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anonymous
writes:Hi, i was wondering about my virginity. I masturbated a lot when i was a teenager but not as often now. The reason i stopped was i bled a little when i inserted a handle into my vagina.then tonight i decided to try masturbating using ice. the thing is, the ice isnt all the way in, cuz i couldnt seem to get it inside, so i held it in (three quarter of the ice was inside) with a finger on my vagina and let it melt. it stayed quite past a minute before i realized i was bleeding.i was wondering whether ive really torn my hymen this time.Am i still a virgin? how do i check whether im still a virgin or not? for your info, ive never had sexual intercourse and intend to stay that way until im married.
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reader, Skellington  +, writes (7 July 2009):
 I think that you only lose your virginity when you have sexual intercourse for the first time. You have not, only masturbated, so I would still consider you a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2009): hey thnx for the replies....its just that i am really looking forward to...you know...actually bleed on the wedding night....i thought ive broken my hymen when i bled a few years ago, so when i bled last night it took me quite by surprise.plus i never thought the ice would break it if anything else didnt....i am quite disappointed really...
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reader, Blondy +, writes (5 July 2009):
 You are a virgin until you have sexual intercourse, so you are still a virgin. There is nothing that needs checking. Virginity is lost when you have sex, so if you haven't had sex you're a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2009): You may have torn your hymen, but that tears pretty easily. You can even rip it just doing sports! You are still a virgin. Even if you masturbate with a dildo you are a virgin. You have to have sex not to be.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (4 July 2009):
 yes it is possible u broke your hymen hence the bleeding.
yes u are a virgin because u need to have sex to say u are not.
altho if u do marry, u might not bleed on your first nite, we cant be sure, but im guessing the hymen did break.
good luck
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