who answered! This was really fun and interesting to me and I got way more answers than I thought so thanks! I was 14, seems to be that is a pretty common age to lose it. Once again, thanks to all that answered!... (read in full...)
What porn do women like to watch?
Q. My wife and I love watching porn together, but I admit porn is geared more toward men. What kind of porn is fun for women to watch?...
A. 18 May 2009: Its going to be different for every woman, just like it will be different for every man. My boyfriend will only watch it if the girl is platinum blonde, period. Nothing else. I bet there are lots of guys who only like watching brunettes. I don't ... (read in full...)
How long does a women want a man to last in bed?
Q. How long should a man last in bed? How long does a women want a man to last?...
A. 18 May 2009: I, personally, like it to go for a long time. Hours at a time is very fun for me, but that's just me and I am a very sexual person and I know not all men can do that but it doesn't HAVE to last for hours, I can have an orgasm in under 10 minutes, ... (read in full...)
Any tips on how to give a good blow job?
Q. i've never thought about giving my boyfriend a blow job before until last night he asked me to give him one. i had no idea what to do. any tips on how to give a good blow job?? thanks xxx...
A. 16 May 2009: Focus on the head. Lick and suck and swirl your tounge around the head and he will love it. ... (read in full...)
He's better than me... should I push him away?
Q. He has been my friend for 3 years. We get on really well. I trust him enough to cry in front of him and he always makes me laugh. He told me that he likes me more than a friend and I really like him but he is better than me. He has a law degree and ...
A. 13 May 2009: I have been, and kind of still am going through this right now, but I can tell you that you should not push him away. I am in the same situation so maybe I can help because of my own personal experience. My boyfriends family is very very VERY rich, ... (read in full...)
How can you make a woman feel sexy?
Q. Hi there, Simply put, I'd like some ideas on what can you do/say to make a woman feel really sexy......
A. 21 April 2009: Something that I love is when we are having sex he will look me right in the eyes and tell me "You're so beautiful!" I love that! Another thing that I like is when we are about to leave the house and go out to dinner he will eye my up and down, look ... (read in full...)
I feel too fat, he says too thin ...
Q. I'm 5'2" and 97 lbs. My boyfriend of four years is 5'7" and 185 lbs. I constantly feel overweight, though. I feel like I want to lose at least ten pounds! My boyfriend tells me I'm crazy for thinking that. That I'm stunningly beautiful the way I am ...
A. 21 April 2009: I am 5'4", I weigh 106 pounds and the guy I am with absolutely hates overweight people. If there is anyone in the world who would come out and say someone is too fat, it would be him. I weigh 9 pounds more than than you and we've been together for ... (read in full...)
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